Am I stupid? Can someone please tell me what this means!?!
Question: "Your frustrations are complicated by your inability to take no for an answer. Whatever you want from others isn’t something they can supply you with. You can keep trying to force the issue, but all that will do is alienate those who would feel better about it if you would leave them alone. Part of the problem rests in older rejection issues that have more to do with your parents than anything. Consider the benefits of dealing with things at the gut level. As soon as you rearrange your perspective, this will clear up."
Answers: "Your frustrations are complicated by your inability to take no for an answer. Whatever you want from others isn’t something they can supply you with. You can keep trying to force the issue, but all that will do is alienate those who would feel better about it if you would leave them alone. Part of the problem rests in older rejection issues that have more to do with your parents than anything. Consider the benefits of dealing with things at the gut level. As soon as you rearrange your perspective, this will clear up."
I agree, I have no idea why they write 'scopes in that dry, boring, dicky way. No one ever "gets" them, and the people that do are the ones that don't need to...
It means, that (supposedly) you are pushing something that is resisting you.... [It's hard to not push when you want something to be a certain way. One gets really focussed on it, and then it becomes obsession. One way trip to hell. :-( ]
The answer is to let go, back off, do something else. Be detached. Let things resolve themselves as they were meant to. If you have to do anything at all, you'll know, you won't even have to think about it. Otherwise, leaving it alone shows great wisdom. :-)
As soon as you stop bitchfitting, everything will be better.
stupid no smart yes
You are not stupid.............YOUR FREAKEN RETARDED!!!!
sums my problems up,never can get a thing out of any body
It could mean rely on yourself, or it could mean the fortune teller writer gets paid by the word.
It means you can't take no for an answer. It annoys because you have to get it or have people to do it for you, whatever it is. If you continue forcing it, people will feel uncomfortable and move away from you if you don't let them be. It could be because of rejection in the past, more likely from your parents. Try listening to your intuition. When you do that, everything will fall into place.
In a mouthful it sounds like "Grow up"
stop over-analyzing just go with your gut instinct.
Sounds like you need to relax and look out for you- This is the ME Generation- look out for Numero Uno
You need to go see a therapist. I'm sorry to tell you, i don't know why you would bring that on yahoo answers unless your just pulling our leg. It's funny though because its so irrational.
All this means is that you are "frustrated" by the fact that you don't accept anything other than what you are looking for. Basically, stop expecting as much out of other people. Your expectations are a bit too unrealistic. And, the person warns that if you cannot do this, you will be "alienated" or left alone. If you stop pestering the issue, others will accept you more easily. Then the person talks about your parents. Sounds like either A) they are being ridiculous and intrepreting something wrong or B) they know you personall and know for a fact there are parental issues. Then, it says that if you learn to just trust yourself and your instincts, this obstacle will be overcome.
It simply means you're stubborn. It has to be your way or no way and most people don't like this attitude. You have to learn to compromise.
Things will be clearer if you actually tell us your date of birth.
And people like them -Few posters above who trashed- are always there to post nonsense because they have no knowledge of Astrology nor the interest in it.
simple words :
"Your frustrations are complicated by your inability to take no for an answer. Whatever you want from others isn’t something they can supply you with."
means, you are more frustrated by your problems because you're in denial.
"You can keep trying to force the issue, but all that will do is alienate those who would feel better about it if you would leave them alone. Part of the problem rests in older rejection issues that have more to do with your parents than anything."
Since you do not want to admit that you have a problem, or aren't trying to find a proper solution, you are driving away your friends who wish you could just take it easy for a while.
"Consider the benefits of dealing with things at the gut level. As soon as you rearrange your perspective, this will clear up."
Deal with problems with simplicity, if you can't find a solution, don't stress your mind, it will come to you in time. And till then, you might want to look at the problem from a different perspective than your own ex. ask a friend, family, or someone mature you can count on.