What can I do about a virgo boyfriend?!


Question: I know that virgos may have an adventerous or wild side. But, today my virgo boyfriend is acting pretty wild and crazy, and while im in a very calm mood today, and it was just yesterday that he was his down to earth self, but now he's acting wild today? Whats going on here? I'm a cancer and he wants me to "lighten up a bit" what should I do/say?
I haven't done anything to him to make him act this way, he started to out of random.


Answers: I know that virgos may have an adventerous or wild side. But, today my virgo boyfriend is acting pretty wild and crazy, and while im in a very calm mood today, and it was just yesterday that he was his down to earth self, but now he's acting wild today? Whats going on here? I'm a cancer and he wants me to "lighten up a bit" what should I do/say?
I haven't done anything to him to make him act this way, he started to out of random.

we virgos are known for being constantly stressed or worried about something. we're scarily picky. generally when i'm in one of my "crazy" moods, it's because i'm just really happy for some reason. maybe it's the end of the week. maybe i have something really good to look forward to. maybe someone did something nice for me. maybe i've done something nice for someone else, and it made me feel good. who knows?

just remember that deep down your boyfriend is still your boyfriend. he's just like your boyfriend "EXTRA" right now.

If he's been acting this way then that's great! You should lighten up because Virgo's are knon tobe depressed people just like cancers.. If I were you I would go out with him and act wild and have fun (Just one time)! And see how he likes that.. Maybe he'll settle down a little.. But i suggest that you leave him be, he'll burn himself out eventually

Ha! I am a cancer woman too and dated a virgo for 9 years. He was great when we were alone together wanted to marry me even bought me a ring. BUT when we were out in public together he almost ALWAYS acted like I wasn't even there well not really cause he would walk up to me and put his arm around me and ask if I was having fun but then just take off and hang with his friends all night. If I did try and join in and crack a joke or something he would say something like.... You are this shy little girl that wants to be the center of attention. It was almost like he was pissed if I got more attention than him or something. He also used to tell me to lighten up. That was usually after telling him he needed to spend more time with me. He was a farm boy and grew up in a very old fashioned household where he was taught women should basically be seen and not heard. I am definitely not that type! He bought a house without asking me what I thought and then took me to see it after and told me that this is where we will live when we get married. Whatever! This house was way too close to his family and they were all WAY too involved! We could only attend the church of HIS choice and if I wanted to attend somewhere else I would have had to go alone. He was way more adventurous than me and was always off on some trip with his buddies. That was not really a big deal to me but the big deal for me was that when I wanted to take a vacation we could only do it if I was paying or go where he wanted to go. I was the type that wanted to be in small groups and he always had to have a large group and if I didn't want to be in the large group then he would attend without me. The real kicker for me was finally realizing that even though when we were alone together everything was great and the sex was amazing. He was never going to be the man I needed. He actually broke up with me (after I called his cell phone and he thought he had hung it up but didn't and I heard him telling someone that he had to go cause there was a girl waiting for him that probably didn't want to see him half as bad as he wanted to see her.) At first I was heartbroken but now I realize what a huge favor he did for me. He now dates another cancer woman that apparently has a much more tolerant and less needy side than I do. I wish them well but I can't imagine a cancerian sister being any more secure with him than I was. After all, I dealt with it for 9 years. Also, there were other things about him that were good but he was very full of himself and didn't have much time for a relationship that wasn't all about him. By the way her name is Michelle too.



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