Why Scorpio guy is not wanting sex as much?!
Question: Been together over a year. Sex was regular every week and it's always been good and satisfying. For the past month, it's been sporadic here and there with long days in between. He always has an "excuse". They all seem reasonable, understandable or true. No, he isn't cheating. I know that for a fact. We are fine. Whenever I ask if he is still interested, attracted to me, wants and enjoys being with me, he reassures me it's yes!!! I asked if there is anyone else, he tells me no and that it is just me. He hasn't been getting much sleep. Stays up too late, wakes up early for work, has been playing soccer a lot. Is his system just exhausted these days or because he has other personal issues troubling him? Should I worry?
Answers: Been together over a year. Sex was regular every week and it's always been good and satisfying. For the past month, it's been sporadic here and there with long days in between. He always has an "excuse". They all seem reasonable, understandable or true. No, he isn't cheating. I know that for a fact. We are fine. Whenever I ask if he is still interested, attracted to me, wants and enjoys being with me, he reassures me it's yes!!! I asked if there is anyone else, he tells me no and that it is just me. He hasn't been getting much sleep. Stays up too late, wakes up early for work, has been playing soccer a lot. Is his system just exhausted these days or because he has other personal issues troubling him? Should I worry?
ya I dated a scorpio and my best friend is a scorpio, and I find that as much as they love sex if something is off balance in thier lives or bothering them in thier relationship they can and will withold sex indefinetly, leave him alone about it, he doesn't want to talk about it, and let m-him work his issues out :)
I personally wouldn't worry about it. Stress is probably a big part of it, so be there for him in any way you can. Another thing you could try, give him a nice massage one day after work, and soon enough I'm sure he'll be back to acting like himself.
I dated one of those. We are not together anymore, but in his case it was family issues and problems at work. I think for any Scorpio sex is more then just an act, its all about the connection. If your relationship is great on all other levels, he might not even need sex to be happy.
I was thinking that there was something personal going on.
But you should read up on how less and less sleep can leave you drained AND sexually frustrated!
http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article.do...
I tried to find an article about guys. But you can apply it to him too. We are the same when we lack sleep!!
obviously a dead scorpio
Scorpios are known for their sexual appetite but theyre also known for withholding sex for control and manipulation. I cant stand scorpios. Sorry, good luck with that mess. Personally, sex shouldnt be about manipulation and control, but about love.
yeah somthing like that happened to me .. lol just leave him alone trust me this is the answer its nothing u did its him , he'll come around soon .... just dont ask him anymore questions ... itll break it off ...
My beau is a Scorp. They are known for being emotional, so stress affects them greatly. Stress notoriously affects libido. Insufficient/irregular sleep is a great stressor, also a classic sign of stress. A planetary transit might be indicative/causing this period.
But do remember many (most?) relationships are not meant 'for ever', and YOU and your energies are 50% of the relationship.
If you're into astrology you might like to learn more about your full horoscope(s), and your 'synastry'. Certain aspects are indicative of short relationships.
This might help
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sun_sign_as...
But personally, I'd purchase (at least) a full relationship report from Liz Greene. In my experience her reports give great insight and guidance/advice. (She is a qualified psychologist, as well as being a highly-regarded astrologer)
http://www.astro.com/prod/pr_tp_e.htm
But if cash is short feel free to email me your birth data (date(s) of birth, also ideally time and location), and I'll try to see if there's anything obvious.
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