Capricorns-how long does it take for you?!
Question: to decide the person you have been dating is not the one for you? ( assuming all is going well otherwise)
I know I know by the 3rd date!
Answers: to decide the person you have been dating is not the one for you? ( assuming all is going well otherwise)
I know I know by the 3rd date!
It took me for a month of dating before I got into a relationship with my current bf. I'm not a quick decision maker when it comes to hard situations. For me, I like to have some time to get to know a person before I know I'm making the right decision. I just want to be with the right person for me because I'm more of a long term relationship person.
You should never force yourself to make a decision if you're unsure yet. Just go on your own pace and date for awhile to get to know more about the guy before you make a serious decision.
not a cap, but I always thought caps were very discerning and analytical before they decided issues....maybe you have acendendency or aspects in your houses that make you a bit different in that regard.
Well iam so like not sure cuz i aint a capricorn. i will say the maybe by the 3rd or 4th date cuz the couple has to get to know each other first before they start a serious relationship.
it took me 2 months. but sometimes we take too long on decideing and letting our true feelings to be expressed. it took me for me and my bf almost breaking up to show him my true feelings belly up.
edit: i thought you meant "the one" ok if the guy isnt worth my time the 1rst date.
A Capricorn knows almost upon meeting you whether or not you are someone they could be with long term. Their actions will follow suit---in other words----if they like you, you'll know it! If not, they will be inconsistant. The longer they take to decide whether or not you're it for them, the less favorable the outcome will be.
Not long at all, usually just by talking to them on the phone before a date even comes....but mostly between the 1st or 2nd date.
i will answer(in my case), not in the terms of dating, but more in the terms of the "not the right person" without reaching there... dates arent my thing (aquarius sun, so give me a break :P) and i've never been lucky in that term (venus capricorn square ascendant aries, also, sun in aquarius, conjucts venus, and squares ascendant, but its not as strong as the venus/ascendant square)
Anyways, i was borned with 5 capricorn planets (mercury, venus (r), saturn, uranus, and neptune, all of them hitting the 9th[Mercury, Uranus and Neptune] and 10th house[Venus and Saturn])
Curiously, ive never fell in love with someone unless that person was somehow, someway, associated to what i do, which is study(at the moment), i always meet them in the "work place" (10th house influence, venus is there xD)
Like what some fellow capricorns said above, it takes me FOREVER, to decide when that person isnt the right for me, simply because i cant admit that i set my mind on something that now may be wrong... it takes months if not years to forget the people i trully had feelings for... (this could also be result of the moon pluto conjuction in scorpio at the 7th house)
as some capricorns, i take forever to make the right choices of hard decisions, i just want everything to be right and i may take too much time to decide...
takes time, but sooner or later, we move on... we have to, we always do... :P
luckily, for now, my head is clean, no more people keeping my heart filled, so im more balanced :P
how are you ? :P
at least a year and a half.