Whats your sign and how do you cope with a death of a friend or family member?!
Question: Whats your sign and how do you cope with a death of a friend or family member!?
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My goodness!.!.!. your question is a full load memory trigger!.
I'm a scorpian and have witness 8 family members die, and 3 friends passed away in my 18 years of living!. I was an emotional breakdown with the first few deaths!.!.!. still muchly depressed with the later deaths (but to be honest, it wasn't as painful as the first few I've dealt with)!. I wept and bawl for nights!.!.!. I blame the world for being so cruel and wondered that if I was the person dying, would I be happier!? When my mother passed away, I kept myself in my room for days, refusing to see anyone!. I kept myself away from all the items and places that reminds me of these people - but it was nearly impossible given that everything I see were connected with these people in some ways, including my room!. I run for miles and miles, just to release my anger at the universe!. But as time passed by, with the help of other close ones, I realized that I need to move on!. I never forgot them, the pain never disappear, but i move on with my life and try to live life the best as I could!. I'll always think about them from time to time!.!.!. always remember the memories I've shared with them, and certainly will never forget them!.!.!. but at the same time, I try to be happier - try to love new things and think about the positive aspect of life!. There will always be a scar from the pain, but time still help!. There certain nights when I'm alone in my room, I cry softy on my pillow to sleep for these deaths!. But as morning comes by, I take it as a new day, and so I treat the new beginning with the most possible happiness I can!. I guess, I should say that time is the best medicine in every emotional injuries!. ^^Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a scorpian and have witness 8 family members die, and 3 friends passed away in my 18 years of living!. I was an emotional breakdown with the first few deaths!.!.!. still muchly depressed with the later deaths (but to be honest, it wasn't as painful as the first few I've dealt with)!. I wept and bawl for nights!.!.!. I blame the world for being so cruel and wondered that if I was the person dying, would I be happier!? When my mother passed away, I kept myself in my room for days, refusing to see anyone!. I kept myself away from all the items and places that reminds me of these people - but it was nearly impossible given that everything I see were connected with these people in some ways, including my room!. I run for miles and miles, just to release my anger at the universe!. But as time passed by, with the help of other close ones, I realized that I need to move on!. I never forgot them, the pain never disappear, but i move on with my life and try to live life the best as I could!. I'll always think about them from time to time!.!.!. always remember the memories I've shared with them, and certainly will never forget them!.!.!. but at the same time, I try to be happier - try to love new things and think about the positive aspect of life!. There will always be a scar from the pain, but time still help!. There certain nights when I'm alone in my room, I cry softy on my pillow to sleep for these deaths!. But as morning comes by, I take it as a new day, and so I treat the new beginning with the most possible happiness I can!. I guess, I should say that time is the best medicine in every emotional injuries!. ^^Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm Aquarius!. It depends on the family member and/or friend and how well we knew each other!. It's unusually hard when the deceased person is a child or if they were murdered or experienced a horrible death!. I usually try to make the rest of the family realize that life is a part of death and how important it is for the rest of us/those left here to come closer together and appreciate ourselves and each other's lives!. When that one person is taken out of the link, we should close in and become a stronger, closer knit group!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, normally these things don't bother me all that much!. I believe that death is nearly the end of existence in this plane, and that it only brings further journeys for a soul!. I rarely ever cry or feel too emotionally attached when a family member dies!.!.Although, I have not lost a parent yet, so I don't know how that would feel!. But in my logic, it is generally a more painful experience for the living than the dead, and I understand that it has to happen at some point!. There's no point in stressing over it!.!.!.Your loved ones would not want you to stop living on their account!. You should take it as a lesson to enjoy the times you do have left in this lifetime, and keep in mind that even if they are not with you physically, they are in spirit!.
I'm a libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a Cancer!. When it comes to the death of a friend of family member, I have a really hard time with it!. I never let anyone see me upset!.!.!.I never cry in the presence of others!. But when I am alone and I think about that person, all the feelings that have been running though me just explode out of me 10x worse than if I would just show some emotion in front of others!. I guess I am just too proud to show emotion!. If you are looking for ways to cope I don't suggest my method!. It can't be good for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
imma gemini and i have never had to deal with a death of a close family member i mean my great great great grandmother died and i never really knew her so i wasnt like crying my eyes out so i dnt know how i would deal/cope with it!. But i am a very emotional person so i prob!. would cry for a while and then try to move but if something reminds me of that person i might start cryin!.!.!.i dnt want to sound pathetic but it would prob take me a long time to get over the person if i was realy close to themWww@Enter-QA@Com
oh god i dont cope at all!.
my sun in virgo, moon and rising in cancer!. and too other planets in virgo makes me swing from
very emotional and very uneasy at showing emotion!.
when it comes to family, it completly shuts me down!. losing a family member is like lsing apart of me!. i generally will be emotional, and i shy away from people smothering sympathy!. after the death i go into a shell!. Idon;t know if this is the norm!. but this what i do!.
Any family member thatpaases on i gather all the photos i can find so i can keep in memory!. this is how i cope!.
god i sound notagalisticWww@Enter-QA@Com
my sun in virgo, moon and rising in cancer!. and too other planets in virgo makes me swing from
very emotional and very uneasy at showing emotion!.
when it comes to family, it completly shuts me down!. losing a family member is like lsing apart of me!. i generally will be emotional, and i shy away from people smothering sympathy!. after the death i go into a shell!. Idon;t know if this is the norm!. but this what i do!.
Any family member thatpaases on i gather all the photos i can find so i can keep in memory!. this is how i cope!.
god i sound notagalisticWww@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpio, and strangely enough I've never had to deal with such an event!.
The only close relative that I know of who died, was my grandfather!. I was only 2 when he died, so I don't even remember him, which is sad because I want to remember him; I simply didn't spend enough time with him!.
Since then, no one in my direct family has died!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The only close relative that I know of who died, was my grandfather!. I was only 2 when he died, so I don't even remember him, which is sad because I want to remember him; I simply didn't spend enough time with him!.
Since then, no one in my direct family has died!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Taurus, I cope with death well I understand the soul lives on and that we always have memories and that is what we should cherish and not to dwell on the death it self!.
Love & Blessings
MillyWww@Enter-QA@Com
Love & Blessings
MillyWww@Enter-QA@Com
I know everyone says forget about them and everything, but it's really nice to remember!. But don't go overload and start thinking about them every blinking second of the day!.
Live your life but still acknowledge them throughout your dayWww@Enter-QA@Com
Live your life but still acknowledge them throughout your dayWww@Enter-QA@Com
I say "Oh that's too bad " if they were really close (which hasn't happened yet) I would cry!.
AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com
libra!.i went to my church's grief counselor!.it was free and it was very helpful!.Www@Enter-QA@Com