I live with 2 libras and im a cancer, help!?!


Question: My mother and her boyfriend are both Libra's and I'm a cancer. And, I just have one question...how come Libra's can be such a**holes at times? (no offense) Another thing, why are they so damn critical?! Thanks to my moms boyfriend, my self esteem was lowered due to his constant criticizing and name calling, and my mom said "He does that to motivate you" Well, I'm sorry, but it does NOT motivate me one bit.


Answers: My mother and her boyfriend are both Libra's and I'm a cancer. And, I just have one question...how come Libra's can be such a**holes at times? (no offense) Another thing, why are they so damn critical?! Thanks to my moms boyfriend, my self esteem was lowered due to his constant criticizing and name calling, and my mom said "He does that to motivate you" Well, I'm sorry, but it does NOT motivate me one bit.

I've been into astrology since my mom started me at 14 yrs old, and I'm 51 now. And also, like you, I'm a cancer. Let me tell you something...what you are experiencing is not Libra personality, but Libra strategy. I dont know your age, but Mom's boyfriend either wants you to move out...so he can have Mom's attention all to himself. Divide & conquer is the strategy.


Two Libra's together can become very seflish. They are so into pleasing each other that anybody outside that twosome is going to suffer for attention. I'll bet that your mother was more kind to you & gave you more attention before she met this boyfriend. Now you're both competing for Moms attention, and it looks like he will win.

Always remember this. Air signs (Libra, Aquarius, Libra) and Fire signs (Leo, Aries, Sagittarius) use criticism as a verbal attack whenever they feel jealous, threatened, or dont want somebody around. Your'e in their way, and they're hoping that their biting criticism will make you go away sooner or later.

Always remember this about these 3 signs Libra, Aquarius, and Gemini. When single can they be a great friend and nice to be around. But when they find a mate, BOY-OH-BOY, do they change! They tend to distance themselves from relatives and friends for awhile, and give their attention totally to their mate. They want their mate to themselves. They'll give a party and invite everybody. But when the party is over, dont you knock on their door too much unless you've been invited.

I advise you to move out if you're old enough...maybe with a relative if you can't afford to live on your own. Give the lovebirds their space. if you already live apart, then make your visits less frequent. Mom will take a long while to come around, but she will...when the newness of the relationship wears off. And now you know why you're being verbally attacked.

just don't pay attention to horoscopes. they are stupid and mean nothing

u belive in dat s*it? wow people are so dum if it waz up 2 dat den noone would get along

o... well everyone can be a**holes sometimes lol. but heres some info on libras...

Libra
September 23 - October 22

Libra is the seventh Sign of the Zodiac, and it is at this point in the Zodiac that we start to see a shift. While the first six Signs of the Zodiac focus on the individual, the last six focus on the individual's contact with others and with the world. Librans are first and foremost focused on others and how they relate to them. We can call this the Sign of partnership with a capital 'P' because these folks do not want to be alone! For a Libran, everything is better if it's done as a pair. Librans are good when paired up, too, since they epitomize balance, harmony and a sense of fair play. While they are true team players at work, their favorite partnership is at home: marriage. Librans feel most complete when they are coupled up with their lover, forever.

It's the Scales which symbolize Libra, and just like that balancing mechanism wants to stay even, Librans want to be on an even keel. Think of the Scales of Justice and how they work at striking the right balance. Likewise, Librans are objective, just and want to do what's best for everyone. It's possible, though, that this penchant for fairness is for a different reason: Librans abhor conflict. The Scales study every possible angle in the hopes of achieving peace and harmony, so much so that others may see them as fickle and indecisive. If that's what it takes to avoid a confrontation, that's fine with the Scales. The Libra-born are keen strategists, organizing groups with poise and getting the job done (in keeping with the Cardinal Quality assigned to this Sign). Further, you can expect the Scales to be companionable, sociable folks.

i dont think that zodiac signs have anything to do with it. an a$$ hole is an @$$ hole no matter what time of year they were born in. sounds like he needs a good kick in the jibblets

My first response was to tell you to move to your own home.

Your mother's boyfriend has no right to be saying anything to you. He's not your dad, nor even your stepdad. Tell your mother that if she can't tell her boyfriend to keep his comments about you to himself you will see it as a betrayal of maternal protection. You came first in her life, he's a johnny come lately.

Tell him that he's being rude and he can speak "To the Hand". Libra's are supposed to be concerned with social niceties. If he can't see that he's being abusive then I'd turn to an adult outside of the home, a counselor or a child protection service worker.

I'd make it clear that making statements that belittle another person is being mean spirited. No one is ever motivated when they feel diminished. If they need to know what will motivate you tell them that you need a safe home life, you need to be protected and nurtured, that you have feelings and you are going to protect yourself if you have to.

If you can't get any traction with the truth then look to another family member to live with, an aunt or grandparent. You have the right to have a safe, loving, and emotionally secure home life. What this Libra johnny come lately boyfriend is doing is wrong and your mother has to come to understand that.

Tell your mom, "Boyfriends come and go, your children are your blood kin and will be related to you forever. Is this boyfriend worth estranging you from your own child? " If she sides with him instead of protecting her child then you got to find somewhere else to live.

The signs of Libra and Cancer form a right angle in the heavens: this can be one of the most challenging combinations of the zodiac, and will cause you great uneasiness at times. The differences are not always apparent straight away, though since both desire balance and peace; air vs water = rain which can mean tears. You are right in that it is exactly the wrong way to motivate a Cancer. You respond best to gentle tactful criticism and quiet praise.

that's difficult. most libras are good in the romance department and looking at the abstract level of a situation. but the when it comes knowing what the other person needs deep inside they don't know, unless the libra has a water moon (cancer, pisces, scorpio). they are not into detail like the virgos. if they can't understand that you don't like being criticized, tell them in an indirect way. my libra buddy did this (criticizing) to me often, i criticized him back, after that he stopped and i gently told him that he was being unfair and i don't like being constantly criticized, i prefer being adviced instead. most male libras are receptive of this, with the female ones straight honesty is needed with a little tact. do this asap or they would go on critizicing you thinking they're helping. most cancers i know store up all anger, before blowing up. save yourself the emotional meltdown and just tell them in a diplomatic way.

Male Libra and Male Cancers do not get along well. Usually Libras are mean when people do things to personally offend them or get in their way.
This is a complex situation for you.

He probably thinks it's constructive criticism or maybe he's just being sarcastic and you take it to the heart because you're very sensitive. We often don't realize that we hurt people with words because we don't intend to. Maybe if you explain to both you're parents where you stand they'll change their behavior. It's too complex of a situation to rely on a Sun sign description as hey can have other sign signs his chart that make him an a**hole so he only acts like a Libra very rarely. I know Libras want to get along with everyone and they don't like tension so i don't see why he would act this way. I think you could try to improve communication and if it doesn't work out start looking for alternative living arrangements because it's not healthy to surround yourself with negative people at your age. Good luck!



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