What outer planet aspects do you have?!
Question: I have Uranus sextile mercury / venus
Neptune conjunct sun, moon, ascendant, square mars opposition saturn
Pluto conjunct midheaven, sextile neptune / moon
Answers: I have Uranus sextile mercury / venus
Neptune conjunct sun, moon, ascendant, square mars opposition saturn
Pluto conjunct midheaven, sextile neptune / moon
---Saturn in trine with moon/venus conjunction
---Uranus conjunct neptune, both conjuncting the ascendant
---Neptune in opposition with Jupiter/Chiron conjunction, in square with mars, quintiling the MC
---Pluto in opposition with moon, sextile to neptune, and in trine with jupiter/chiron conjunction
The only time an outer planet aspect affects an individual stressfully (I don't use bad) is when it affects another "inner" planet. For example, neptune sextiled pluto (both outer planets) for around 10 years in the 80s and 90s. This of course has a generational effect and so doesn't have much affect on just one person. However, if neptune and/or pluto are prominent in ones chart, this aspect does gain some significance.
An stressful aspect is a stressful one, and a harmonious one is a harmonious one. It doesn't matter the planets or asteroids or points involved. Since you have neptune forming poor aspects to mars and saturn, then they are just as stressful as any other possible "bad" aspect. For me, I have a T-square with neptune as one of the planets involved, and so it does affect me individually alot.
Hope this helps!
edit: I thought you were asking because you didn't know. I see, curiosity. Well, having some stressful neptune and pluto aspects I'd say they are quite prominent. The moon/pluto opposition was challenging no doubt, but I have overcome it. All it takes with an opposition is awareness (that's why I dont' consider them bad at all, not really even stressful) and for me, being aware of these controlling and powerful emotional feelings were enough. I could then counter these tendencies and become the positive side of pluto. Instead of manipulating, I would regenerate. With my T-square it isn't quite so easy and although I'm still young, I have much to overcome yet. It is better, some things have happened in my life to make me realize I need to counter it. Mars is the "third" planet here, so anger was the issue. I was a very mean kid and teen until recently, past few years or so. I still have the "urges" lol so to speak, but I am controlling them better.
edit 2: Actually I have mars in the 3rd as well, but not only that, mars is singleton!! To make things worse (no, actually just harder I should say) it is contained in the 3rd. So mars to me is the one planet I will have to overcome and pay attention to most in my chart. It is so key......huge challenge.
Mars in aries
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Which of these planets is your home one Bill
I have uranus square moon , trine mercury , opposite chiron,
neptune sextile pluto, square ASC and opposition MC
Pluto trine MC
Sun Sextile Saturn 4°31
Sun Square Pluto 5°10
Moon Sextile Neptune 1°10
Moon Conjunction Pluto 1°28
Mercury Sextile Saturn 4°58
Mercury Square Pluto 5°38
Venus Sextile Uranus 5°30
Mars Square Jupiter 4°12
Jupiter Sextile Uranus 4°19
Neptune Sextile Pluto 2°39
Uranus conjunct Mercury and opposing the moon.
Neptune conjunct Venus.
Pluto square Mars.
Saturn conjunct sun, and Jupiter is all on his own the poor little sod.
Uranus affects me in - not necessarily a good, but... - a very entertaining way. Imagine your Uranus sextile Mercury and multiply that by... well, it's just that effect, but instead of popping up every now and again, it stays... but I love it!
Neptune conjunct Venus... Sometimes I wish I didn't have that aspects, but it's there... It's probably one of the reasons why I always seem to go for pr|cks...
Pluto square Mars: handy, especially when someone gets on my nerves.I only have to explode once and people never annoy me again! ^_^ Downside; when I explode, I do it like the Krakatau.
Saturn conjunct sun... Bad, very bad. Thanks to Saturn sitting there all my life, I have absolutely no self esteem left. Upside; when I have my Saturn return, it will hit me less hard than it would anyone else, because I'm already used to having Saturnian influence constantly in my life.
Jupiter on his own... well, let's just say that I'm a bit too generous. Jupiter is simply out of control because it has no other object to hold it back.
I also have Pluto sextile Neptune, but as that was a constant aspect for over 40 years, naturally more than 1 generation share the same aspect.
*edit*
Genius? I wish... Entertaining it certainly is, and completely and utterly mad (most likely their position in the 1st house ^_~)
I have Neptune Sextile Pluto as do all my generation, supposedly, but the two planets only have marginal differences in orbit as far as divisions of a human life goes, so although a 'generation' is supposed to be 20 years, I bet it lasts longer.