I want to know why this Scorpio guy (Nov. 10) seems to be afraid of having sex w!
Question: We have been feeling each other for about a year now but have not had sex yet. Everytime we see each other, all we do is stare into each others eyes. We finally kissed each other a couple of time here recently (the first was a couple months ago), which lasted several minutes and I must admit was extremely HOT!!!!!!!! lol...Anyway, every time we talk on the phone, he's always saying what he's going to do to me when we do hook up and I'm like, just let me know when and where but it never seems to happen. I asked him if he was afraid that I would bite (I told him I would, only if he asked). lol...He laughed hard and said, no he's not afraid. So I just need some insight on this man...please help. Bye the way, I'm a Taurus gal. Thanks :~)
Answers: We have been feeling each other for about a year now but have not had sex yet. Everytime we see each other, all we do is stare into each others eyes. We finally kissed each other a couple of time here recently (the first was a couple months ago), which lasted several minutes and I must admit was extremely HOT!!!!!!!! lol...Anyway, every time we talk on the phone, he's always saying what he's going to do to me when we do hook up and I'm like, just let me know when and where but it never seems to happen. I asked him if he was afraid that I would bite (I told him I would, only if he asked). lol...He laughed hard and said, no he's not afraid. So I just need some insight on this man...please help. Bye the way, I'm a Taurus gal. Thanks :~)
I'm a Scorpio woman, but I would imagine him acting this way, because he's afraid of spoiling things between you two.
I had a relationship with a Scorp. men for two years, and from personal experiences if this guy really likes you, he wants to make sure that the connection that you two have is more then sexual. Or maybe he has been hurt in the past and wants to prevent the same thing from happening to him again. For Scorpios (from my experiences) love and sex go together hand in hand, maybe its the case with your guy.
Just take things slow and let him know how much you like him and want him. Maybe take things in your own hands and make the first move.
Whatever it is, I hope your wait is worth it!
zodiac signs dont matter...
maybe he believes his thing is small, or its his first time
idk i have questions about him (bc i have a couple of tangible ideas why he is doing this) as this is a mystery to me as a scorpio... it depends alot on him as an individual, as well as a scorpio
such as how old is he?
what's his sexual past? or morale
are you guys bf and gf?
so forth...
You don't say what your age is but it sounds like he is extremely respectful of you and wants to take it slow and knows that if he does he will have won you. btw you also sound very patient and also know that to love someone the respect needs to be there first. I am almost envious of you for finding such a decent guy. Of course there could be other reasons why he hasn't done anything yet. He could just be super shy or he might have a disease and is afraid to tell you until he trusts you completely. He could have been through a bad relationship before and hurt emotionally and afraid to go for it again.etc,etc, etc. Not trying to be negative here just a thought . I would trust him though because he obviously cares for you very much. Good luck!
he's scared. probably a virgin?
maybe hes afraid he cant perform good enough for you.
He probably has a girlfriend & doesn't want the guilt of cheating or getting caught.
yea his probably a virgin.
yup, im with the virgin explaination. his reluctance could also be because your his first serious hook up and sex is not something casual to him. its just not him being a scorpio, some men value sex as another level of relationship. obviously the ball is in his court. its good you show your interest, but dont make yourself too readily available and dont rush him.
I agree with "Lovely"
Im a scorpio guy and Im hesitant because Im either scared that I'll ruin it by having sex to early. Or that I dont want to be hurt the same way I was in the past. If Im going to have sex with a person, I wanna know that they are going to stay with me.