Scenario with a Scorpio. Please give your opinion and advice.?!
Question: He said he didn't want to continue with our relationship (for the 3rd time -always got back together). This time, I think he means it. I've asked if we could give it one more try. He's denied my request repeatedly and keeps trying to tell me it's over for good. He's even cut his hair and got a new look. I'm scared that I might lose him forever this time. On the hand, I've caught him staring at me from a distance when he thinks I don't notice or see him hiding and looking at me from afar. I've decided to go on with my life and move away. I told him this and asked if I could see him one last time. He said probably. I know he still has feelings for me and they may be deeper than I realize, but he will never admit to them. Do you think I have a chance of getting him back?
Answers: He said he didn't want to continue with our relationship (for the 3rd time -always got back together). This time, I think he means it. I've asked if we could give it one more try. He's denied my request repeatedly and keeps trying to tell me it's over for good. He's even cut his hair and got a new look. I'm scared that I might lose him forever this time. On the hand, I've caught him staring at me from a distance when he thinks I don't notice or see him hiding and looking at me from afar. I've decided to go on with my life and move away. I told him this and asked if I could see him one last time. He said probably. I know he still has feelings for me and they may be deeper than I realize, but he will never admit to them. Do you think I have a chance of getting him back?
Since you did not give the reason for the breakup(s), it is hard to give you specific insights about your Scorpio ex. We don't usually break up with someone we profess our love for without a very good heartfelt reason. With that in mind, remember that Scorpios are not very big on forgiveness. We would rather an all-out bitter fight with someone than to have to forgive them. If he patched things up with you and tried to get along with you, that's the same as forgiveness. Since he did this three times, he really had to have loved you a lot. For him to break up with you again after going through lots of internal turmoil, essentially having to grapple with his own Scorpio way of doing things, you should not expect the relationship to last unless whatever caused the breakups gets resolved PERMANENTLY, otherwise he will break up with you again at great personal cost to himself.
Don't keep doing this to him if you want him to have any peace of mind.
I'm pretty sure u gave him a hard time in the past 'cause Scorpios don't end a relationship just 'cause. If that is the case u should move on 'cause he might b thinking the best way to take revenge and hurt u if u don't leave him alone.
Are you a Taurus? Anyway, what about giving us your date of birth? As well as his? Easier that way. Then I'll come back later to reply.
this sound so dramatic! But honestly, if he really loves you he will come back to you under any circumstances. Give him more time to reflect what he himself need the most.
what sign are you, please tell me.
I am a scorpio and trust me, scorpios never just cut there feelings of and then they are gone.
we hold feelings for a long long time, as we are water signs,feelings run very deep.
But it seems like this guy is not happy whatever signs, obvious that you have many ups and downs,but the downs are very depressing, i feel you may still get back together, but this i feel is one of those relationships that will fizzle out in the end.
Scorpios can be cruel with their words
and half the time we don't know what we want.
Just stay away for a while, so you miss each other, a good break may fix it.
ABSENCE makes the heart grow
fonder.
You need to ask yourself why are the reasons you always break up.
can that be changed,??????
Are you an Air sign??
He might be sick and tired of you. I get tired of boys and toss them out and then they keep chasing with the love letters, and the invitations, and the dependency, but really... It pisses me off worse. I don't want to be mean, but if you keep chasing and chasing and he's repeatedly telling you no, at some point he's gonna get meaner and hurt your feelings. Really. It's in your best interest to concentrate on you. Is maybe that you want something you can't have? I think if you keep pushing, you will NEVER have a chance, but if you back off and give him time, he may come back.
The answer is never easy with a Scorpio man cos he will always leave you guessing-sure. BUT only this time he said them clearly and verbally so perhaps he really does mean it. So take his word for it and respect it if he doesn't want to try again. After 3 times of trying and all times coming to the same outcome doesn't look too good and truthfully any man would see a problem with that and do and come to the same thing- solution wise. He probably gave the relationship all past chances cos he was probably hoping and praying that it would work each time- depends on what was said and what compromises were made and seeing if they were fulfilled or not. Scorpios value their word, dignity, strength, integrity as much as their values, opinions and decisions. It's all at the same level- and to ask him to keep trying at something over and over which failed all times is like asking him to change his ways, and what do you think the chances of that will be??
True. he may love you alot and it's going to hurt him in ways nobody can ever come close to knowing or realizing but you gotta be realistic about this- and most of the time - trying to changing his mind won't help or do any good cos he's obviously had a lot of time to think about it SINCE he has already made a decision and unfortunetly most don't look back after making that decision.
So - my advice would be to move on and be strong and think about what went wrong- BUT DON'T OBSESS OVER IT> and to learn from this so you won't have to go through this again in the future by hopefully not making the same mistake again.
Take care.....
I seriously doubt that he will try to get back with u. I just ask that you read what I have to say. I'm going my own little personal revelation right now. I use to always have short hair but now I'm growing it out, not for fashion, but in a way to start off fresh for myself, and grow out all my pain, ignorance, and etc. So maybe he has made the physical change for the same or slightly different reason. There is always room in his heart for u but he probably feels that u are a part of his life that has to be made new.