I need help ? Sex!!!!?!
Question: I need help !? Sex!!!!!?
Ok now I got your attention , lol ( sorry I was rude , but I cant think of a nice and tidy tittle since it would have been too long ) so please forgive me!.
Is there an aspect in a natal chart that indicates turmoil in every type of relationship !?
I always seem to have this problem : everytime everything seems to settled for me , something must happen to stir it right up!. I have had 2 close friends leaving , 1 for another country, another going to another state to join the army and probably wont come back!.!.!.And this isnt new for me before!. Even in love relationship , It has been either I do the chase, or people do the chase , and when I finally got to be with someone, sh*t happened !. I am not sure whether it is MOON square URANUS , or PLUTO in 1ST , or the Peregrine gemeni Venus or the fact that i have no planets in the 7TH house or , thats causing this !?
Could someone give me an in-sight !? because I am so sick of this problem happening over and over again!. Thanks so much!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Is there an aspect in a natal chart that indicates turmoil in every type of relationship !?
I always seem to have this problem : everytime everything seems to settled for me , something must happen to stir it right up!. I have had 2 close friends leaving , 1 for another country, another going to another state to join the army and probably wont come back!.!.!.And this isnt new for me before!. Even in love relationship , It has been either I do the chase, or people do the chase , and when I finally got to be with someone, sh*t happened !. I am not sure whether it is MOON square URANUS , or PLUTO in 1ST , or the Peregrine gemeni Venus or the fact that i have no planets in the 7TH house or , thats causing this !?
Could someone give me an in-sight !? because I am so sick of this problem happening over and over again!. Thanks so much!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
HI Ryan!.
If I'm correct, you've got Aries on the desc!., yes!? This has got to make this very frustrating for you, because you're driven to form relationships!. With Cancer sun, that desire to form strong close relationships would be even more urgent!. Anyhow, this is what I'd look for:
1!. ruler of the 7th, it's placement in house and sign, and aspects to it!.
2!. Sign on the 11th house cusp, planets in 11th and aspects to those, ruler of the 11th (sun!?!?) and aspects to that!.
3!. Does Uranus make any aspects to the above listed!? Or Pluto or your retro Saturn!?
I would not say that Pluto in the 1st would do it in and of itself!. Rules transformation and the breakdown of the old/emergence of the new, yes, but first house pluto alone will only transform *you* and how you present yourself!. Would need an aspect to something related to 11th or 7th, or moon or venus, I think!.
I do think that the moon/uranus square is at least part of the root of this!. Uranus shakes things up, a Cancer sun is going to be rattled most effectively by shaking up their emotional stability!. With you, this happens to be through your relationships!. Where's your moon!? In 5th or 6th!?!?!?!?!? Not sure, sorry:( (As has been displayed earlier this week, I'm bad with moon signs:))
If it is the moon/Uranus square, then really all that there is to be done about this is to accept that people come and go, and to not let it affect your emotional stability too much!.
I have a hunch that this is what all of this is about for you, I think that it's a possibility that you rely maybe a bit too much on your relationships with others to give you emotional security, and the Uranus/moon square could be trying to tell you that you need to work on emotional security from the inside first, because there's no guarantee that the *other* in your life is going to be around forever!.
Could be wrong, I don't know!. So what's in your 5th and 11th, and is it in fact Aries on desc!?
EDIT: Yes, it is your Uranus!. Not only square to moon, but also inconj!. (quincunx!.!.!.!.whatever never could spell that so inconjunct it is!:)) your venus in Gemini!. Inconjunct planets don't understand each other!.!.!.in fact, I don't know that I'd even classify an inconj!. as a *minor* aspect but more like a *subtle* one, and also difficult to understand!. Because the planets invloved in the inconj!. don't understand each other!. Now, having the inconj!. in opposing signs is a little different to interpret, but I'd say that your Venus in Gemini is probably highly social and needs people around all the time, while Uranus in Sag is more independent and values freedom and really doesn't offer a lot in terms of long lasting relationships!.!.!.which your venus does not understand, and which your moon really just doesn't in particular like all that much!.
:(
Here's a hug, Ryan, I think you need it:
((((((hug)))))))Www@Enter-QA@Com
If I'm correct, you've got Aries on the desc!., yes!? This has got to make this very frustrating for you, because you're driven to form relationships!. With Cancer sun, that desire to form strong close relationships would be even more urgent!. Anyhow, this is what I'd look for:
1!. ruler of the 7th, it's placement in house and sign, and aspects to it!.
