Why did this Capricorn stop calling after I thought we had finally connected?!
Question: Capies, please help me out...I thought I had found someone I wanted to be with. I saw him about two weeks ago. Prior to that he was contacting me a couple of times a week and I made a trip to a party he had invited me to and we had such a great time. We just hung out and had fun, no pushing the subject, we are just friends...although I was hoping for me. Prior to me going down there, he had even told me that I inspired him to write a poem about life. No love poems or anything like that, but that I had inspired him regardless. I guess I read too much into that. Cause now, after the party, he's quit calling me. I'm trying to play it cool, it's only been about two weeks, but I really like him...does this mean he's not interested? HOw do you know if they Capricorn is into you? If they are considering you for a relationship? Help...I'm so confused, and being a Scorpio...my immagination is running all kinds of ways. HELP! Thank you!
Answers: Capies, please help me out...I thought I had found someone I wanted to be with. I saw him about two weeks ago. Prior to that he was contacting me a couple of times a week and I made a trip to a party he had invited me to and we had such a great time. We just hung out and had fun, no pushing the subject, we are just friends...although I was hoping for me. Prior to me going down there, he had even told me that I inspired him to write a poem about life. No love poems or anything like that, but that I had inspired him regardless. I guess I read too much into that. Cause now, after the party, he's quit calling me. I'm trying to play it cool, it's only been about two weeks, but I really like him...does this mean he's not interested? HOw do you know if they Capricorn is into you? If they are considering you for a relationship? Help...I'm so confused, and being a Scorpio...my immagination is running all kinds of ways. HELP! Thank you!
Ok, let's make certain that we have mentioned every case....
Capricorns can be chickens (I'm sorry to say so, but we really need some stable ground before "initiating" anything). So, if you think that your intentions are not clear (and at this point I have to say that Scorpios are very good at hiding them even when they don't want to) you must be sure that even if he wanted to make the first move, something was missing from his picture. (PS In case he has many Aquarius traits, he may aloof enough to not realize that you like him A LOT)
You don't need to push the subject...you just need to let him to know that it's "there" and waiting for him to make a move. Show him a peak and he will reach it... if he's interested, that is.
Now I don't want to be very blunt and spoil the romance, but are you sure it is about Caps and not men in general? Because, I have to admit that Capricorn people have a tendency to "use"...things, situations or people. Not necessarily in a negative way but, it can be sometimes.If you're getting any vibes from him but he doesn't make a move, I think it has to do with his Cap side.
Now back to our point...when I first read your question, I thought you should drop the ball in his court. But, at a second glance, why not give it a shot?
In case he wants you to send some clear sign, now is the proper moment. If you both had a great time at that party and you're "friends", I don't think he would have any objection to meeting you again. Make the first move- call him or whatever you may have thought of. But, in case he still seems distant, just break it off...after all, a relationship requires two.
I hope that's helpful.
Because you're playing games, and trying to be cool and worrying about this astrology stuff...
And he wanted to have a good time, and get to know you........
if you want something to happen, you have to work at it....
Well most capricorns don't intiate relationships. It just happens. He stopped calling maybe because he gave up. Maybe he feels he tried his best to send signals your way. Capricorns can only chase for so long. Give him credit for even chasing. Caps don't like the chase, they like to be chased! You being a scorpio explains the mixed signals your giving. Send a more obvious hint his way. You'll see how much he'll open up.
- me cap dealt with many cap men before
Capricorn men will not make a move unless they are certain you feel the same way. Since you played it cool, he figured you were not interested. Lucky for me, my Capricorn thought he was never going to see me again and made his move first, but it took 2 weeks. We exchanged pleasantries, but neither one of us would make a move figuring the other was taken, plus we missed the subtle flirting we exchanged between one another. I am a Virgo, so we were doing and thinking the same thing. 2 years later, we love talking about how we almost missed our chance.
Even the process of getting to know him was quite a feat. He needed and still needs reassurance that I love him and care about him. So he is probably interested, but figured you were not. If you want to reconnect, you are going to have to make the move, but be prepared for a rough ride. You are going to have to be very, very, patient and earn his trust before he lets you in, but it will be well worth it.
'ok i don't know about this particular person but as another capricorn id advise you to just let him be! see, scorpios are fixated generally on relationships and capricorns are just as into ambitions and the status quo. a 'successful' capricorn will never sacrifice precious time unless he sees some kind of material gain in it...maybe thats why we are termed cold.
'well, dont b discourged...becuz each capri has another weakness, (remember the 'sea' goat?) and since its unique to each individual, u'll have to find out....and id say noone can seek out secrets better than scorps! :)
'tip:try to get his attention by appearing smart and aloof and more into your life than his...this is the time to show off any awards you won or how traditional you are and in general how bright your future seems (even without him)
Capricorns tend to have a lot on their plate and that doesn't only mean work. I have had Capricorn friends that would get off one date just to go on another right after. Most of them are like that. You are just a number to them until they narrow it down to who is their lover, friend, and mistress. Yes "mistress", they are often unfaithful.