Scorpio head games?!


Question: I date a lot of Scorpio's and it always goes the same..
I get the worst, then the best, then the disappearance while it is still good.
Now I'm 27 and I used to stress a lot about guys but now when I see them ignoring me, distant, paying less attention to be or seeming turned off and I think 'he just isn't into me' I burn the bridge and move on...

But I heard a story of a woman who put up with a Scorpios 'head games' for a year and now he is giving her the kind of love I deserve..

So what are these head games? The acting disinterested after a fun date? the blocking me? the not calling? him saying he needs time to take care of himself even though we never even spent much time together? when he still goes on the dating site but doesn't msn you?

So after a good date if he writes me to stand me up for our next planned date but is hoping I will 'stay on hold' is that a test?? of what purpose?
And my leaving is wrong right?

I chalk it all up to he doesn't like me, is there a better way?


Answers: I date a lot of Scorpio's and it always goes the same..
I get the worst, then the best, then the disappearance while it is still good.
Now I'm 27 and I used to stress a lot about guys but now when I see them ignoring me, distant, paying less attention to be or seeming turned off and I think 'he just isn't into me' I burn the bridge and move on...

But I heard a story of a woman who put up with a Scorpios 'head games' for a year and now he is giving her the kind of love I deserve..

So what are these head games? The acting disinterested after a fun date? the blocking me? the not calling? him saying he needs time to take care of himself even though we never even spent much time together? when he still goes on the dating site but doesn't msn you?

So after a good date if he writes me to stand me up for our next planned date but is hoping I will 'stay on hold' is that a test?? of what purpose?
And my leaving is wrong right?

I chalk it all up to he doesn't like me, is there a better way?

My advice to you is take control of the situation by treating him the same way he treats you. I have been in your situation, the first 2 months was great, but then around the end of december things started to change...he would ignore my calls and wouldn't call me for days to weeks. I talked to him about it, he made it seemed like everything was fine...the same thing happened again...a pattern I started to see, so I called him out on it...and decided to treat him the way he treated me. Whenever he decided to disappear, I simply ignored it and kept doing whatever I was doing...hanging out, keeping busy...and I let him called me rather than me chasing him and stressing myself trying to figure out what was wrong.

Now, he doesn't do that anymore...whenever I call, he answers, sends sweet text messages, calls, and he comes to see me more. So the best thing you can do is not worry yourself...simply let him stay in his cave until he's ready to come back out. If you can't handle giving them their space, then obvious they (scorpios) are not for you. Very important, you have to get to KNOW him and his ways (observe him), because knowing him will let you know rather he truly cares for you or not.

my moms a scorpio - my parents are divorced. trust me i got to see her "side" of the dating world. her moods and thoughts for these guys was always changing. first she'd be lonley so she'd start dating, then she would decide it wasn't for her, then she'd decide she loved him - on and on. But i can tell you, scorpios use people without intending to, they do play head games ALL the time and on purpose. It's fun for them i guess...

I'm a Scorpio!!
I haven’t seriously dated, though. So it doesn't really apply here. So I'll explain some stuff I’ve read.

Scorpios don't trust easily- this I can vouch for- so before they trust you, they have to make sure they can. And this means putting potential partners through “tests”, even if it's unconsciously done. I really LOATHE head games, so I would never play them on purpose, but I think I might do it a bit sort of unconsciously.

I bet you that’s what’s up. He probably isn’t even doing it intentionally. Once Scorpios do find a partner though, or once you “pass their tests,” they’re supposed to be fiercely loyal.

Oh, and just a tip. They may play head games but hate it when people play games with them.

Richard T was correct on his perspective of a Scorpio man. You have to show them, you will be there for them. Not a slave to them, but are there. I have two Scorpio men in my life, and they know when they call, I am there. I give them plenty of space. I go on with my life, doing what I want, as well. But then again, they both know I am very independent, and don't hang on their every move. Let Mr Scorpio come to you. He is the one man, who you can show your true side, and he doesn't judge you.

I completely agree with Ali. Once a Scorpio trusts you, they're pretty much there to stay. After I broke up with my Scorpio ex because of his attitude a few months went by without us talking. I moved on with my life and so did he. Out of the blue a few months later, he called me saying how much he missed me, how he had dated other girls but realized he could never "trust" them the way that he trusted me. They lied and cheated while I was always honest and faithful. Now I can't seem to get rid of the guy..lol. He calls at least 3 times a week and the last time we talked he was trying to convince me to move to Louisiana to be with him. A few weeks ago he actually sent me some scented candles that he made for me in the mail because he remembered that I love scented candles. Unfortunately, I'm terrified that things will be the same so I'm doubtful about giving him a second chance but it he keeps things going like this I might not be able to resist ;) In other words, I definitely wouldn't "put up" with his games but I would always be forthright and loyal because even if you break up he'll remember what a good person you were and regret it. TRUST ME on that!

signs of the Zodiac are not real..........................
Try out all your suggestions if you want.It would just tick me off.........and I would move on..........
OH..I am a scorpio...like i said, it is not real,,,,,,,,,,there is some other reason.......



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