2!. Sign on the 11th house cusp, planets in 11th and aspects to those, ruler of the 11th (sun!?!?) and aspects to that!.
3!. Does Uranus make any aspects to the above listed!? Or Pluto or your retro Saturn!?
I would not say that Pluto in the 1st would do it in and of itself!. Rules transformation and the breakdown of the old/emergence of the new, yes, but first house pluto alone will only transform *you* and how you present yourself!. Would need an aspect to something related to 11th or 7th, or moon or venus, I think!.
I do think that the moon/uranus square is at least part of the root of this!. Uranus shakes things up, a Cancer sun is going to be rattled most effectively by shaking up their emotional stability!. With you, this happens to be through your relationships!. Where's your moon!? In 5th or 6th!?!?!?!?!? Not sure, sorry:( (As has been displayed earlier this week, I'm bad with moon signs:))
If it is the moon/Uranus square, then really all that there is to be done about this is to accept that people come and go, and to not let it affect your emotional stability too much!.
I have a hunch that this is what all of this is about for you, I think that it's a possibility that you rely maybe a bit too much on your relationships with others to give you emotional security, and the Uranus/moon square could be trying to tell you that you need to work on emotional security from the inside first, because there's no guarantee that the *other* in your life is going to be around forever!.
Could be wrong, I don't know!. So what's in your 5th and 11th, and is it in fact Aries on desc!?
EDIT: Yes, it is your Uranus!. Not only square to moon, but also inconj!. (quincunx!.!.!.!.whatever never could spell that so inconjunct it is!:)) your venus in Gemini!. Inconjunct planets don't understand each other!.!.!.in fact, I don't know that I'd even classify an inconj!. as a *minor* aspect but more like a *subtle* one, and also difficult to understand!. Because the planets invloved in the inconj!. don't understand each other!. Now, having the inconj!. in opposing signs is a little different to interpret, but I'd say that your Venus in Gemini is probably highly social and needs people around all the time, while Uranus in Sag is more independent and values freedom and really doesn't offer a lot in terms of long lasting relationships!.!.!.which your venus does not understand, and which your moon really just doesn't in particular like all that much!.
:(
Here's a hug, Ryan, I think you need it:
((((((hug)))))))Www@Enter-QA@Com
I really have to see your whole chart honestly, but I respect someone's privacy!. Since your venus is in the 8th, you will encounter relationships in a dramatical way where it can effect your life!. This placement makes you crave true passion, so I can see you getting upset when you loose a meaningful relationship towards a friend or a lover!.
Since your pluto is in the 1st, you will constantly go through dramatical changes throughout your whole life!. Seriously, I have my pluto in the 1st directly and I know from experience!. You might not believe it, but the experiences are suppose to make you learn & transform for the better!.
With your moon square from your uranus, it creates an interesting effect!. One minute you feel uncomfortable with the thought of dependency, but when you're finally alone- you feel left out, craving for affection all over again!. This causes contradictions with your needs!. This square aspect makes you attract changes in your personal life!.
I will add more!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Since your pluto is in the 1st, you will constantly go through dramatical changes throughout your whole life!. Seriously, I have my pluto in the 1st directly and I know from experience!. You might not believe it, but the experiences are suppose to make you learn & transform for the better!.
With your moon square from your uranus, it creates an interesting effect!. One minute you feel uncomfortable with the thought of dependency, but when you're finally alone- you feel left out, craving for affection all over again!. This causes contradictions with your needs!. This square aspect makes you attract changes in your personal life!.
I will add more!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi Ryan,
I'm glad that we settled for the BBQ, lamb and wine, but I am still not sure if you are okay with me answering your questions!. I can't help that I have a Sag sun, you know, and just blurt things out - mostly in fun, but sometimes people take it wrong!. If you can accept that, I will answer your question using all possible care, but if you don't want me to answer, that is fine, I'll just move on to the next and no bad feelings, okay!?
Hi Ryan,
XO to you too!. I feel better about things now!. You really are a sweetheart!.
So, you've lost two friends recently, have you!? That hurts, I know!. I'm sorry to hear of this loss in your life!.
I remember working at a busy medical center in my 20's and going through the same thing!. I got to know people, like them, share some intense moments working with them in high-stress areas, develop close relationships and poooof - gone, for one reason or another!. I came to realize that it was the nature of teaching hospitals, in general!. When I settled down, got married, had children and expected things to always stay the same, I experienced the same thing - people and situations just came and went - sometimes suddenly, sometimes gradually!.
