Aries, capricorn, scorpio love triangle!?!


Question: I'm a scorpio. He's a capricorn. She's an aries.
Here is the deal. Cappie confessed to aries that he liked her, but she rejected him. that was a year ago, but they remained friends. I met him at work and surprisingly, me and the aries used to be friends when we were younger. I kind of suspected his feelings for her and asked her about him. Asking if he was fair game and if she knew anyone who liked him. she told me to go for it. I feel very comfortable with the cap, we have lots in common and I'm defintely loving his personality. Then recently i notice that the aries has been trying to get his attention. Although it pains me to see how much she cares for him and how hard she's trying to hold on to him, I can't bring myself to do the same. I don't want to control his feelings.
I have a taurus(moon), she has a cap(moon) and astrologically, her chart is compatible with his and so IS mines. It starting to look like a close tie..
So I just want some input as to where you see this going?


Answers: I'm a scorpio. He's a capricorn. She's an aries.
Here is the deal. Cappie confessed to aries that he liked her, but she rejected him. that was a year ago, but they remained friends. I met him at work and surprisingly, me and the aries used to be friends when we were younger. I kind of suspected his feelings for her and asked her about him. Asking if he was fair game and if she knew anyone who liked him. she told me to go for it. I feel very comfortable with the cap, we have lots in common and I'm defintely loving his personality. Then recently i notice that the aries has been trying to get his attention. Although it pains me to see how much she cares for him and how hard she's trying to hold on to him, I can't bring myself to do the same. I don't want to control his feelings.
I have a taurus(moon), she has a cap(moon) and astrologically, her chart is compatible with his and so IS mines. It starting to look like a close tie..
So I just want some input as to where you see this going?

Before we discuss the triangle let's discuss your Sun/Moon opposition. Check the first link in my sources. "You have a natural conflict between your emotions and your ego, and you unconsciously communicate this psychological hang-up to your associates, family, friends, and even your romantic partners."

You got to find a middle ground between the Scorpio and Taurus energies, it's meeting in the middle between your Sun and Moon that you will have the most strength.

I wouldn't worry about the Aries gal so much because Capricorns have a long memory. If she turned him down before I doubt if he'd consider her seriously again. Aries and Capricorn are both Cardinal signs, and as such are squared to one another. Aries are impulsive and hot headed, Capricorns are deliberate and give thought before acting on something.

Interestingly enough she has a Sun/Moon problem too. Aries with Capricorn Moon could be squared. See the second link. "This suggests the existence of considerable inner stress and tension within the personality, where solar will is in conflict with deep-rooted feelings, emotions and instincts, and where the consious and evolutionary self may be trying to move in a direction which is contraty to certain habit patterns, especially those connected with security and protection of self boundaries."

Even if his Capricorn Sun is conjunct her Capricorn Moon, he'll run into that square to her Aries Sun. If he does hook up with her, he will regret it because she has to work on her own issues before dealing with a relationship.

That being said, Scorpio and Capricorn are sextile to one another, meaning there's an opportunity for the combination to work, but only if effort is put into it.

If you hold on to your Scorpio secrets and don't talk to him about how you're feeling about him, how will he ever know? Earth signs aren't as psychic as water signs. I know it's hard to open up and tell folks how you feel. You might want to "test" them, drag red herrings across their path to see if they are bright enough to figure our your mysteries. But that's just game playing and it won't work with a Capricorn.

What will work is for you to be hard working and industrious. What will work is for you not to sully your reputation.
What will work is honest communication, not moaning and groaning about "the other gal", but about what sort of relationship you two are "building together". Capricorn men like stability in their women. They like a woman who is level headed and practical and who they can trust to do the right thing when push comes to shove. I doubt if the Aries with her Sun squared her Moon in Capricorn have those qualities.

But first and foremost, get hold of your own issues with the Sun/Moon opposition that you (might) have first. Understand that some of your feelings of insecurity stems from that and not from your Capricorn fellow.

Don't hold feel that sharing your feelings with him, about him, about the future the two of you can build, as manipulating is feelings. It's being honest with your own. If that touches his heart in a positive way, then good. If it makes him run for the hills, bless him as he goes, for he has saved you a boatload of wasted time and effort in a go-nowhere relationship. It's like thanking the boss who fires you so you can go off to find a better job.

I feel you have strength. You can do it. Just remember that you're a water sign, with insight. He might need things to be explained to him in real words, not hints. Ok?

indulge the cappie with gifts! buy tyem things, they appreciate it when you do this, my brother has mostly earth signs in his chart and is quite materialistic, show him u care by buying him cute things and in a subtle way show him you like him, the aries is probably going for him because she sees it as a challenge, she prob knows u like him and wants to see who wins, she may not care about him, but get there b4 she duz! what moon sign is he!? and what venus sign is he, try to find ways to impress him by looking at his moon and venus signs!

Wow, sounds like a totally sticky situation you've found yourself with. As a Cap, I wouldnt wanna messing around with Scorpio and Aries women!

In terms of Sun-Moon aspects, you have an edge over the Aries because Aries-Cap Sun is one of the most challenging combos around. Even though she has a Cap Moon, there's bound to be that push-pull factor involving she and the Cap and from what I see, she may be initiating all over again because she cant stand to lose (Cap, Aries are proud cardinal leadership signs). As a Scorpio, you are naturally more in tune with the Cap and your Taurus Moon is a bonus as it trines very nicely with the Cap Sun, even better than a Cap moon placement (moon in its detriment).

But you know, feelings cant be forced so this Cap dude has to come to his senses first and be aware of what is going on around him - 2 women fighting for his attention! For all you know, he may not even be aware of it - some of them are just so emotionally oblivious that u might wanna give them a whack on the head as a wake-up call. It's he who calls the shots unfortunately...i wouldnt want him to be with me if his heart is with some other women to be honest....thats how i feel in your shoes. See if you can get some hints from him regarding the situation ...most Cap men are rather cut off from their feelings really and appear nonchalant about a lot of things bit inside, they're actually sensitive and very afraid of rejection, much like a Scorpio...probe him gently for some answers to your doubts but avoid a direct confrontation. They dont do well with those.

He's better off with you. Trust me.

Talk to the capricorn about it, Aries are like this, they need attention and the first thing to do that is to flirt and then wriggle their way into their lives, aries don't know that they are doing anything wrong, but everyone knows that the aries are the ram- therefor they "ram" their way into lives.



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