Cancers (zodiac) in love...?!
Question: Cancers (zodiac) in love!.!.!.!?
What do Cancer men like in a woman (I'm in my mid twenties and he's in his late twenties)!? I know what they do when they're intersted, and I know he is interested in me!. I'm just slightly confused as to if Cancers like girls that are more sticky (like them) and submissive, or more independant (which is probably what I'm like naturally)!? If you know any websites about this, that would be fantastic!. But I would also like to hear about your personal experiences!.!.!.thx!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I'm a Cancer female and I can honestly say that we are possessive with the ones we love the most!. Possessiveness doesn't have to mean jealously!.!.!. It just means we are a little protective because we want the best for you!. And yes, we hate when our significant others flirt with people right in front of our faces (but I really don't think anyone likes that)!. We do crave emotional security and we fear abandonment/rejection, so if you don't truly want a relationship then do us both a favor and walk away early on!
We are very romantic and giving when we are in love!. Personally, I love manly men, so I don't want someone who is submissive or clingy!. I am independent, so I like my partner to also be independent!. It's cool to have your own life and your own friends!.!.!. that leads to a normal and healthy relationship! BUT make some time for the relationship as well (like I said, we hate to be neglected!)!. My jealous side only comes out if I suspect cheating or deception!.!.!. other than that I give my partner his space, because I want my own in return!.
No matter what people have to say about Cancers, we are really great when it comes to relationships!. We enjoy being committed and we are very loyal and probably the least likely to cheat!. Not all of us are clingy like many astrology sites try to say!.!.!. But we do need some sort of affection/ attention!. But, if you're not ready for a relationship, then it's not going to work out with a Cancer!. I think this is where the negative stereotypes of Cancers come from-- yes, if someone hates to be committed or in a relationship then they will hate Cancers!. Because that's exactly what we are looking for!. Is that so bad!?!? To be pampered by someone who loves you unconditionally!?!? I certainly don't think so!.!.!.
But that's just me! :) Good luck!!
Edit: Oh and Lolly was SOOOO dead on about the silent treatment!!! LOL we are masters of the silent treatment! But, I'm not the grudge holding type, so I get over whatever was bothering me quite quickly!. I also don't like to fight and argue, so I give the silent treatment when I am annoyed, frustrated or angry!. If you do get the silent treatment DON'T egg it on but continuing to fight or asking "what's wrong with you!?" Just give your Cancer time to cool off and everything will be back to normal in no time! Isn't that better than arguing for hours (like some signs choose to do) or your lover holding a grudge and getting back at you later (like I KNOW some signs do)!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
We are very romantic and giving when we are in love!. Personally, I love manly men, so I don't want someone who is submissive or clingy!. I am independent, so I like my partner to also be independent!. It's cool to have your own life and your own friends!.!.!. that leads to a normal and healthy relationship! BUT make some time for the relationship as well (like I said, we hate to be neglected!)!. My jealous side only comes out if I suspect cheating or deception!.!.!. other than that I give my partner his space, because I want my own in return!.
No matter what people have to say about Cancers, we are really great when it comes to relationships!. We enjoy being committed and we are very loyal and probably the least likely to cheat!. Not all of us are clingy like many astrology sites try to say!.!.!. But we do need some sort of affection/ attention!. But, if you're not ready for a relationship, then it's not going to work out with a Cancer!. I think this is where the negative stereotypes of Cancers come from-- yes, if someone hates to be committed or in a relationship then they will hate Cancers!. Because that's exactly what we are looking for!. Is that so bad!?!? To be pampered by someone who loves you unconditionally!?!? I certainly don't think so!.!.!.
But that's just me! :) Good luck!!
Edit: Oh and Lolly was SOOOO dead on about the silent treatment!!! LOL we are masters of the silent treatment! But, I'm not the grudge holding type, so I get over whatever was bothering me quite quickly!. I also don't like to fight and argue, so I give the silent treatment when I am annoyed, frustrated or angry!. If you do get the silent treatment DON'T egg it on but continuing to fight or asking "what's wrong with you!?" Just give your Cancer time to cool off and everything will be back to normal in no time! Isn't that better than arguing for hours (like some signs choose to do) or your lover holding a grudge and getting back at you later (like I KNOW some signs do)!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cancers (men and women alike) crave emotional security!. Don't play head games or toy with his emotions at all!. Say what you mean, mean what you say, but you should have your own interests and be your own person!. Cancer's are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves, and they want to be with someone that can do the same!. Emotionally, we like to be close and affectionate, but I resent the words sticky and submissive because personally I am neither one of those things!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My boyfriend is a cancerian!. They are a bit possesive so pay lots of attention to him and try not to openly flirt with other guys!.
they are a bit moody too so you have to be quite flexible!. Just be yourself though, if he doesnt love you for who you are then its just not meant to be!. But yeah there are loads of websites that can help with the general idea of what cancerians are like but each one is different!. You will learn what he likes and what he doesn't!. If you get the silent treatment, you are in trouble!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they are a bit moody too so you have to be quite flexible!. Just be yourself though, if he doesnt love you for who you are then its just not meant to be!. But yeah there are loads of websites that can help with the general idea of what cancerians are like but each one is different!. You will learn what he likes and what he doesn't!. If you get the silent treatment, you are in trouble!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Try this great site to determine compatibility!?
