Taurus Man, Cancer Woman -Attraction & Staying power?!
Question: Me = Female = Cancer. I've been talking to a Taurus for five weeks and while the flirtations and mental chemistry is out of this world, he has not pushed to meet up for a date yet. He mentions he wants to, but does not go any further. When we talk, he seems crazy interested but then will go for a couple days with no contact and no explanation of what he was up to. I know cancer and taurus can be a good match, but I'm trying to figure out how to light a fire under this bull to try and move things along a little faster. Should I trust that if he's showing interest he will get there eventually? Or do I need to poke him along a little.
Answers: Me = Female = Cancer. I've been talking to a Taurus for five weeks and while the flirtations and mental chemistry is out of this world, he has not pushed to meet up for a date yet. He mentions he wants to, but does not go any further. When we talk, he seems crazy interested but then will go for a couple days with no contact and no explanation of what he was up to. I know cancer and taurus can be a good match, but I'm trying to figure out how to light a fire under this bull to try and move things along a little faster. Should I trust that if he's showing interest he will get there eventually? Or do I need to poke him along a little.
i'm asuming you asked this under astrology, because you want an answer based on astrology. so here's mine:
I'm in a "relationship" with a taurus. and although i'm a gemini i was born early, and was supposed to be born a cancer. I dunno if that has anything to do with anything, but i really act like a cancer half the time, and in somewhat of the same situation.
I say that you tell him that you like him, and then say NOTHING else about it. he wont like you to pressure him into anything, even if he likes you. he may just need time to think things through before he makes a decision. Taurus's like to plan things out, and think the situation through before they make a choice. However, letting him know you like him will get him thinking about you as an option, even if he doesn't make the move just yet. Chances are he probably already knows, anyways.
Please don't base your life on star signs. If you are attracted to him, "poke him on a little".
i would go with a Mercury Sable instead
well ill tell u that tauruss tend to be very flirty and they make a lot of people think that they like them, but dont judge everything on the horoscopes..its messed me up before
the best way to go is to ask him
he wont be mean about it, dont worry
but tell him that u want the whole truth and nothing else
be firm
but not pushy
good luck :D
he might be a bit shy, or he might not know if you are really in love with him. you should be a little more pushy and flirt with him alot, things like you holding his hand or looking at his eyes would let him know you are interested and hopefully push him to finally ask you out
leave the taurus alone and seek another water sign,, he is stubborn.. jealous.. and will resent any friendships you have..
Taurus is a material person with a sensuous nature. You can definitely get his attention by wearing stylish clothes and alluring perfume. He likes to give flowers and gifts, so act graciously and be thankful when you get them, and you'll get more.
He likes femininity and grace in a woman, so he can demonstrate his caring and thoughtfulness about your well-being. Drop any loud or controlling behavior you may have and practice being "her ladyness". He is a romantic and wants to treat you with respect the old fashioned way. Give him the reason to do it. Although, he wants you to be feminine, he doesn't want you to be a crushed flower needing constant attention all the time, avoid being an emotional heavy weight.
Don't bring up details about former relationships, keep him from getting jealous or the gifts may stop. Don't try to steal the spotlight away from him when out in public or socializing. When he sets his mind on something, he won't change it, don't bother trying to force the issue, it'll lead to an argument. Remember he enjoys his role of being your guardian and protector. Let him do it.
A no-nonsense approach is favored and too much verbalizing, or complex fantasizing is not really his thing. Music or other forms of sensual, non-verbal expression will strike a chord in the Taurean nature.
Faithful friends (and dedicated enemies). Taureans prefer long-lasting relationships and seek to build strong alliances,
Taurus & Cancer
When Taurus and Cancer come together in a love affair, it's usually a very good combination. They are two positions apart within the Zodiac, and such Signs tend to share karmic ties and a deep mutual understanding. These particular two Signs have much in common: Both prize security in a love relationship above almost all else; both tend to be nurturers (Cancer is emotionally nurturing while Taurus loves to spoil their lover with sensual delights, gifts and good, rich meals). They're both quite domestic and love a quiet night spent at home with their sweetie.
The Taurus-Cancer partnership tends to be a happy one due to this mutual enjoyment of the security and comfort of home. They love a solid home base, a strong relationship, nice possessions, good food: all the comforts of domestic life. Theirs is often the ideal family that people of other Signs strive for, with strong ties between them and a relationship that is family-oriented rather than toward the outside world. Their only major problems arise when Taurus insists on having its own way and Cancer responds by sulking. Taurus must understand Cancer's emotional sensitivity, and Cancer needs rely on open, honest communication than on emotional blackmail.
Taurus is ruled by Venus (Love) and Cancer is ruled by the Moon (Emotions). Both of these celestial bodies vibrate with feminine energy. Cancer often keeps emotions bottled up and simmering inside, which can lead to occasional boil-overs. Thus, Cancer is attracted to Taurus's open, honest, unafraid nature. As the Moon controls the tides of the Earth, quietly affecting all life, so does Cancer, manipulating behind the scenes. Cancer tends to be sentimental, and both partners prefer to enjoy each other rather than socializing with large groups.
Taurus is an Earth Sign and Cancer is a Water Sign. Water and Earth are compatible as tangible, physical entities. As a Water Sign, Cancer is born to nurture an Earth Sign like Taurus the way rain nurtures Earth and helps crops grow. In turn, Taurus tends to have a more stable view of life than does Cancer and is less prone to emotional turmoil; therefore, Taurus can help Cancer stabilize their tumultuous feelings. Both Signs must be careful in this relationship, however: Taurus may tire of Cancer's mood swings, and Cancer may in turn feel that Taurus is insensitive to their needs.
Taurus is a Fixed Sign and Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Taurus has Fixed habits; they won't change an opinion once it's formed. This can provide Cancer with an emotional rock, as Taurus is entirely dedicated to the relationship. In turn, Cancer can bring new inspiration to the relationship and start new projects that Taurus will enjoy taking over later.
What's the best aspect of the Taurus-Cancer relationships? The steady, reliable team they make. Both Signs are dependable and nurturing, strongly oriented toward domestic life together. A mutual love of home and security makes theirs an ideal long-term, family relationship
Taurus & Cancer
Could this be the ideal couple? Both partners are unabashed homebodies, delighting in simple pleasures: family life, good food, comfort, and prosperity. They cook up their own candlelight dinners, enjoy quiet evenings alone together, and plan their investments wisely, whether they're financial or personal. Mutual enrichment, comfort, and support are virtually guaranteed. They form a self-sufficient couple, a world unto themselves... as long as their home is comfortable and attractive!
married to taurus 24 years till death he had to have his way freedom to do as he pleased, so me cancer naturally gave it to him . no bulling him he is one, never an explanation so dont ask its lies all lies, they want their cake and eat it too,. my experience some may be different,il not have another one that is for sure, im sticking with capricorns , they are loyal even though they are gone working at least they are trustworthy, and romantic affectionate when they have time, and they like to be cuddled wether they admit it or not, so if you can handle being alone and have patience get a capricorn, better alone and happy then with someone and miserable,