We get close to people, know them, develop relationships and poooof, something happens and they are gone!. So, my point is - yea, get used to it!. Life is like that, and it is not necessarily specific to your natal chart!. We want people to always be there for us, to have the same happy memories to share, etc, but unless you live in the country somewhere and never venture out into the real world, that is a fantasy!. As much as it sounds like a happy fantasy, I would much prefer to learn and grow from all kinds of people and experiences, even if I know it will be temporary!.
Now regarding your natal chart, all the things you mentioned - yes!. The moon square Uranus makes for quick, unusual and sometimes disturbing changes in your emotional status!. This is probably particularly difficult with the moon in that gentle Pisces and sun in Cancer which has a tendency to want to hold onto things!.
The peregrine Venus in Gemini in the 8th house could definitely leave you feeling confused & lonely at times!. Okay, now I am going to go into Sag mode - tune out if you don't want to hear!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the bisexual thing may be a turn-on for the guys, but it is not for the gals!. Believe me, women enjoy gay men for friendship!. It is not a big turn-on for women to hear her date likes guys too!. There is no way to process this information in the normal schema of women/men relationships!. I don't know what the culture is like in Aussie land nor your particular situation, so I may be all wrong on this matter; but in the U!.S!., bi doesn't go over real well with the women!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.okay, Sag is gone!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.so, no planets in the 7th house!. What's ruling the 7th!? Do you have any asteroids there!? I have nothing in my 7th house either (except Chiron), but I have been married for 20 years; so don't think that an empty house is destined to mean no steady partner!. I also have a friend with an empty 5th house - she has 4 children, all her own!.
btw, what is your Mercury all about!?
You are very young, Ryan!. I know you feel like an old man, but you will go through many changes, and things will settle down in due course!. Have patience and try to learn as much as you can from the relationships you do have!.
Edit: Oh Ryan, my heart goes out to you!. Can I be your surrogate internet mom!?
Edit: Ooooh, I just saw that mercury in Leo in the 11th opposing uranus in the 5th!. Do you sometimes confuse love and friendship, or do they sometimes suddenly change roles!?
With that Cancer MC and sun in Cancer, the world will take care of you, Ryan - I am sure of that!. I won't worry about you!.
Edit to Isabelle: Hey girl!. "blunt but never nasty!." I like that - lol!.
Ryan and I have made up!. It's cool!.
OMG - I just got it: be AMANed, duh Ah man a m I slow! ROFL :))
-so sorry to hear about the violations - a small sacrifice for such a fun time, though!. The Amanda effect - YAY!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm glad that we settled for the BBQ, lamb and wine, but I am still not sure if you are okay with me answering your questions!. I can't help that I have a Sag sun, you know, and just blurt things out - mostly in fun, but sometimes people take it wrong!. If you can accept that, I will answer your question using all possible care, but if you don't want me to answer, that is fine, I'll just move on to the next and no bad feelings, okay!?
Hi Ryan,
XO to you too!. I feel better about things now!. You really are a sweetheart!.
So, you've lost two friends recently, have you!? That hurts, I know!. I'm sorry to hear of this loss in your life!.
I remember working at a busy medical center in my 20's and going through the same thing!. I got to know people, like them, share some intense moments working with them in high-stress areas, develop close relationships and poooof - gone, for one reason or another!. I came to realize that it was the nature of teaching hospitals, in general!. When I settled down, got married, had children and expected things to always stay the same, I experienced the same thing - people and situations just came and went - sometimes suddenly, sometimes gradually!.
We get close to people, know them, develop relationships and poooof, something happens and they are gone!. So, my point is - yea, get used to it!. Life is like that, and it is not necessarily specific to your natal chart!. We want people to always be there for us, to have the same happy memories to share, etc, but unless you live in the country somewhere and never venture out into the real world, that is a fantasy!. As much as it sounds like a happy fantasy, I would much prefer to learn and grow from all kinds of people and experiences, even if I know it will be temporary!.
Now regarding your natal chart, all the things you mentioned - yes!. The moon square Uranus makes for quick, unusual and sometimes disturbing changes in your emotional status!. This is probably particularly difficult with the moon in that gentle Pisces and sun in Cancer which has a tendency to want to hold onto things!.
