I am an Aries and my hubby is a Scorpio....?!
Question: We have been together for 15 yrs. When we argue and fight, we FIGHT! We tell each other the meanest things possible. We often make up with sex and then act like nothing happened. Sometimes though, I just feel as if we just were'nt meant for each other. He refuses to get a job and depends ALOT on me for everything. He claims I am just too bossy and mean.What are your feelings of a Scorpio/Aries relationship?
Answers: We have been together for 15 yrs. When we argue and fight, we FIGHT! We tell each other the meanest things possible. We often make up with sex and then act like nothing happened. Sometimes though, I just feel as if we just were'nt meant for each other. He refuses to get a job and depends ALOT on me for everything. He claims I am just too bossy and mean.What are your feelings of a Scorpio/Aries relationship?
Aries and Scorpio
Can we say “power trip?” Putting these two strong signs together is anything but boring! You may find an Aries/Scorpio couple arguing over who is right and who is going to get their way. An arguing Aries tends to fly off the handle, while a simmering Scorpio analyzes the situation before speaking out. If these two can learn to take turns at being the boss, this relationship has electric potential!
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u both need to sit down n talk, i'm a scorpio , so i guess he must be somehow unhappy about something. talk to him nicely , give him encouragement. he's very sensitive & screative person.
both aries n scorpio tend to have sharp tounge, but aries tend to fogive n forget easily but not with scorpio. but believe me he loves you very much.
talk n reason to him so he will understand. find more about his horoscope character n try to improve things. there's no perfect relationship.. good luck
Honestly, you shouldn't even look at the relationship through your signs. If things are really bothering you, do something about it. If you have to leave, then leave. It's not fair to you if he's lazy and dependent on you. He's too old for that i'm sure and he should know better. Also, the only reason he says what he says about you is because he knows what he is doing is wrong and he's sick of being told about himself. Another thing, he does what he does and won't do what he is supposed to do because you allow it. DON'T!!
Holy Cow! Talk about a dynamic relationship! Aries isn't represented by the Ram for no reason! These people lead with their heads and ram through any and all obstacles as if they weren't even there. But dealing with them can leave you feeling, Literally, like you just banged your head against a wall for a week. They are stubborn, quick tempered and proud!
You as a Scorpio are passionate, dynamic, tempermental, energetic and loud. But when you fight (sting) you get over it quicker than other people. The scorpion will sting an enemy and then walk away as if nothing just happened. You forget as quickly as you get riled up.
This may last if only for the reason that he is too stubborn to go anywhere and you get over it so quickly that you forget theres a problem. You've been together for so long, it just may seem comfortable. Also, its just the dynamic of your relationship.
The elements of your signs are Fire for Aries and Water for Scorpio. Together, it makes steam! When he gets all fired up, you can be the bucket of water to snap him out of it, and from this: the hot make up sex. like i said: steamy!
I don't know if I can recommend "communication" so many people say communication is the key. I don't know if that would help. Water signs are emotional, fire signs are all energy. And the most important thing to the fire signs are themselves. The most important thing to water signs are how they feel.
i am a scorpio and hubby is an aries.... we argue a lot and then we have fabulous make up sex...we have sex alot whether we fight or not.we've been together 17 yrs....
i get mad as hell at him...but i love him...wonder myself sometimes when i am mad why i stay with him
he thinks i am the bossy and mean one. i just don't take any of his crap but he has a great job...so i can't complain there.
I'm a Scorpio and my ex is an Aries. We fought a lot, as well... and used sex to "make up", but our fights were intense and emotional... It was just an emotional no-no.
You need to sit down and talk to him... Maybe you can somehow resolve your problems if you guys just sit down and compromise with each other.
Hi! A Scorpio refusing to get a job??????this could be a Scorpion crawling in the mud! a negative trait Scorpio-He is right when he says you are too bossy---all Aries people are bossy and have a powerful voice "hey" --"hey"---well you are in this relationship for 15 years so there must be something you like about him that's irresistible!what more can i say?---cheers!
Hi. Aries this sounds like the classic Aries/Scorpio relationship or at least half of it. The reason why you can really get into fights is because you both are ruled by Mars/Ares the planet/god of War. Even though he aslo is ruled by Pluto you share Mars. You both have the strong character of never backing down and even getting confronational. It is also classic because Mars is also the planet of passion to is why you might release anger through sexual relations. It is also weird how you two are known to be the most aggresive and sexual signs. You are a fire sign and he is water sign those two elements just don't mix. There is also a good side though water can show all its love and is very in touch with others. In turn fire can show its sense of adventure and fun to water. HEY YOU MUST BE DOING SOMETHING RIGHT YOU HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 15 YEARS. Also another reason he might be stubburn to get a job is he is a fixed sign as well, and they are very hard to change or be swayed to do something. Btw you are a cardinal which can swing either way to change. I am sorry to tell you, but Aries can be bossy, since they like to run the show and be first. You as a fire sign might be able to forget the fights, but scorpio likes to remember. So you might just like to give scorpio a little sympathy water signs love to share feelings. You might also like to tell him nicely to help you out (to prevent a fight) that is not right that you have to support yourself and him as well. Just be nice, and if you have to just make him think that it is his choice to.( scorpio loves to be right) So act like you need him and that he is the one to help you! He might kick it in to gear. If he doesn't then make him you can only be nice for so long. I think you can make it work for another 15 years, but it takes two to make it work. You both have your faults as does everyone else in a relationship. You can also go to www.astro.com and look at your birth charts to see compatibility you also have moon and rising signs don't base all on your sun signs (which you know). Hint you need date, time (ball park it), and place of birth. Over all you must love each other;) I just think it is interesting how you two fit into your sun signs so well. You need to think things out and talk to him about this problem . Remember, don't set everything on the stars love each other for each other and not your signs. Plus, you need to listen to yourself first astrology is suggestive. It says you two will clash (which you do), but you love each other enough to be with one another for so long.<3 I hope I helped you.
thats normal between every scorpio and aries, im an aries and thats my relationship with scorpios