I only date scorpios, why unsuccessfully?!
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I dated a lot and the only guys I feel comfortable around and attracted to is Scorpios..
I am a cancer and we are compatible anywhere you look... except
1. they disappear for nothing
2. they are so rude at times
3. they are almost always obsessed with an ex
Last night I had a date and we had a great time, we got along, had a passionate kiss.. I haven't heard from him, when he was so clingy before we met.
It seems like Scorpio men
-only want what they can't have
-love destroyed women
-don't want to take any responsibility for their actions
-secretly hate people and pretend they are having fun
-tell you to 'toughen up' if you get evicted but lose it if they are tired or have a headache
I guess my question is, are they all like that or just the group I met?? I have been stung so much lol
So is there even such thing as a woman who can handle them?? Should I give up?!?
Answers: Do not respond if you do not believe in astrology!
I dated a lot and the only guys I feel comfortable around and attracted to is Scorpios..
I am a cancer and we are compatible anywhere you look... except
1. they disappear for nothing
2. they are so rude at times
3. they are almost always obsessed with an ex
Last night I had a date and we had a great time, we got along, had a passionate kiss.. I haven't heard from him, when he was so clingy before we met.
It seems like Scorpio men
-only want what they can't have
-love destroyed women
-don't want to take any responsibility for their actions
-secretly hate people and pretend they are having fun
-tell you to 'toughen up' if you get evicted but lose it if they are tired or have a headache
I guess my question is, are they all like that or just the group I met?? I have been stung so much lol
So is there even such thing as a woman who can handle them?? Should I give up?!?
Depends actually on the scorpio as some can go to more extremes than others but most like showing off for sure.
I disappear when I want away from people..sometimes I need to get away.
I do have a habit of speaking my mind and if it's being rude or if I figure you can handle the rudeness I'll sometimes say it.. think a little shock value that people like.
I'm not obsessed with exes as it's been with women who I've fallen for (in love) and the relationship goes no where. I can still tell you their names, however I can't remember half the women's names I dated...
But it depends on who we are dating as sometimes we give you space to miss us by.
I can agree on the women I can't have to a point as it gets aggrevating and then we don't want it anymore.
I don't like destroyed women, I like one who can defend herself against me at times personally , but women who need someone to lean to also.
I take responsibility personally but others scorps I know however won't
I don't secretly hate people personally but will pretend to have fun on occasion if it's for something I want (such as a woman)
Scorpios I know want a woman who can fight back a little but however there are times when people will grade on you to the point you loose it... people can push the right scorpio buttons and make us flip out over mundane stuff... usually it's over principles.
But I think it's pretty much the group you have been with as there are some better scorps out there but usually we wait in the distance stalking you out before we attack... usually we want to see if you measure up to what we want personally.
And never give up.. just i's gonna take time with us:-)
try going with people other than Scorpios then maybe you'll find a good one
I'm a Scorpio I'm married to a Virgo for 37 years it hasn't been easy but i think she has me trained enough at least to venture out in public Hey keep looking lots of frogs out there but it is worth it when you make yr prince
Well, I'm a Scorpio and the one Cancer I dated annoyed the hell out of me. Sorry about the language, but he was just that annoying. I can't stand Cancers. >.<
It's very interesting. I am a Scorpio woman and I am starting to date a Cancer man. I am afraid of scaring him off. The reason I am afraid is because I don't feel like I am the way that you describe, or at least I don't mean it to affect others if I am that way, but I get treated like I am cold and heartless when nothing can be further from the truth.
I have had the same experience with every single Scorpio I have dated or that I know. Being one, and being very good friends with a few of them, I can tell you one thing for sure... Don't pay any attention to their moods. They can't take themselves seriously if no one else does. They are very sensitive people, which is a good indication that they are going to build a protective armour around their feelings in order to protect them. Scorps are loyal if you don't give them grief for being how they are.
When they disappear, it's because they feel out of sorts and they don't want others to help them, so they duck out until they feel more like worthy company. I know that the rude behavior is nearly always reversible with a Scorp if you refrain from attacking back, but instead confront them (they hate that) by saying, "I'm sorry, did I offend you accidently or something?" You could sell tickets to watch the meltdown.
Remember, Scorps thrive on reassurance. When they don't get it, they go out of their way to find it. They hate looking weak, they know they aren't as strong as they seem, but they don't want anyone else to know that.
That is because they are the traits of a scorpio man, they might be exiting and fun but also extremely moody and selfish.
Of coarse there is you just have to find the right scorpio and ignore his mood swings!! Because if you acknoledge it it will get worse, cancer and scorpio are both water signs and possibly the best match for each other.
I am a cancer and we are compatible anywhere you look... except
1. they disappear for nothing
I TOTALLY AGREE!!!
they are all like that. i hate scorpio men. if u like a**holes, they are the ones to go after
atg nailed this answer. take her advise it's very wise and very accurate!
well im a scorpio(female) and i no that scorpios can get offended very easily! and they can be moody about nothing, and they hold grudges! but your compadible with them so maybe just the few you have met are like that. but you also have to relize that yes horiscopes can be truthful they also are not the only thing that maks someones personality. so i would say that you need to try dating some different signs
You are very VERY observant! I am a Moon Maiden also, and I have to agree with everything you have said. I have been with my Scorpio for a little over twelve years, (we just married in Jan.) Every major relationship I have had has been with a Scorpio, there have been others, but the most MAJOR ones have all been with those devilish little creatures. Don't give up on men, try a Pisces or a Taurus, they compliment us very well also. Secret that is rarely told about Scorpio: the are almost as moody as we are, but you will never hear them admit that, well some might, but only if they are trying to get others to see their side of things! Don't get me wrong, Scorpios are the best, but my hubby has five planets in Scorpio so he is a full fledged Scorpio. I don't think that there really is a woman who can handle them, but we sure do love trying!! Just remember that Scorpio men need to be taken care of, do nice sweet gestures, almost motherly gestures and they will surely respond to that. Their biggest complaints I have heard about us Moon Maidens are that we take everything oh so personal, and that we are always in an emotional slump, I always tell them well look what we put up with from you Scorpios then ask yourselves why. Good Luck Girl, and don't give up on love!
That's true of what you say about Scorpios because that's what I noticed from my Scorpio friend and her Scorpio ex.
Scorpios are very jealous people and they are very needy when it comes to situations where they can't have what they want. But, when they already have what they want, they lose interest in them. In turn, they pursue something else that they want. It's weird, but they are honest people. They can stay faithful to their true lovers, but sometimes their mind wanders around to look for someone better on the side. And yes, I find that they are pretentious people. They are social people, so they always go with the crowd to fit in. They don't like being alone, so they try to have fun with other people and want to be cool, but may secretly hate doing it. It's like their life depends on people. They can't make their own life with just themselves. They are very dependent on others because they can't be responsible on their own. Scorpios tend to be very hateful and jealous of people they don't really like. But, they are very friendly with people who they like.
I don't think every Scorpio is like this though.
We are moody people. I do happen to like what I can't have, I am in love with a destroyed man, & I am pretty irresponsible (I'm working on it!!) My mood can change pretty rapidly & stay that way for a couple days. I'm very jealous & impatient. I'm fully aware of my faults, some I work on, some I don't. Basically when we're quietly giving you the evil eye from across the room, give it right back & then leave us alone, we'll eventually be intrigued & come hunt you down.