The peregrine Venus in Gemini in the 8th house could definitely leave you feeling confused & lonely at times!. Okay, now I am going to go into Sag mode - tune out if you don't want to hear!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.the bisexual thing may be a turn-on for the guys, but it is not for the gals!. Believe me, women enjoy gay men for friendship!. It is not a big turn-on for women to hear her date likes guys too!. There is no way to process this information in the normal schema of women/men relationships!. I don't know what the culture is like in Aussie land nor your particular situation, so I may be all wrong on this matter; but in the U!.S!., bi doesn't go over real well with the women!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.okay, Sag is gone!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.so, no planets in the 7th house!. What's ruling the 7th!? Do you have any asteroids there!? I have nothing in my 7th house either (except Chiron), but I have been married for 20 years; so don't think that an empty house is destined to mean no steady partner!. I also have a friend with an empty 5th house - she has 4 children, all her own!.
btw, what is your Mercury all about!?
You are very young, Ryan!. I know you feel like an old man, but you will go through many changes, and things will settle down in due course!. Have patience and try to learn as much as you can from the relationships you do have!.
Edit: Oh Ryan, my heart goes out to you!. Can I be your surrogate internet mom!?
Edit: Ooooh, I just saw that mercury in Leo in the 11th opposing uranus in the 5th!. Do you sometimes confuse love and friendship, or do they sometimes suddenly change roles!?
With that Cancer MC and sun in Cancer, the world will take care of you, Ryan - I am sure of that!. I won't worry about you!.
Edit to Isabelle: Hey girl!. "blunt but never nasty!." I like that - lol!.
Ryan and I have made up!. It's cool!.
OMG - I just got it: be AMANed, duh Ah man a m I slow! ROFL :))
-so sorry to hear about the violations - a small sacrifice for such a fun time, though!. The Amanda effect - YAY!Www@Enter-QA@Com
i will answer this later, cheers bro!
yeah she's a nice person and I like her, she offended me before but then i realized that's just the innocent sagi in her ;)!. not that i can talk cuz i can be pretty blunt myself and did my own share of offending!. It's all good tho ^_^!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
yeah she's a nice person and I like her, she offended me before but then i realized that's just the innocent sagi in her ;)!. not that i can talk cuz i can be pretty blunt myself and did my own share of offending!. It's all good tho ^_^!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yes, but you would need to consult a good astrologer with your date and hour of birth!. Is difficult to answer your question with the data you provide here!. Pluto in the first might put you thru some changes with yourself and with others!. Moon and Uranus will settle you for the unpredictable!.!.!.!.!.but all boils up at a lesson you have to learn and the sooner you get it the sooner you can steer your life towards what you feel more close to your calling!. Calm down, seek wise help, learn and the pieces will fall in place!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sometimes when you really need it, you just have to help yourself! :)
Especially when you're the type that does not have one night standsWww@Enter-QA@Com
Especially when you're the type that does not have one night standsWww@Enter-QA@Com
wow so much words!.!.!.
ok now im getting dizzy!.!.
edit: >Wow ryan ur so kool!.!.i want to be
just like you when i grow up lolzzzzz ;DWww@Enter-QA@Com
ok now im getting dizzy!.!.
edit: >Wow ryan ur so kool!.!.i want to be
just like you when i grow up lolzzzzz ;DWww@Enter-QA@Com
Ouch ! There another hug for ya ! can you up the pic !?!?
Oh!.!.!.dunno what happened between you and Janet!. I like you both a lot and Janet can be blunt!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but NEVER nasty!.
There another hug ( Ryan sweating profusely now !!!)
:-)
Oh that is allllll !?!? I thought it was funny actually myself but!.!.!.!.!.heck you are Cancer/pisces and you are maybe more sensitive than others!.
Oh!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.please keep your sense of humour !!! I would be sad to see it disappear!. So those 2 Q have been deleted !? did not even notice ! They were so funny !!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh!.!.!.dunno what happened between you and Janet!. I like you both a lot and Janet can be blunt!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.but NEVER nasty!.
There another hug ( Ryan sweating profusely now !!!)
:-)
Oh that is allllll !?!? I thought it was funny actually myself but!.!.!.!.!.heck you are Cancer/pisces and you are maybe more sensitive than others!.
Oh!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.please keep your sense of humour !!! I would be sad to see it disappear!. So those 2 Q have been deleted !? did not even notice ! They were so funny !!!Www@Enter-QA@Com