Why am I so drawn to an Aries man, against my better judgment?!
Question: I'm a scorpio my last bf was an Aries, and we were absolutely incompatible. We have very few things in common and a totally different look at life, so after 5 month of relationship we broke up, but he has this very strong power over me. Every time we see each other there is electricity building between us. Sexual chemistry is so strong that both of us cannot control it. He's very sweet and nice, but afraid of commitment. He tells me that he needs to stay away from me, since its hard to think straight when we're next to each other. He started dating other women, but calls me every time to say that no one comes close to me. Every time I stop thinking about him, he finds his way back into my mind. I had my first date last night, after being apart for 1.5 months, and i saw his friend. He called me late at night drunk and crying that he can't stand the thought of me being with other men.
We can't be apart and we can't be together! This is destroying me
Answers: I'm a scorpio my last bf was an Aries, and we were absolutely incompatible. We have very few things in common and a totally different look at life, so after 5 month of relationship we broke up, but he has this very strong power over me. Every time we see each other there is electricity building between us. Sexual chemistry is so strong that both of us cannot control it. He's very sweet and nice, but afraid of commitment. He tells me that he needs to stay away from me, since its hard to think straight when we're next to each other. He started dating other women, but calls me every time to say that no one comes close to me. Every time I stop thinking about him, he finds his way back into my mind. I had my first date last night, after being apart for 1.5 months, and i saw his friend. He called me late at night drunk and crying that he can't stand the thought of me being with other men.
We can't be apart and we can't be together! This is destroying me
Hi, Scorpio I think it is funny how astrology can be so accurate. The reason why you feel so attracted, but can't get along goes into your planets and traits. Both scorpio and aries share the planet Mars which governs passion and war. You are both also known as the two most sexual and aggresive signs out of the whole zodiac. You fight like cats and dogs, but still have that intense attraction. Don't let things cloud your mind, you need to think things out and see what you need. If you think you should stay away do so, or maybe, you can give it another try. If you do, things you can both do is avoid fights, don't try to be the right one or the winner neither of you can stand that. You are a water sign and he is a fire sign, which don't mix. But, fire can give you a sense of adventure and water can give fire love. Once Aries sees that a relationship is going to work or last long he can stay faithful and show you passion. Scorpio already has this ability along with being attached to others. Yes, you will fight and it can get explosive since neither likes to back down, but you must learn not to be so angry over things that should not matter. Other factors such as moon and rising signs can be learned to see your compatibility. Listen to yourself first and see what is right for you, and these feeling you have will go down. If you think this guy is worth it go after what you want. It seems like he wants you too. Try, try again and learn not to push each others buttons. Forgive and forget! Fire is great at doing this, but you water just need to learn to forget about it. Forgiving is not all you need to do. All you need to do is work on it, and so does he. It takes two to make it work. Remember, don't set everything on the stars like each other for one another not just on your signs. Plus, you need to see what is best for you. I hope I helped you.
Darling don't worry, this will pass.
I'm in a very similar situation to you and the best advise I can give you is to stay away from this guy in any way possible. Block him if you have to. This is very toxic and destructive to you and you have to find strength within yourself to beat this. If he's being so selfish and immature you have to be the sane one and stand up to your own standards, remember that there is a very good reason that you two broke up. Every time you think about him remember that there is a reason for why you are not together. We Scorpios are strong and can beat anything.
Stay Strong!
That is so strange. I thought that Aries are very loyal in relationships, but once they make the break, they move on and don't look back. Am I right on this or not?