Can Aquarians be cruel?!


Question: My now ex-Aquarian boyfriend used to say some mean stuff to me. I used to think I was in love with him but I actually think his behaviour was kind of cruel.
He had a Saggitarius ascendent which I think can mean people can be quite blunt and a bit too honest.
Is this the reason?
I have Pisces rising which I have heard can mean I can be very sensitive. Do you think it was impossible that we would have ever made it as a couple? I am sad it didn't work out but the thought of ever getting back together and experiencing his sharp tongue again makes me run for the hills!?


Answers: My now ex-Aquarian boyfriend used to say some mean stuff to me. I used to think I was in love with him but I actually think his behaviour was kind of cruel.
He had a Saggitarius ascendent which I think can mean people can be quite blunt and a bit too honest.
Is this the reason?
I have Pisces rising which I have heard can mean I can be very sensitive. Do you think it was impossible that we would have ever made it as a couple? I am sad it didn't work out but the thought of ever getting back together and experiencing his sharp tongue again makes me run for the hills!?

I too am an Aquarian with Sag rising. :)

We have a tendency to have a sharp tongue, because Aquarians are mental and attack with words more often than being physical. We know this is a quick, effective way to upset you. Also, you are correct. Sagittarius makes people very blunt, honest, and to the point. Your pisces does make you more emotional, which may mean you are letting your feelings get hurt for no reason. To be totally honest, not trying to hurt feelings just help you, sometimes aquarians have no tolerance for people who seem over emotional or clingy. It makes us feel like we're trapped. Hence more tounge lashing!
I'm wondering about your sun sign? If it's a water or earth sign (pisces, scorpio, cancer) (capricorn, taurus, virgo) you may be getting upset at his seemingly careless attitude towards love. Air signs can at times be hard to deal with (I'm a handful) but we are very caring and dutiful to the betterment of mankind, for the most part.

All that being said, there isn't any excuse to put up with it. If he doesn't learn to control his mouth, he's going to wind up in trouble, and I mean with more than just feelings. He is obviously trying to push you away, and it seems right now is not the time to try to get back together. You deserve someone who wants to make you happy, not hurt your feelings. Aquarians tend to want someone they feel is confident and will give them independence. If you can show him you don't want to smother him and just be apart of his life, he may come around and be the best boyfriend you ever had. If not, it wasn't meant to be with him. Don't settle for less than you deserve!

i don't buy the whole zodiac sign thing i think its silly

I think they can unintentionally but deep down they are kind folk and ultra sensitive.

Aquarians and are cruel sometimes to people and are sometimes kind.It has more to do with a persons personality than what some star chart has to say about them. The whole saying in Julius Caesar by shakespear say's it all "The fault lies not in our stars, but in ourselves".

Not sure hw much I believe in all the stars stuff, but I'm an Aquarian and my first husband was a Pisces....................say no more!

they really are super sensitive inside but can be cruel without knowing. sag ascendant makes someone super blunt and doesn't mince words. I think that it wouldn't work out at all, because pisces rising is too sensitive and sag rising is too rude for u.

i married one and that was the end of my life..

they are bloody cruel...
the male aquarian is an animal to avoid totally..
the can reduce yr life to nothing..

yes i am aquarian i was not cruel or mean. i married a pisces and he had a very uguly streak in him . i think you should be yourself and love will come.

Well I'm an Aquarian - In my opinion I'm neither blunt nor cruel. I don't think that a star sign is the best judge of character although maybe a slight insight.

If any guy is regularly mean to you (cause everyone says things they don't mean in an argument), kick them and walk away. Its surprising what I see guys get away with.

Yes Aquarius people are cruel to other people sometimes and sometimes they are very kind. They do not mean to be cruel but it depends on the persons personality. They are sensitive inside but they can be cruel without knowing it.

Aquarians may come off as cruel because they're so emotionally detatched and bluntly honest, but they have no intentions on hurting your feelings. My dad is an aquarius and he has said some things that have deeply offended people, but he didn't realize it at the time and had no intentions of hurting other peoples feeling. My advice? Don't take what an aquarius says too personally. Best of luck!

Aquarius people are like very detached emotionally, and i know this because my moon sign is aquarius and i don't like to put too much into feelings and emotions, and sometimes aquarius can say things without thinking because they are very honest with you,and they don't realize that maybe they are hurting your feelings when they say something,but since you say that he has a saguttarius ascendant they can bedownright blunt with you and not even care about what they say because they are so tactless they make a lot of people angry,and since your a pisces rising you are very sensitive and what he says would be very hurtful to you so i can see what your saying.



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