How do virgos adapt to change?!
Question: How do virgos adapt to change!?
Last night, before I flew home I called my virgo guy and told him that my job is taking me out of state for the rest of the year, and I told him that I wanted him to go with me, and he said he would!. He was very supportive of me and supportive of the sudden change in our lifestyle!. However, when I got home today he was saying how I should have never taken the offer to go out of state with my work (it's a better oppurtinity there) and he started saying how f*cked up out lifestlye is going to get, all thanks to me!.!.!.because now he can't be near family, or friends!.!.!.and he is very adjusted to home life!. and that it was all my fault!. Since I'm a cancer, I was and I still am sulking over the things he said!. How do I get him to change his mind about things and be supportive again!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
It seems to me that he said he'd go with you without really thinking about what it would mean to him personally!. His gut reaction was to be with you no matter what (which is great and a great sign) but then he thought about how much things would change for him and went into shock!. This is completely understandable!. From one Cancer to another, let me tell you this: don't try to change his mind or get him to be supportive again!. TALK to the guy and let him voice his concerns!. Let him know that the choice is his!.!.!.an unhappy Virgo male is not someone you want coming along for the ride!. Let him be honest even if it means he doesn't come with you!. It's not all about you!. Good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
They're an earth sign, they don't like moving around at all!. They become grounded where they are, and they want to stay there!. They can move, but it's a hard adjustment for them, and will take a long time to get used to the new area!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It might take a while!. Virgos tend to think they want what they want, and have a hard time letting go or adapting, but it will come eventually!. It'd be easier for them if they didn't fight it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com