How can I attract a Cancer male?!
Question: This guy is very reserved and serious but sexy! I would love to break down some of his walls and really get to know him.
Answers: This guy is very reserved and serious but sexy! I would love to break down some of his walls and really get to know him.
My advice:
1) Be at your most naturally feminine around him.... meaning, touch him on the arm, or the shoulder, or anywhere else (appropriate) in a sensual manner. Wear clothes that are sexy and feminine, yet discreet and tasteful. The hot librarian in a floral skirt is infinitely preferable to the club girl in the black tube top. Trust me.
2) Discuss things of substance....particularly stuff that might be insightful or profound...girls who are too much into sports or celebrity gossip are not going to be our first choice.
3) Ask him to go somewhere with you and your friends. He may be very shy about ever making the first move - so you may need to lead him somewhat....but he is likely to enjoy getting to know the other people in your life.
4) With all these things, be completely honest. I have heard many times that women can read any man like a book, but that men don't have the same capability....but this is not true of cancer males....we pick up on the most subtle of dynamics, all the time, and can only be fooled when we have gone for broke in a relationship...Be real, have conviction - and remember that a genuinely kind and caring woman is what we are really looking for.
Beware. They're high maintenance and cannot be trusted.
Be needy and dependent........at least appear to be so. He'll probably fall over himself to help you out and nurture you back to well-being, as far as he sees it.
First, their is no walls to break. You have to pierce their hard shell and discover the tender meat inside.
Cancer is attracted to physical charm, a good dancer, or someone who will pursue them. What counts with Cancer is what is inside of a person’s heart and how considerate a mate will be.
They like someone that is a mental mate, who can carry conversations with him. Cancers have mood swings, so help him when he gets down, and ride with him when he is high. He is very intuitive and can sense your true feelings, be genuine and real, not pretentious.
He can pick up on whatever mood you're in and feel the same way within minutes, if you are happy, he'll be happy, if sad, he'll be the same. He likes social things, but not in excess, get his approval first before you commit.
Don't get careless about your personal appearance, he appreciates beauty. There are certain things or beliefs that he holds more dear than others, don't tread on them and don't bring to him other's emotional baggage, he'll pick up on these emotions and it may upset his mood. Don't try to dominate him, use diplomatic persuasion.
Tell him all your funny stories, he likes to laugh. It's okay to say you are pro-marriage and to openly discuss it. He's there for you. He knows how to treat women.
Well i will tell you this being a cancer myself i will say that the cancerian male or female is very sensitive and he or she likes someone who is their mental mate ,and who can carry on a conversation with him. He is subject to mood swings and he needs a partner who can help him when he's down, and be there for him when he is high. He is very intuitive, and can sense your true feelings ,be genuine and real not pretentious, because he can pick up on any mood your in, and feel the same way within minutes, if you are happy he is happy if your sad he'll be the same. He likes social things but not to excess, get his approval first before you commit. He also appreciates beautydon't get careless with your appearance, and there are certain beliefs that he holds dear don't tread on them. Don't bring to him others emotional baggage he'll pick up on these emotions, and it may upset his mood, and don't try to dominate him use sensitive, and diplomatic persuasion. Also try to attract him by trying to arrange a romantic encounter in your own home, and open up to him about how you "truly" feel. Cancers are very sentimental, and romantic, and they are the type who like the forever kind of love not just a passing fling.
As a cancer, I can tell you that we are very sensitive souls. Most of all though we are hyper-sensitive to other people's feelings and emotions. We are human polygraph machines. Don't put up any fronts or try to be someone you are not. We will know right away you are not being truthful and our defenses go up. The best way to attract a cancer is to be open, be honest, and be yourself. Good luck.