Question for scorpio men.. can you please advise me on approaching a scorpio man!
Question: I am a pisces woman who fell head over heels in love with a scorpio man 12 years ago. At the time I was engaged to a nice man with whom I had a child. I was totally blown away by this scorpios energy, I felt like he was my twin soul and although we have never been a couple,I cannot stop loving him! i know how rediculous this sounds, but my whole being believes that we are meant to be togeather. I am big into universal energy, but when it comes to this guy I am sooooo confused. we used to get lost in eachothers eyes & hold conversations without speaking. 2 years ago he married the girl he was in the serious relationship with( he told her he didnt want to marry her). now I cant look him in the eyes or even talk to him because I feel such physical pain being apart from him,....please, please, please can some scorpio men out there give me some advise on how, if at all I should approach him?
Answers: I am a pisces woman who fell head over heels in love with a scorpio man 12 years ago. At the time I was engaged to a nice man with whom I had a child. I was totally blown away by this scorpios energy, I felt like he was my twin soul and although we have never been a couple,I cannot stop loving him! i know how rediculous this sounds, but my whole being believes that we are meant to be togeather. I am big into universal energy, but when it comes to this guy I am sooooo confused. we used to get lost in eachothers eyes & hold conversations without speaking. 2 years ago he married the girl he was in the serious relationship with( he told her he didnt want to marry her). now I cant look him in the eyes or even talk to him because I feel such physical pain being apart from him,....please, please, please can some scorpio men out there give me some advise on how, if at all I should approach him?
I'm not a Scorpio man but i thought I'd share something with you cos I understand completely and I'm also a Pisces woman.
Fantasy?!?!- to the top poster....
haha, LOL.
Interesting;
Cos I happen to be almost in the same situation as you-only me- I'm in a relationship right now (with a gemini) but not yet married- yet torn between two men with both I have strong feelings for.
The other guy (virgo) loves me and I have very strong feelings for him but yet also love my bf alot.
And I can completely understand your situation cos I also feel the same but am scared to love the virgo guy cos I am afraid he might break my heart cos I'm having trust issues with him only it's all me and my insecurities and refusal to budge b/c of it. I know what you mean by the speaking without saying a word b/c we did the same thing also read eachothers minds and finished eachothers sentences and also we known eachother for 14 yrs too and feel that we are also are meant to be and If I make him wait too long that I risk the chance of losing him forever- but I love my b/f so much. And b/c he (virgo guy) did and said some things, I cannot look him in the eye or even face him myself b/c of those things- in other words, he went against his words and I also feel hurt and betrayed by that, and since we don't talk now- he doesn't even know that I care deeply for him and that he has hurt me.
Odd, isn't it?
I always thought and believed that I was the only person in this situation.
But your situation is a lil more difficult since he is married already, I plan to tell my b/f and the other guy of evrything and I know it's gonna be hard but I have to do it so , the only thing I can say is to tell him even tho he is married. You are gonna put him in a awkward position but atleast let him know so that he knows and to have a piece of mind for yourself. but be prepared to expect the unexpected- good or bad. It's really hard, isn't it??
Cos you love the guy and he possibly loves someone else and it's painful to think that you amy have lost him already, and yet at the same time, you don't want to break up a marriage or make yourself look like a - you know. I hope you make a right decision.
Well I hope I helped alil-
-just thought I'd share my story- almost similar to yours,
take care.....
You fell for the old Scorpio "lock eyes" trick.
You were never a couple, yet you used to get lost in each others eyes and hold conversations without speaking.
What kind of basis for a relationship is that?
He married someone, yet he told her he didn't want to?
What kind of person is that?
Don't waste any more time on this fantasy. Move on.
This one is tricky. I am not a Scorpio, but I too have strong feelings and connexions with Scorpio's in general. The thing is he has been in a relationship for two years. that already is showing you something. When Scorpios are committed that is it. They will work hard to maintain the relationship. You really should have spoken to him when you initially had those feelings because no doubt it would probably have worked out.
If you like him you should express it straight away. The problem though is the other woman. Realistically it would not be right to interfere. He may be happy with her now! even if he said he did not want to marry her (he told you that 2 YEARS ago- his feelings may have changed now) he is still with her now and because they share more of a closeness together you cannot judge how he feels by that statement alone.
If it is eating you up, talk to him. Why not? what do you have to loose? It's bad to say but you maybe the end result could be positive for you. Have faith in yourself he must be a friend if you have known each other for 12 years so I sure he will be sincere either way.
hope this helped and GOOD LUCK!