Aquarius man, Cancer woman?!
Question: Doomed? Or is there a little hope?
Answers: Doomed? Or is there a little hope?
Flowers, all I can say is "Yikes".
I assume you're the Cancerian woman in question. As such, you demand undying loyalty and commitment, and sadly, Aquarius is not the man to give it to you.
You, my fellow Water Sign, are all about the heart and emotions. He's all about the mind. He can be shallow, fickle, and emotionally distant. You want someone whose very soul you can share.
You're shy and home-loving; he's chatty and flaky.
As a Pisces woman, you and I share very similar qualities. I can tell you that I had a miserably failed relationship with an Aquarius...miserable because of the very reasons I previously stated.
I would advise you to look for Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn or Pisces...but if you can understand him and tolerate him him for exactly who and what he is, you can give it a go. I just don't want to see your heart get broken.
Birthcharts... we need birthcharts to know :P (well not me because i dont have the required skills to interpret them)
go to "astro.com" (google it) and set up a free birthchart for you and your lover, and compare them... see where your weakness and strong points stand and conclude yourself if theres hope or if its doomed...
Im sorry i cant help you more...
The social side of the Aquarian may prove to be just a tad bit too much for reclusive Cancer. Aquarian's love to share their life stories while cancer keeps it to themselves. Cancer people have a conservative taste; Aquarius's tastes are usually the opposite.
The odds against this combination are not bad and this combination could work, but one will have to become at least somewhat subservient to the other, deciding which would be fun to watch!
Cancers are sensitive about everything near and dear to them. so never say bad things about her family members. They possess humor and pay attention to all her handmade quilts and homecrafts. They taste everything they cook--yummy! If you are not marriage-minded, don't play games with Cancer women.
Aquarius will go all out to 'improve' everything around him, and this will include trying to change Cancer, even though the initial attraction here is for the quiet, domesticated, and sensitive aura of the Cancerian. Cancer's clingy nature is not likely to let Aquarius change her in any direction.
To try to do so will be to drive her into her shell; Cancer is very proud of, and satisfied with their intuition, and Aquarius is proud of the Aquarian logic. There are likely to be many arguments stemming from this aspect of their natures.
Aquarius can live a full life with Cancer being almost an after-thought, as the Aquarian will spend a lot of time with friends, and out doing favors for, or helping. Cancer could begin to feel left out and ignored leading to eventual fights.
If he airs his feelings about believing the truth to be the most important thing in the world, then she will take to speaking out, and could become a nagging complainer, which would keep Aquarius upset.
Sexually they are on a par with each other, but Cancer will find herself having to do the enticing before Aquarius can get his mind on something else.
Don't try to put words into your Aquarian's mouth. There's a time and place for everything. Aquarius man needs detachment, the Cancer woman needs closeness.
The Aquarius man may make the Cancer woman feel sexually liberated, but once he’s uncovered her secrets and told her about everything under the sun, he won’t hang around for long.
You know..it's pretty much up to you two. Yes..I read horoscopes--and eerily-was told I would have a female visitor-a sister or mother-coming from abroad..Low and behold-my sister came to visit when she got back from Holland..
However--while some of it may be so--there is also the element of us being human with free choice..Other things enter in too..dumb stuff-like does his-or her underwear bunch up too tight, or do you need a Sudefed...or is the dog happy to see you-what was the Barometric air pressure--or are you just in a good mood that day because some one offered you M&M's...There are other factors in life besides Horoscopes that effect you..Me? I just found out someone I just met--and rather like-has inoperable Pancreatic Cancer that's metastasized-- (spreading into other organs)...but...
...I am SO happy to have the opportunity to know this man. Horoscopes are not the ruler of us...We have some measure of guidance in our lives. My friend? He may or may not be around long..I may be hit by a truck tomorrow-my parents were. We just don't know..But we DO have control to take the the opportunity to become the ME we can be--for ourselves-and for others around us...those we know, those we love-and those we have yet to know.
For my friend--he has a list of thing he wants to do yet..I feel privileged to share this list--as much of it he'll let me share. It's an honor. How many of us have--or take that chance? Or want it? With that in mind-it's sacred-and even a joy between us and God.
The Future is always full of Promise..what we do with that promise is up to us...How much do you both want it? How strong is that want in you that will make it work..How patient are you..when do you stop being patient and start being proactive for yourself...THAT'S the key. I've waited my whole life for a man like this-and he won't be able to be here long- so I don't intend to waste moment...and I'm sure not going to let a little thing like death from cancer scare me.
There's a bigger picture than Horoscopes, babe. God's bigger than we know.
Blessings~
PS...he's Leo..I'm Scorpio...beyond that-I don't care.
My mom's a Cancer and my stepdad's an Aquarius. They've been together for 10+ years and are still going strong. They still flirt like they did when they first met. It's kind of obnoxious but kind of cute at the same time =) Of course, they do get on each other's nerves at times but their love is SO strong that the little annoyances are overlooked. Good luck!
Aquarius and Cancer
Completely opposite is what comes to mind when a Cancer and Aquarius meet up for romance. Cancer’s feet are planted on the ground while free-spirited Aquarius is ready to play! Cancer is like a reliable movie – one that you watch on rainy days. Aquarius, on the other hand, is like a summer blockbuster – complete with all of the wild special effects! While these signs are so different, it doesn’t mean they can’t get along well together. If they can appreciate their different personalities, these two signs could compliment each other nicely.
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