Sagi women, I need help. (Cancer + Sagitarius)?!
Question: I'm a Cancer boy and I have found a Sagittarius that I adore to no end. I was wondering if you guys know any practical information that isn't all over the net already about Sagi women. What to do to get her to fall for me mostly, and what sort of characteristics are most important to know when first dating. I am an absolute Cancer through and through.
Answers: I'm a Cancer boy and I have found a Sagittarius that I adore to no end. I was wondering if you guys know any practical information that isn't all over the net already about Sagi women. What to do to get her to fall for me mostly, and what sort of characteristics are most important to know when first dating. I am an absolute Cancer through and through.
I'm a Sagi female and I have Cancer in my 7th house of partnerships and marriage. That means that I'm easily attracted to guys who have Cancerian qualities. The point is it's possible to find a Sagi woman who will fall for a Cancer and marry him!
My advice to you is don't be too moody or sensitive around her. When Sagittarians joke, we tend to be blunt and direct. I have a Scorpio mom and a Cancer sister who often take offense at my jokes! Like tonight, when my mom was harrassing my Virgo sister about not being clean enough, I joked that she (my mom) had a home that stunk like old woman. This was funny to everyone around me, but for Scorpio mom, this started a fight.
Like Cancers, if a person isn't being truthful, consistant, or sincere, we will correct the person.
Keep the communication lines open. And like horses, we need space. We're also very independant. Needy types need not apply.
Don't be surprised if she doesn't cook, clean, or act very girlie. Unless she has alot of planets in Virgo, a strong Moon, or a strong Saturn, cleaning/cooking/very feminine stuff probably won't be her forte. Remember, Sagi is very masculine sign. We Sagi women suck at being the traditional wife. Travel and adventure is more our thing. When you're with us, we'll take you to some exotic place.. even if it is armchair travel.
To get the girl to fall for you, you need to get to know her first. Subtle flirting will most likely be ignored. Say hi when you see her and maybe invite her to lunch! Try to be her friend before being her boyfriend.
Remember, like horses, Saggies have to be approached in a certain way. You wouldn't try to approach a horse with your hands behind your back or approach the animal from behind, would you? Don't stalk her or try to be a playboy or use some stupid pick-up lines either. That will just get you some horseshoe prints on your pants. You wouldn't believe the amount of men I've bucked for trying that stuff.
Okay, I'll shut up now.
Some people say Cancer Sagittarius don't work. I'm not sure about that.
But as far as I know, I am a Cancer and I have a Sagittarius best friend. I'm quite surrounded by Sagis as well. We seem to click well with each other.
BUT again, Sagittarius sometimes voice their opinions aloud -their words speak louder- and the Cancers will get hurt. Then you'll be all moody and stuff. Sagi will then make it up to you.
Don't forget that Sagis are really hard-working. Their work can be their number one priority. Others comes later.
And Sagis want to be loved. So show your love.
I think Jesus should be the only love in your life. I think this "sagi woman" . I don't know if you mean "saggy" or what, but I think she stands for something else. I'm guessing you haven't excepted Christ into your life, and fear his awesome power. I bet she, in your subconscious, is God. You want to better your relationship with God, even though you think you guys are opposites. Don't worry, God will always love you! Even if you are a star worshiping freak. God loves you WAY more than any star ever could.
OK i am sag and I have a best friend who is cancer and i love her to death but she is waaaaaaaaaaaay too controlling but the difficult part is that she sees the controlling bit as 'caring' and mothering however I just see it as major control freak!!!
