I'm gemini, why do I always hurt water signs feelings and anger earth signs !
Question: Everytime It's the same thing! lol.. I swear these people have it out for me(earth and water sign guys and even some chicks)..
All I do is just talk to them and just because I don't agree with what they're saying, or I dream and daydream alot, they seem to get so angry and offended by that. With water signs, I can just speak moderately loud and they'll get all threatened and be like, " You don't have to be so rude, I was just asking! I don't even know about those things, I'm not in that industry!!) and then they'll harbor a grudge against me behind my back. Same for earth signs, they are attracted to me at first(scorpio rising) and then end up HATING ME. When I talk about big dreams I have they get all jealous.. and be like (that's not possible, you can't be that or this.) or ( I think you're aiming too high). it is pitiful
What is up with all this? Do earth and water signs just have some sort of resentment towards air signs or geminis? Why do I hurt their feelings so bad?
Answers: Everytime It's the same thing! lol.. I swear these people have it out for me(earth and water sign guys and even some chicks)..
All I do is just talk to them and just because I don't agree with what they're saying, or I dream and daydream alot, they seem to get so angry and offended by that. With water signs, I can just speak moderately loud and they'll get all threatened and be like, " You don't have to be so rude, I was just asking! I don't even know about those things, I'm not in that industry!!) and then they'll harbor a grudge against me behind my back. Same for earth signs, they are attracted to me at first(scorpio rising) and then end up HATING ME. When I talk about big dreams I have they get all jealous.. and be like (that's not possible, you can't be that or this.) or ( I think you're aiming too high). it is pitiful
What is up with all this? Do earth and water signs just have some sort of resentment towards air signs or geminis? Why do I hurt their feelings so bad?
I am aquarius and i have got exactly the same problem ,with vergo's and the other masculine signs ,they can be really mean , and they only think about their own feelings . ! as an air sign i like to share my experience with the world and forgive and forget and understand , and help or come up with solutions and make the world a better place . but i don't see that in earth and water signs . nobody can really explain why they are so mean . you as gemini don't worry about this problem , becouse the are 6 other signs who love to have you as a friend , and they are ( aries, leo, sagittarius, gemini, libra, and and afcourse the friendly aquarius .) and you have to know that The element Air is the only one consistently presented by a human figure , where as other signs have an animal symbol ,which explains why they will never understand you as a human ! but there are ways to deal with this problem , just stand up for yourself ., you are a cool gemini ., gemini is 1 of the best signs in the zodiac ,don't be afraid to show your gemini feelings and emotions to them if they have problems with understanding you and your needs it's their problem and not yours good luck .
I believe in astrology but in this case, maybe it is just you and not your sign? Well if you do look at astrology, Air signs are usually think more and like to expiriment and learn...while Water signs are very emotional and like comfort and stability....so it might make them umcomfortable to see someone so unorthodox...Im basically trying to analyze here but it probably isnt all based on astrology here ^_^
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Ya well i unblocked you now ^_^ im a very in the moment person and didnt like it when you said I have an ego because its probably the opposite in real life...lol But Im over it now. :)
Well to be honest it may be your personality thats doing that, some people have very rude personalities and they dont notice. If a person asks you something don't answer loudly. Be more respectful, i am a earth sign(Taurus). I am suppose to be so stubborn and i am but not all the time you just got to know how to react sometimes, its not always good toanswer loudly or be rude. Be careful with your face expresssions they might be hurtful. A person can take a expression and think its rude or mean.
As a Gemini you aren't that emotional and love to be involved in intellectual conversations but people to see you as a loud person. Generally water signs are emotional so they take to heart your honest opinions. Earth signs are grounded and since you are a air sign you have your head in the clouds which is two very different perspectives. They don't understand your logic and Earth signs are extremely stubborn so it's only natural. But because you are a air sign you generally attract many air signs and earth signs are interested with your outlooks but they are very tempered when you begin to share. You are correct it isn't a coincidence.
I think you just like the idea that you "piss people off", probly makes you feel good about yourself. I believe in astrology but it deffinitely sounds like its just YOU not your sign, Im a scorpio and my two best friends are gemini and aquarius & I get along with almost every gemini i know. Dont get all offended im just telling my opinion.
Edit: What are you talking about i was not trying to put you down i was trying to HELP you. You're not very smart. I know my worth i dont think "im better than anyone else". Like i said you just like to think you piss us off to feel good about yourself. Sorry it's NOT working.
Edit: And asking boring questions is a gemini trait nonetheless. Good luck on trying to piss me off. lol you are truly a Gemini.
