How do virgo's deal with conflicts?!
Question: Don't they usually solve things with logic? I'm a cancer and my boyfriend is a virgo I remember one time when we were fighting that he said to "Think it over" and I said "But, don't you know how that made me feel?" I think thats what we said.
Answers: Don't they usually solve things with logic? I'm a cancer and my boyfriend is a virgo I remember one time when we were fighting that he said to "Think it over" and I said "But, don't you know how that made me feel?" I think thats what we said.
When you say "but, don't you know how that made me feel?" to a Virgo you are probably wasting your time because the most likely don't know how you feel. They can be very unemotional because they resolve dilemmas logically...not emotionally. That is why he is telling you to "think it over". I believe if you both reach out to one another and try to get an understanding of how the other thinks and respect that....you will get along fine. If not, expect more unresolved arguments......
They are practical, they don't follow that whole "feeling" thing.
Yeah, they solve problems by thinking about them, analysing everything until they come up with a solution.
Mine also like to go back in his shell for a while, with no one around..
Lots of things happen in his head when he do. But after a while he will come back and we will go on in our lives and be happy!
I have friends who are virgos and they really like to talk about conflicts they've had. I am always willing to listen to their non emotional explanations for why they feel a certain way. I find it intersting how they are able to explain how they feel with practicality and logic. They are very good at sizing up situations and people in general and don't let emotions get in the way of their rational thoughts. I've learned a lot from listening to them even when they are in that criticizing mood that sometimes pops up. You're right on about how they use logic constantly. (though the ascendant can sometimes dampen or enhance the quality)
i'm a virgo....and i worry a lot