Why are virgos complicated?!


Question: Him and I just got home after being gone all weekend and things didn't go as planned, my grandmother called my cell and said she was on vacation and staying at a hotel, and wanted to eat lunch with us and we all went. Then she drove us home on her way back. My virgo guy complained and said that the weekend got messed up and he was expecting things to go as planned, and I said I didn't expect my grandma to be in town and she really wanted to see us. (I live in a diffrent state then my grandmother does) I hardly get to see her. I really liked seeing her. And, I told him that it gave you a chance to get to know her better. Then, he complains on how this weekend was perfect up until things got fu--ed up. He's making me mad and he won't talk to me he told me to f--- off. Should I just give him some space and leave him alone? Or just try to talk to him?


Answers: Him and I just got home after being gone all weekend and things didn't go as planned, my grandmother called my cell and said she was on vacation and staying at a hotel, and wanted to eat lunch with us and we all went. Then she drove us home on her way back. My virgo guy complained and said that the weekend got messed up and he was expecting things to go as planned, and I said I didn't expect my grandma to be in town and she really wanted to see us. (I live in a diffrent state then my grandmother does) I hardly get to see her. I really liked seeing her. And, I told him that it gave you a chance to get to know her better. Then, he complains on how this weekend was perfect up until things got fu--ed up. He's making me mad and he won't talk to me he told me to f--- off. Should I just give him some space and leave him alone? Or just try to talk to him?

Considering how many planets are in Pisces (Mercury, Venus and Uranus - which will stay there a long time) I'm not surprised that Virgos are acting out. But this guy's problem isn't just limited to Virgos. Expectations not met lead to disappointment. Obviously he can't let go of expectations he had and is holding on to his disappointment. To spite you because you wanted to see your grandmother is immature and selfish.

If he wants to talk tell him it is simply logical to accept things happen that were unplanned and if he had expectations that were not met it's up to him to let those expectations go and accept that what did take place happened. One can't change the past. One can effect their future with a change in perspective.

But if he's using this visit with your grandmother as an excuse for sour behavior because he's feeling out of sorts he has to know that he sours your relationship with him. If that is his intent then the both of you need to talk about the direction this relationship is going. Being psychologically abusive isn't good for you. You deserve to be happy.

I wouldn't bother trying to talk him out of a sour mood. What I would do is to go about my business and if he's in a bad mood go do something fun without him. His mood is just that, HIS MOOD. You don't need to absorb it.

If he's complaining about how his "perfect" week end was messed up until your grandmother showed up then he has a problem with being flexible. Virgos are Mutables, they are supposed to be flexible. He's acting illogical and that's coming from some other influence. My bet is the oppositions from the transiting planets in Pisces.

If he is always like this I suggest getting another boyfriend. Not knowing your birth data I can't suggest a particular sign.

i'm a virgo and i'm sooo complicated that i don't understand myself sometimes....i guess we're made like that

Headstrong

my virgo boyfriend seems to get bent out of shape when his/our plans change from what he had planned. I think it's normal for them.

i dont know but i hope this will give u any clues or not..

Sun in Virgo


(The Sun is in Virgo from approximately August 21 to September 20, depending on the year).
It is rare to find the stereotypical nitpicky, exacting, "clean freak" in modern-day Virgos. Although the sign of Virgo has evolved with the times, there are some unmistakable traits that remain. Virgo people are generally respectable, hard-working individuals who have a love of knowledge and know-how.

Virgo's symbol, the Virgin, shows itself in the lives of Virgos through a love of all that is "natural" and a certain purity of spirit that keeps Virgos self-sufficient and self-contained, at least on the surface. Virgos are sensitive to their surroundings, and they tend to embarrass easily. They are generally reticent when faced with anything or anyone new. However, once they feel comfortable, they can talk up a storm. Many Virgo Suns are not too comfortable in the limelight. These types are just fine living in the background, as long as they feel useful and appreciated. Solar Virgos have a strong sense of responsibility. Even when they've convinced themselves to be irresponsible about something or the other, they worry about it.

Not all Virgos are workaholics. However, when Solar Virgos are not involved in some kind of project, there is generally a vague feeling of discontent. Even when their lives are filled up with work, they are restless and somewhat nervous creatures. The fear of under-performing is often strong. Virgos want to do things well. Some are exacting and thorough, and those Virgos who have convinced themselves to do a less-than-perfect job will generally feel incomplete.

Virgo, as an Earth sign, has a notable connection to the body. Solar Virgos are generally very body-aware. In some cases, this shows up as some form of hypochondria, but, for the most part, Virgo is simply quite concerned with health matters and nutrition. Virgo is attracted to all that is natural and pure, but is generally unafraid to explore all that is not. In fact, Virgo is an intensely curious sign. Still, there is a strong desire to remain pure on some level, despite all of Virgo's curiosity and drive to know things. Those Virgos that find a true interest or "calling" easily become connoisseurs--their attention to details and enormous observation powers give them the ability to learn all of the ins and outs of any subject. These people love to do research, in addition to analytic or detail work. They'll happily pick apart practically anything, although they are less adept at putting things back together, and often have trouble grasping the big picture.

Virgo Suns who are stuck in the practical, material world may learn a lot about themselves if they are brave enough to try placing their lives on automatic pilot once in a while. Letting some things go will do wonders for their spirit. Virgos tend to be too hard on themselves. They worry about their health, their performance at work, all the things they haven't done, and the emails that might be waiting for them while they are away from their computer. When they're not feeling well, they can be overly critical and nervous. They fuss around, have a whole slew of assorted little complaints, and throw small tantrums.

Solar Virgos are perfectionists--there's simply no escaping it. They dream of mastery; they long to do something really well. Some Virgos are so scared of their own perfectionist qualities that they tell themselves they don't care. Others will forever dabble into one thing or another, leaving a string of incomplete projects behind them. However, the happiest Virgos accept their need to get things right, without overdoing it. Probably the best advice for Sun in Virgo people is to find something that interests them--however small or large--and master it.

Most Virgos can be rather private and fussy about their work, or their personal workspace. They get nervous when others look at their unfinished work, and they are quite protective of their methods of doing things. Despite an overall lack of confidence, Virgos can be mighty proud--even arrogant--when it comes to their work, routines, or hobbies. Secretly, they think their methods of doing things are the best. Often, they are! They do take pride in the little things they do, even though, in a broader sense, Virgos can be rather self-effacing and self-critical.

Solar Virgos often confuse people when their curiosity is mistaken for passion. The surprising part is that Virgo, although knowledgeable, doesn't always get its hands dirty. Their willingness to explore is often kept at the intellectual level. However, Virgos are often well-respected and valued in their circles for their loyalty, research skills, willingness to lend a hand, and their excellent powers of observation. They are generally kind and helpful souls who, when appreciated, do everything to make things work.

There's an odd combination of the intellectual and the practical in Virgo that is sometimes mistaken for coolness. In fact, Virgos are often self-effacing and shy. They'll brush off your compliments quickly and, sometimes, critically; but don't let that fool you. They need your respect and appreciation. In fact, the happiest Virgos are the ones who feel appreciated and useful. Add plenty of worthwhile projects to keep them busy, and Virgos can be some of the sweetest, kindest people around.



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