Getting back to a cancer guy?!
Question: First of all I don't need anyone to tell me I'm dumb because I asked something about astrology.
So.. here's my ex boyfriend who is a cancer. Now we started talking again but he's really shy.. he doesn't even look at me if I ask him somethin. When his friends are around he comes with them and sits next to me and my friends. He smiles at me a lot but sometimes he has moments when he's really mean to me. Like.. lets say now he's very flirty and after a second he becomes very mean.
I was wondering if he still likes me. I don't even know how to act to make him trust me again.
Thanks
Answers: First of all I don't need anyone to tell me I'm dumb because I asked something about astrology.
So.. here's my ex boyfriend who is a cancer. Now we started talking again but he's really shy.. he doesn't even look at me if I ask him somethin. When his friends are around he comes with them and sits next to me and my friends. He smiles at me a lot but sometimes he has moments when he's really mean to me. Like.. lets say now he's very flirty and after a second he becomes very mean.
I was wondering if he still likes me. I don't even know how to act to make him trust me again.
Thanks
i can offer a suggestion to the trust issue. my ex is a Cancer too, but I did a favor for him, that he honestly didn't think I would do, the I left him alone. then all of the sudden-he started calling me out of the blue, & wants to hang out, we're cool now. If you genuinely do something kind, or nice & unexpected for him(but you got to do it expecting that MAYBE he might NOT respond right away, or at all) he'll never forget it & will make his move towards you on his own.
you never know with them once they dont trust you as they did before, but what do you have to lose? Sounds like you like him still sooo...........
i think he does like you, but because hes shy hes waiting for you to make the move, cancerians can be moosy at times but thats just them, give him a big hug out of nowhere and hold him tight, that will show that you care, becase they are quite insecure, he'l know you care, and take it from there, alot of cuddling and then talk thru with him
I see that you ended your statement with "I don't even know how to act to make him Trust me again". If you two broke up because you were unfaithful, then that is why he is smiling and then turns mean....he has a lot of anger inside of him and he has not forgiven you yet. He sounds as if he is very, very hurt! Unfortunately when you hurt a Cancer person you have to wait until they decide to forgive you totally...and that seldom will happen. If they don't forgive you and forgive you totally, you can forget about getting back together with him because it will never be the same; he won't let his guard down again........