What are the best ways to communicate with a virgo?!
Question: My boyfriend is a virgo, an I'm a cancer, and as of today we have been dating for 6 months. I can't belive it's been a half a year already. But, right now he is on a flight back at our home, while I need to stay in my hometown because it's my grandfathers birthday monday. I really wanted him to be there tommorow, but he said he didn't want to go. My mother and her boyfriend don't like him too much their both Libras andthey just tolerate him. What are some ways to get him to get along with my mom and her boyfriend? Plus, it really upset me that he didn't want to go, even though he has met my grandfather before. But, recently there hasen't been too much communication between us...I think something might be bothering him, because his cell is off and he hasen't responded to my e-mails yet. How do I get him to come around?
Answers: My boyfriend is a virgo, an I'm a cancer, and as of today we have been dating for 6 months. I can't belive it's been a half a year already. But, right now he is on a flight back at our home, while I need to stay in my hometown because it's my grandfathers birthday monday. I really wanted him to be there tommorow, but he said he didn't want to go. My mother and her boyfriend don't like him too much their both Libras andthey just tolerate him. What are some ways to get him to get along with my mom and her boyfriend? Plus, it really upset me that he didn't want to go, even though he has met my grandfather before. But, recently there hasen't been too much communication between us...I think something might be bothering him, because his cell is off and he hasen't responded to my e-mails yet. How do I get him to come around?
you shouldn't have a hard time communicating with your virgo cause he's a mutable sign, and this gives him the gift of conversing and communicating with others. he's probably shy or nervous about being there for your grandfather's bday because that's how virgos are,and even if he has met him already, he's probably nervous that things won't be perfect if he's there. when virgos make decisions, they are first well thought-out and they generally do make wise decisions because they're cautious. maybe you should just trust him on this one. about the issue on talking to him, just keep waiting for his calls or emails or something if he doesn't say anything to you then nothing will be your fault because you're just trying to find out what's wrong. maybe something is bothering him and he's just still thinking about it and whether to confront you or not. and yes the libra and virgo don't usually get along as friends if they are in-laws, but maybe they should just talk things out first and try to find a common ground, because he is your boyfriend and so he should at least try to get along with them, and they should try also. virgos and libras are smart and good at organizing and keeping clean and tidy, so that's a good thing. they should appreciate these things in eachother and not focus on the bad things. you're a cancer so you care a lot about him, but sometimes he needs some time alone to think about things and his problems, he worries and stresses a lot and you should just give him some time, but keep trying to talk to him.
use logic....that is the best way to deal with him...
are you certain this one is your "forever love"
I have a hunch you can do better.
this is the problem with virgos who are born after 10th sept.....sometimes they want break from the daily things just to freshen up...too much of one thing bores them.....let him be alone for some time.
edit: yeah i see that librans dont like virgos much....i mean my libra best friend doesnt like my virgo man.....i think for you this tolerate thing will stay for some more years..
Go slowly. Virgoes hate to make mistakes. He is a solitary person, whose social group is small. He may appear cold but inside himself, he's cares but he shows it differently than most people. Virgoes tend to step back and go in a solitary state to analyze and break everything in small pieces. That's their nature. They have to digest all this data . So don't worry, he will raise the issue by himself and needs no reminder.
Don't cross him or don't barge in or force a discussion when you see that he is thinking, give him time to break away from his thoughts.
Virgos are however very fastidious and critical of the personal habits of others, which can be a big turn-off and prevent you from achieving a fulfilling relationship, or even participating at all in the messy business of involvement.
They are unwilling to discuss their innermost feelings with anyone save a very trusted confidante, so anyone who wishes to get to know him deeply must be prepared to persevere.