Cancer (zodiac) Boyfriend has been acting 'cold' towards me lately, what!


Question: It's weird, because he is normally kinda clingy and attentive, but the past couple of days he has been acting kinda distant...we have been dating for about 10 months, and he used to leave me very romantic messages on the voice mail every day telling me how much he loves me, but the other day he claimed that he needed some time 'away' from it all, whatever that means... I know he has been having problems with his childs mother, but he was also acting rude and arrogant over the phone, and didn't call today at all... do Cancer men just fall out of love over night, could he have a new girlfriend, or could it be a 'full moon' and he'll come back around soon ...???


Answers: It's weird, because he is normally kinda clingy and attentive, but the past couple of days he has been acting kinda distant...we have been dating for about 10 months, and he used to leave me very romantic messages on the voice mail every day telling me how much he loves me, but the other day he claimed that he needed some time 'away' from it all, whatever that means... I know he has been having problems with his childs mother, but he was also acting rude and arrogant over the phone, and didn't call today at all... do Cancer men just fall out of love over night, could he have a new girlfriend, or could it be a 'full moon' and he'll come back around soon ...???

Moon's in Libra and that's square to the Cancer's Sun sign. Beyond that the most important thing to a Cancer is their family and his child is important to him. If he's been having trouble with the mother of his child then he has to have time to deal with it.

There's other emotions going on than a new love in this man's life.

Could it be that you're moving faster than he's comfortable with. If he has children from another woman he needs to deal with that. If he's been abrupt over the phone maybe it's time to ask him what's going on with him and not be "Why haven't you done this for me?" Give him some support and nurturing if you want to help him get through a rough patch.

If he continues to be distant the truth is novel, ask him directly, is he still interested in you or is it over?

It's not like a Cancer to be in love one day and distant the next. They have to have a reason to be distant. Can you think of anything you said that would indicate that you don't like the energy he's giving to his own child? That would cut it for most Cancers.

The Sun is in Aries and the quicker moving planets will follow. Pluto is in Capricorn. It's not a happy time for Cancers. (Or Libras for that matter). Ya know, getting his chart done at http://www.astro.com and do yours you can figure out what your strong points are and where you need to do some work to make things smoother. A relationship chart for the both of you and a "Transit" reading for him. I'll bet you money he's traveling through some rough transits right now.

Look to where his feelings could have been hurt. Look to where "family" is taking all his energy. Check his transits. Because this is not common behavior for a Cancer man, unless those things have happened.

sounds like he may have found someone else

tomorrow is a full moon. i had to learn how to control my full moon mood swings.

Maybe he has a brain tumor that is acualy cancerise (conicidence?) you might tell him to get a MRI scan of his brain.

us cancers are VERY moody and do change our moods and minds quite often... it is possiable he is just going through somethings and needs a minute. i say if you really love him then just show him that your there for him and comfort him. cancers need to have alot of comfort and need to feel loved. just give him a few days im sure his mood will change again and things will be all better.

he lost interest and now your just getting on his nerves but he stays with u to spare your feelings

Im a cancer and I will tell you that he may just be pulling away a little bit. When we have something we have to take care of we need to do it and a lot of times we like to do things by ourselves. We normally are very open and honest about things so why dont you try asking him what is going on?>

Cancerians are moody. Your boyfriend's probably having a bad mood from his arguments with his child's mother. Ask him if you've done anything to upset him. If he said you've done nothing, you might want to tell him nicely that you understand his frustration, that you're always there for him if he needs to talk to you, and that you love him. Give him some time. If he's still acting cold towards you after a week or so, then it'd be a good time to have a talk with him and maybe ask him those questions you posted.

Good luck!! :)

cancerians have a hard time in the months of march until June or July the June month is the worst. but if he is a true cancer ask him whats the problem and listen to him. do not take the blame of anything you have no control over. Cancerians are very bi-polar like, but the most important thing to most of them are family and love.. But he might just have to face the facts his attitude stinks and he does not have the right to take it out on you. if he can't handle it at the moment give him about 2 days to reevaluate his mood. and then ask him if he is ready to talk.

here's his profile....it may give you some insite....I've had bad experiences with Cancer boyfriends as well.



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