So give her lots of room but pay her alot of attention cos sags are attention seekers. Also you must think of wonderful and exciting things to do and do things with her that no couple has done before! Be adventurous, surprise her with a weekend getaway, send random flowers, be happy around her and fun! good luck!
well im a sagi woman! lolz and my closest "best" friend is a cancer, ive known her for yrs and we have had a lot of fun crazy and funny times... but lemme tell u something, she is waayyy too clingy, she gets upset if i hang out with some1 else, and gets really jealous.. she's also a bit of a scaredy cat! everytime i wanna do something silly or crazy, i end up doing it alone while she watches standing on the side.... but sometimes i pursuade her in doing something crazy like hopping over a fence where on the other side lives a huge dog! she wasnt gonna do it but i didnt look back at her and did it and she tagged along.... she was scared but did it anyways!.. lolz it'd be hotter if she was more willing to do things, more risky. but she acts more perserved, she's more family oriented, im not!! she's affectionate and im not!! it sorta sux not being affectionate.. cuz when im with a cute guy im more off hand or rugged.... and yea sagi chicks r not the best house wives... cleaning cooking and all that is just blah to us.. we rather be out of the house than home cooking meals and stuff. we're adventures. if we have a understanding man, who wont suffocate us, we'll be happy and treat him like a king as well. go along with us, dont try to hold us back and we'll love u. i had an aquarius lover, we were perfect, cuz we both r crazy!! but he turned out to be a dumb fool, chasing some loser skank lolz... so whatever! there r more pplz out there........but in mind he still remains = (
well im a true blue sag! and just get her and dont give up man.. be urself and treat her right. its not always the best of a match, but if u really want her ull try!
have fun = )
im also a saggi, a typiacl and so is my partner we work really well tho, i hate to be hemmed in i need to be free, i hate moodiness and hate being bored!!!
Cancer & Sagittarius
Water and Fire, the recluse and the globe-trotter, the lecturer and the dreamer... They live in different worlds, but love is an interstellar vessel. Cancer enjoys listening to Sagittarius describe a journey, but will never be coaxed into donning a backpack and embarking on a real adventure. Moreover, the intellectual and physical preferences of a Sagittarius may make it difficult for him or her to strike a resonant chord in a Cancer. It's worth a try, but harmony will be hard to achieve.
Cancer Man and a Sagittarius Woman
They are well-matched for sickly-sweet sentiment, but the Cancer will not travel light and his inability to throw caution to the wind will grate on her nerves to no end. She left her mother to get away from this sort of thing, but he will want to phone home from booths along the highway.
This match will not lead to much happiness. You two are just too different to make love work. You don’t understand what each other is all about, and you’ll be frustrated when he questions every little thing you do. You won’t get what all the fuss is about, either, when his wild imagination leads him to have jealous fits. You are a freedom-loving gal who likes to jump into life feet first. Meanwhile, he’s a cautious little crab who hates going into unknown situations. You’ll hear there’s a party and say "let’s go"; he’ll have to know exactly who will be there, what music will be playing, etc. to even consider it. You’ll find this frustrating and boring. However, the Cancer boy and Sagittarius boy can make excellent friends, if no romance is involved. Opt for friendship instead. This is a poor love match.
Sadge girl finds Cancer boy fascinating and confusing-and at the same time. You may feel simultaneously awkward and wonderful, because Cancer boy isn't the easiest person on the planet to understand. While you'd like to give your full history in the first ten minutes of meeting someone, it may take two semesters to find out how many siblings this guy has. The beauty of this match lies in the discovery.
Hi Spiffy,
Well, I kinda think and have a strong feelings that I can give you the answer you are looking for.
You've got me!! LOL
Why so? Ha Ha cuz I am a Sagittarius and I've dated 3 cancer males in my life and they were all three of of the four guys I dated. There's a strong undeniable chemistry about sag and Cancer and it is very strong. I attract and have been attracted to Cancer men .. all my freakin' life. Yes, It's freaky but true. I'm currently with one for almost 7 years and even though the relationship is not smooth, kinda painful, but.. It's just unbreakable just like that. I kinda feel like falling in love with cancerians is a curse for both of us.
Hmm.. I don't even know where to start. I guess I will give you some links of my previous answers/ questions about sag and Cancer which I think I have no point re-write everything.
I hope I can help you.!
Good luck!
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