Well, it's interesting how you pointed this stuff out.
Water signs are more sensitive then most. I find depending who they're, like cancers tend to be very emotional people.
Scorpios are jealous, but a lot of ppl get jealous and they should work on that one.
You're a gemini which means you're outgoing, chatty and they tned to be pushy cuz they want to kno and the tihngs they say make the signs like scorpio(who live for secrets) and cancers (emotional) and earth signs which are grounded and have a need for security) can sometimes not understand your sign, because you want to be open and because of that they may feel freaked or threatened.
They may come around and sometimes they just need to get used to the way you are. Just try not to be too pushy and relax. lol Things should be fine, and not all the igns are like that because we have different signs in us not just one.
Gemini's are known for being VERY controversial. They love spicy, stimulating talk, and can be confrontive too. It's such a kick for them.
Unfortunately, people who take themselves VERY seriously do not find that behavior amusing. :-)
My advice is to find the FUN people.
Well, how interesting. I have a Gemini friend who can be offensive with her mouth, but I don't hesitate to let her know about herself and her behaviors. I'm a Sag. In chatting with her, I've come to realize she really has no clue she's been offensive (I'm accused of the same behavior, as well). Anyway, I can see where people can be offended by Geminis, but if they would just confront you then and there, they'd come to understand you're harmless. Earth and Water signs are not going to understand you--they're too sensitive.
obviously you dont "get" earth and water signs, dont say its their problem just because you cant understand them.
is your venus afflicted, i think you need to be more aware of everything and how you talk whatever their sign is. gemini's are supposed to be air signs not repel signs, gems ive met are pretty out there, but they never offend.
in short, your a confused little gemini, hopefully you can work with the negative aspects in your chart and not against it.
Hi Amiri,
Are you having a rough day?
You hurt my feelings a couple of times too - a while back, remember? - and I am a fire sign. Well, I got over it pretty quickly when I realized you talk like you do to everyone - ha, ha. I can't imagine that people hold a grudge against you or hate you after they get to know you. You are funny, really funny sometimes - the way you just blurt out whatever is on your mind. Perhaps you are just giving too much of yourself away to the wrong kinds of people. Try being more discriminating regarding the disclosure of personal information - it might help, maybe.
I'm doing okay.....still trying to recover from learning about the meaning of Chiron in Aquarius in the 7th - ugh.
*trust me; not a good idea.
I don't know! i'm a gemini too, and earth signs are evil.
that's all i know. :-)
no, but seriously. the same things happen to me so i'd like to see more answers
Because, like all the other 500 million geminis in the world, you are shallow and blather on until all the meaning has been lost.
Lol. You see what we're talking here is not astrology, my friend. I always see these patterns everywhere.
Like for me, I keep meeting nice and beautiful looking Capricorn women, but eventually they end up hurting me or breaking my heart. They all seem so emotionless. I don't see them as, as hard working as they say. Also all very boring. So I made this whole perception that "All Carpicorn are boring." ,and espacially "All Capricorn are emotionless.". But that's stereotyping. I just keep meeting them, what the hell?
Next, remember that guy who had bad experience with Aquarians? See he kept on drawing it toward us over and over. Unless there is a lesson to learn from that. Yeah I am going off the regular wavelength again.
You, you also always meet surprisingly unintellectual aquarius'. Wtf? I'm ******* more perceptive than most people. In my school they are all like all-knowing when no one knows the answer.
Its like a cycle. You keep meeting the same people. It is something spiritual.
Like I keep meeting and making friends with nice and intelligent people. My friend always, whether online or in life, meets people who want to compete with him, and usually, lose. Its the same cycle over and over.
Sometimes happens but I think that more than gemini, is the ascendant. You appear like a water sign and earth signs like the way you look. When you have to deal with them they notice you're gemini, very different from what they had thought before, so obviously they feel confused and annoyed..... but try to balance the situation a little bit so they don't feel like this... if nothing happens **** everyone
To answer your question, most geminis (I know anyway) literally do not think before they speak. They just talk and talk and talk and sometimes I wonder do they even care what they say or whether they may offend or hurt someone in the process.
Being a capricorn, I wouldn't say that earth signs are jealous of you, it's just that we tend to be more realistic. I know 2 geminis specifically that talks about their dreams alot, but never seem to put any effort toward them, so I do tend to get irritated about it because I get tired of hearing them come up with all sorts of different "dreams" and never acting upon them. One thing I've learned about geminis is that they are more talk/words than anything.
Sorry,astrology is nonsense,one twelfth of all the world's population have a certain personality because of when they were born?,I don't think so.