Leo as a Leader or Friend?!


Question: Leo as a Leader or Friend!?
I have met many people with Leo placements who were managers or leaders in some way, and many considered being LIKED by their subordinates as important than being RESPECTED!.

Have you experience those with Leo placements as having conflicting leadership values in this arena!? Did this situation cause you to have less respect for that person!?Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Hi Dee, how are you today!?

As you probably know I have a Leo moon and it gives me a lot of leadership qualities!. I don't always like to jump in and take control, but a lot of times this comes naturally!. I have been faced with this conflict wanting to be liked but also realizing how important it is to get the job done!.

My most significant conflict happened when I was 20!. I was looking for administrative job and had an interview set up with a hospital!. They hired me for a temporary management position for housekeeping!. The job sounded like a dream, I had my own office, my own phone line, I got to walk around the whole day and tell people what to do, plus the pay was ridiculously high (I won't be making anything close to that, now that I have a degree)!. I was a full time student so money sounded very appealing to me!.

When I started they put me in charge of 50+ housekeepers, most of them double my age and my size!. Here I was 20 year old 5!.1, 100lb little girl trying to boss them around, there were conflicts!.!.!.!.At first I was so nice to everyone, I wanted to have a positive working environment!. When someone made small mistakes I would tell them about it and let it slide!. I felt bad since they were working hard and I had to lecture them on how to put in a toilet paper the right way!. Within a week people stated coming in late giving silly excuses, doing their job sloppy and I was starting to get attitude when directing someone to an assignment!. Unfortunately I had to fire some people to get things in order!. The breaking point was when one of the guys that I actually hired was caught sleeping in a patient's bed!. He got under the blankets and everything, man he was crying, begging me to keep his job!.!.!.!.!.!.I thought I was going to cry myself, seriously, it was soooo hard to keep a straight face during the whole thing!. Next day, I had to let go of 5 more people, 2 of them were caught stealing Viagra and the other 3 were giving me a very nasty attitude about firing the first guy!. Over night I've become the b*tch, they even gave me a nickname Hurricane Katrina (my real name is Katerina, lol)!. From then on it was like "Watch out, hurricane Katrina is coming!." I was so happy when that job finished, I didn't like being mean all the time but I realized that I had it in me!. I have excellent references and recommendations from the hospital, everyone was very happy and impressed with me!. I was offered an extended contract but hours didn't work with my new school schedule!.
That was definitely a big challenge for me wanting to be liked, but realizing that being respected is more important, especially in a place full of sick people where clean environment is crucial!. My job was to make sure of it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I have had bad experiences with 2 Leos before, both used to be my friends !. The 1st one was a " look at me " and was my secondary school friend, he moved to the US and decided to not keep contact with me 5 months after that!. And the second Leo was a total meltdown and he totally brought me one of the biggest meltdown in my life too!. God I thought me being the cancer was dramatic enough, he was 10 times more dramatic and was a true attention seeker, to the point that his other friends were staying away from him for a while !. So i am sounding like they are no friend material!. Both had the sun in Leo and moon and other planets in other signs!.
But again , those 2 are the only Leos I have known and have had bad experiences with as there are many good , positive out there I believe!.

Now as I have mercury in Leo, I do speak like a Leo sometimes!. Especially when I do tutoring the lower class students!.When I do speak, I speak with a sense of authority, sometimes it sounds like I am giving orders!. Or when I am giving oral presentations , I will always make sure my voice sounds good , showy , powerful and convincing!.Uh maybe you know it already, but theres also drama in my speaking as well!. And when my speech is mixed with emotions , especially anger ( well its more like annoyed as I rarely get angry ), I tend to sound bossy " my way or the high way " !.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Absolutely, we Leos need admiration the way fire needs air, without it we die out, or shrink away!. I have seen many others behave the same way!. Although I cannot speak for those who deal with me but no, I don't hold such things against a person- life's too short! We can all admit to conflicting priorities in various areas of our lives!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I know one Leo and it seemed like she was more of a follower, always doing her homework and w/e!. Like for e!.g!.(a really weird one), the crowd was clapping their hands with the beat and she followed it and stopped when they stopped!. whereas me, Aries, didn't follow it(I somewhat started it)!.

I know that was a weird example but I got annoyed when she did that -_-;;Www@Enter-QA@Com

No!. I have a very close friend that's a Leo!. He could give two ***** whether or not people like him, and he's a Manager!. He doesn't care if you like him; just do your job, and get your hustle on, and he's cool with you!. But he can't stand lazy people, or people with no common sense!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

My mother is a Leo, the most selfish person!. I'm a GeminiWww@Enter-QA@Com

We are like that babyWww@Enter-QA@Com



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