Told my Scorpio Best Friend to F-off!?!
Question: I was drunk, knew this guy for 4 years, I'm gay by the way, we were the best of friends and confidantes. I'm in love with him too. He never knew I was gay or inlove with him from the start, yet I kept on dropping subtle hints that he didn't apparently pick up(I thought Scorpios are very intuitive). Anyways, one day, I had enough, I had to tell him how I feel. And I did, it was online.
Now, the way I went about this is, in my mind, I thought I was gonna be rejected as a friend and love interest, so I said, I'm gay, I love u, nice knowing you. He was patient, understanding and stuff, even said I love you too, but not in a gay way. Yet still my fear of rejection made me say f-off, Im never gonna see u again, good luck ******!
I realized my mistake the next day, and wrote him an email saying I only regret attacking him, and I explained my situation with the fear of being rejected even as a friend.
He still hasnt replied. He last told me to realx, take it easy, and take care.
Answers: I was drunk, knew this guy for 4 years, I'm gay by the way, we were the best of friends and confidantes. I'm in love with him too. He never knew I was gay or inlove with him from the start, yet I kept on dropping subtle hints that he didn't apparently pick up(I thought Scorpios are very intuitive). Anyways, one day, I had enough, I had to tell him how I feel. And I did, it was online.
Now, the way I went about this is, in my mind, I thought I was gonna be rejected as a friend and love interest, so I said, I'm gay, I love u, nice knowing you. He was patient, understanding and stuff, even said I love you too, but not in a gay way. Yet still my fear of rejection made me say f-off, Im never gonna see u again, good luck ******!
I realized my mistake the next day, and wrote him an email saying I only regret attacking him, and I explained my situation with the fear of being rejected even as a friend.
He still hasnt replied. He last told me to realx, take it easy, and take care.
man if he was a Scorpio and your best friend, trust me he already knows your gay, but he still hang around with you, I have to say you kinda screwed up with that tantrum you just blew off. well this is gonna be really awkward for him whenever you guys are together, they're sensitive individuals and that ruffled him up good.
the best solution i found in situations like these is that get him drunk, let him say what he needs to say because hes just restraining himself, and whatever it is he says, its gonna come off his chest and the next day when your both sober and could be closer as friends, im not even kidding, i could be wrong but give it a shot.
EDIT: why would he get revenge? whatever you have heard they know who their friends are
This is not enough to make him avenge in any way especially if he replied and told you to relax. It's when they say nothing that the danger will lurk at one point.So, don't worry.
As for holding on to you,you should know that Scorpio never let go even their old Gf or BF, whatever the sex.
As Scorpios, we don't take situations with gay people having crushes on us all that seriously if we're straight. In fact, we sometimes think it is flattering. If he told you to relax, he meant he was blowing the entire thing off. Don't worry about him going on the attack. He won't.
You need to do what he said. Just relax.