What in this person's chart makes her a cheater?!
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This person comes from a very educated family and is very smart herself. She always has to be ahead of everyone and is very snobby in her views. One thing that shocks me is that we have so many planets in common, sun, moon, ascendant, midheaven, mercury, satturn, plutto, uranus and arc node (we were born in different countries and different years).
One thing that kills me is that I'm so faithful and committed in my relationship and I cannot even think about cheating, and she is going into a new relationship knowing that she will cheat. She dates married men and sees nothing wrong with it, and even if she is in love with a guy, like her 4 year relationship, she occasionally sleeps around just for fun. Can anything in her chart explain it? because besides this we have a lot in common
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This person comes from a very educated family and is very smart herself. She always has to be ahead of everyone and is very snobby in her views. One thing that shocks me is that we have so many planets in common, sun, moon, ascendant, midheaven, mercury, satturn, plutto, uranus and arc node (we were born in different countries and different years).
One thing that kills me is that I'm so faithful and committed in my relationship and I cannot even think about cheating, and she is going into a new relationship knowing that she will cheat. She dates married men and sees nothing wrong with it, and even if she is in love with a guy, like her 4 year relationship, she occasionally sleeps around just for fun. Can anything in her chart explain it? because besides this we have a lot in common
One indication is that her Venus is in Libra. Venus is love and how we show it and the sign of Libra is considered a dual sign. Venus in Libra can be an indication of homosexual activity, promiscuity, and/or cheating behaviors. To make any of those determinations, the rest of the chart must be reviewed and the aspects weighed to see if that interpretation is supported. In this chart it is supported. Venus rules her 7th house of partnerships showing openly presented relationships (7th house) as well as secretive relationships (Venus in the12th house--the house of loneliness and sorrow).
I don't know what website did your chart for you, but I don't know how they managed to miss the square between the Sun in Scorpio and the Moon in Leo. The Sun in Scorpio creates a T-Square aspect to the Moon in Leo (9th house) and the Jupiter in Aquarius (3rd house) opposition. This female presents herself to men in a flirtatious, "I am easy" manner and likewise, she is taken up on her offer. With Saturn in Scorpio in the 1st house shows she has had challenges in her life during her childhood that were generated from difficult relationships with her father...and that is all I will say about that. As a result of this placement, she loves to excite the older man, the man in a marital rut because she confuses sex to be "love"; and that is what she craves...to feel loved. Unfortunately because of her upbringing this is the only way she can feel loved--by actually exploiting herself in a sexual manner to men cheating on their wives. In a sick sense, she believes this to be "safe sex". She will have a difficult life searching for love in all the wrong places. Her Scorpio Sun adds the sexual intensity to the mix so I wouldn't be surprised if she took on more than one lover at the same time. The Moon in Leo is flirtatious by itself; however, it is sextile Mars in Libra in the 12th house. Mars itself represents sex, sexuality, sexual behavior and in the sign of Libra (social) adds casual sex to the 12th house of sorrows. All of these sexual affairs will cause her shame, embarrassment, and eventually loneliness, sorrow and a strong sense of worthlessness later in her life when age begins to defy her beauty.......
It's the Venus in Libra. Libra is the most romantic sign (I've also known a lot of Libras to be cheaters) and Venus is the house of Love and relationships. Put it this way, this aspect makes it so she falls in love really easily.
welll..
i think that the smart family thing has something to do with it.
since she knows shes smart she can think of ways to work around her ''real'' boyfriend from finding out
dont know why people wont to put themselves in places like that
Venus in Libra does not a cheater make. I'm a Venus in Libra and to me that just makes me romantic and in love with all things beautiful. Will I ever cheat on my husband of 15 years? No way.
This person needs some self esteem. This person could be a sex addict. By nature that you were born in different countries and different years you are both DIFFERENT. There is no reason why you should be like here. Just be yourself and be happy that you are.
It is IMPOSSIBLE for you two to be so alike, the degree of planet change may be minute, but it is still a change and its affects on you will be different than on her.