How can I beat a Virgo at his own game?!
Question: You know, this push-pull-push deal where they push you away, pull you in, then push away again when you least expect it...
Answers: You know, this push-pull-push deal where they push you away, pull you in, then push away again when you least expect it...
Ok- I'll be honest with you but the cunningness will not win you his heart cos they are the type if you do manage to get him to fall in love with you easily by being cunning- will eventually win in the end by ending the relationship and take back their heart and severing all ties.
So- if you genuinely care for this guy, then just be yourself cos this way, he'll fall in love with the real YOU and you won't have to put up a fake face just to be with him- trust me- he will eventually catch on if you are are lying to him and surely- it's the best way to either lose him or he'll keep the relationship strictly platonic, and this they are very good at.
Virgo men are very patient and picky at picking who their potential mate is and will be, no point lying or being fake cos he will catch on eventually cos they pay very close attention to the small details and normally have good memory, so my question to you is; Is it really worth losing him to be cunning just to get him when all you got to do is be yourself and possibly have him fall in love with you on his own??
And as for the push- pull thing, YES- I know what you mean cos I , myself have seen this in action also- only in my case, he fell in love with me, the real me- I'll add cos I wasn't really trying to win his love or anything. Came out of the blue, just like that. This is where the push- pull thing explains itself, well- atleast in my case anyways.
He pulls you, not the other way around. Cos he had time to go in his deeper self to think....so comes around, wants to be around you, calls you, talks to you, etc.
He pushes you away cos he has mixed feelings, this man fears the loss of his freedom, his identity if he enters a relationship.
so he retreats once more to think, to analyze, to check and double check ( this is mainly if he's thinking possibly if he wants to be in a steady/ long-term relationship if he isn't in one already) This is a sign that he missed you if he returns.
So he pulls once again thinking ok- I'm ready........ ahhh -maybe not.
Pushes- so retreats once more....
and on and on- it continues UNTIL he had enough time to think things thoroughly and makes a decision that YES, he wants to be with you and only you- so he'll propose and this is the best part cos for the lucky girl/woman, he'll sacrifice his personal freedom for her and marry her to make her his.
So it's a long and slow process to get to that stage and you'll have to pass many of his lil tests ( mind games) b4 even getting to that stage so patience, being genuine and truthfulness are to the keys to winning his heart- no other way, and yes, also he'll ask many questions too cos he wants to be 110% sure b4 making that final decision- that is why I say, mind games.
But once he does make you his- the push- pull thing only decreases only alil cos he's a very diificult man and getting him to fully trust you and open up himself to you will not be easy and will take time but will be effortless for one who is genuine, patient and truthful.
*** But don't be fooled- this man analyzes your every word, actions, reactions and personality while on his retreats ' IF ' he's got his eye on you...
So finally- if you are talking games, you are just wasting your time, move on cos he will see through it and he'll win in the end by getting you to fall in love with him and to him that's easy but getting him to fall in love with you is even harder b/c he guards his heart like no other almost like the way Scorpio and Cancer does.
** Also you have his whole chart to consider.
whoa!! you lost me in the push-pull-push-pull push thing! what kind of Virgos have u been hanging out with?? lol
too much push pull, i wonder if they ever get lost doing it so much.....
Edited: i would get a headache if i tried to explain all that push-pull thing one by one. ill be honest with you, i lack experience with Virgo guys. but what i could probably say from judgment is that he is definately playing a game. from generalizations, Virgos love intelligence and wouldnt mind a detailed-oriented person. theyre not so much of the romantics, so take it slow. play hard to get and be practical. yes, it also helps that you show you care! give him the impression that you are a strong woman too. think about what he likes, ask him......give him a reason as to why you'll be a great partner for him, take care of details! im sorry, i didnt want to say this, but it would be helpful if you looked up his chart. that would give you many more details as to who youre setting your eyes on! cafeastrology.com is a good start. you'll need his D.O.B, time of birth and location of birth.
Don t give worth to it!
Its fake!