Cancer and Aries?!
Question: I'm a cancer who is friends with an aries girl. We get along ok, but she likes to have her way, and she is pretty wild. Kind of a slut, because she leads guys on and has sex with them. Should I really keep my aries friend or not?
Answers: I'm a cancer who is friends with an aries girl. We get along ok, but she likes to have her way, and she is pretty wild. Kind of a slut, because she leads guys on and has sex with them. Should I really keep my aries friend or not?
I am also an Aries and my ex best friend was a Cancer. We act like that because this is our way to be.. it's because of Mars. I act wild and flirt with guys but deep inside I am a caring person.
If you don't like that attitude, talking to her won't help. I am VERY stubborn and I don't change my mind a lot. If you really like her and you think she is worth your time, stay friends. If you think she is just a ****, end this friendship.
Aries think about themselves 99% of the time but that doesn't mean we don't care about others. It's just.. Well.. Mars
Have a great day miss Cancer! =]
Sounds like you don't really like her, if you did and were a true friend you'd overlook her flaws. But if these character traits are too much for you to handle, then there's nothing stopping you from making new friends.
With Aries, there is still that "me first" aspect of them that tends to creep into any relationship.
This is a hard match. Fire can evaporate water and water can put out fire. If used positively, it creates STEAM which moves great mass of trains along tracks.
Do not despair if you are in one of these relationships, true love will overcome. Both are powerful and very expressive. However, Cancer can be sensitive and somewhat anxious while Aries people are dominant and spontaneous. Aries is not the greatest at expressing feelings and this leads to the constant annoyance of the moody, retrospective Cancer.
This romance can go either way, stormy and trouble filled, or work like a well-oiled machine. Cancer can give Aries the home base they need, but on the negative side, Cancer keeps their hurt feelings to themselves, and you as an Aries are not comfortable with this.
Aries tends to blurt everything out. Sensitive and clinging, Cancer may seem like a burden to you in some ways, but you do appreciate the attention. As an Aries you need to learn to adapt to Cancer's ways if this is to work.
Up to you to keep her or give her a ticket home. I realize that Aries wants to be first but this type will not get along well with the home loving, protective, nurturing Cancer, who likes to be the leader and will spend more time sulking than talking, unless they are allowed to make most of the decisions in the home.