Free Chinese Love Horoscopes:
http://www!.hearts-and-kisses!.com/chinese!.!.!.
More importantly, why would you betray your true self by changing to be with someone rather than find someone who appreciates who you are naturally!? If you change, by definition, it won't work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Free Chinese Love Horoscopes:
http://www!.hearts-and-kisses!.com/chinese!.!.!.
More importantly, why would you betray your true self by changing to be with someone rather than find someone who appreciates who you are naturally!? If you change, by definition, it won't work!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a Cancer male, so I know what I like!. Miyuki is a great gal for me!. She is amiable, so she never argues with anyone!. She believes the man is the boss!. She has a great tiny figure and is cute and adorable!. Don't be too independent! Miyuki is from Japan and is quite traditional!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Cancer definitely care about their love ones!. If you want to know what likely type of girl he likes, I suggest you can look at his mother!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Disclaimer: What you are about to read is from an Aquarius pov!. Having said that, keep in mind that as an Aquarius, I'm more logical, intuitive, and objective!.
The best traits about a Cancer male is that he's nuturing, a home body, and tender hearted!.
These happen to be his worst traits as well!.
My second husband was a cancer and true to that title, I thought I was going to have to have him surgically removed and then erradicated from his recliner!.
Most cancer men are absolutely charming and loving--until they get you!. Then it's all about what you can do for him!. I have a Top 10 list of what a Cancer male expects from 'his' woman!.
10!. Must always cook the foods he likes!. You may choose from a list of a about 5 different items!. Which brings me to the next item!.!.!.
9!. Don't put anything new in front of him!.
8!. Believe his lies and never question him!.
7!. Don't expect him to take you anywhere!. If you do, then be prepared to be paid back 10 fold for taking him out of his natural enviroment (TV, Remote, Recliner, Coffee cup within reach and filled with coffee etc!.!.!.) Cancer men hold a grudge even for imagined slights!.
6!. Know that the only role playing you will do with this guy is the one in his vivid imagination!. It has nothing to do with sex either!. When he feels threatened or guilty, he'll make up lies on you (afterall, why should YOU be a better person than him!?) and repeat them so often to himself and to others, that soon he believes them and is absolutely floored when you won't own up to your elaborate schemes to steal his money, screw his best friend, and then kill him in his sleep!.
5!. Don't expect sex on a regular basis!.
4!. Don't initiate sex ever!. Unless, of course, you WANT him to suggest you visit the nearest shrink to cure you of your nymphomania!.
3!. Know that he'll nuture you the way Joan Crawford did her children!. He'll smother you until you wish he'd remove the pillow from your face and the knife from your back!.
2!. Understand that despite his cold behavior in bed, he's not going to be faithful to you!. Know it and accept it!.
1!. Write Welcome across your back and lie still!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
The best traits about a Cancer male is that he's nuturing, a home body, and tender hearted!.
These happen to be his worst traits as well!.
My second husband was a cancer and true to that title, I thought I was going to have to have him surgically removed and then erradicated from his recliner!.
Most cancer men are absolutely charming and loving--until they get you!. Then it's all about what you can do for him!. I have a Top 10 list of what a Cancer male expects from 'his' woman!.
10!. Must always cook the foods he likes!. You may choose from a list of a about 5 different items!. Which brings me to the next item!.!.!.
9!. Don't put anything new in front of him!.
8!. Believe his lies and never question him!.
7!. Don't expect him to take you anywhere!. If you do, then be prepared to be paid back 10 fold for taking him out of his natural enviroment (TV, Remote, Recliner, Coffee cup within reach and filled with coffee etc!.!.!.) Cancer men hold a grudge even for imagined slights!.
6!. Know that the only role playing you will do with this guy is the one in his vivid imagination!. It has nothing to do with sex either!. When he feels threatened or guilty, he'll make up lies on you (afterall, why should YOU be a better person than him!?) and repeat them so often to himself and to others, that soon he believes them and is absolutely floored when you won't own up to your elaborate schemes to steal his money, screw his best friend, and then kill him in his sleep!.
5!. Don't expect sex on a regular basis!.
4!. Don't initiate sex ever!. Unless, of course, you WANT him to suggest you visit the nearest shrink to cure you of your nymphomania!.
3!. Know that he'll nuture you the way Joan Crawford did her children!. He'll smother you until you wish he'd remove the pillow from your face and the knife from your back!.
2!. Understand that despite his cold behavior in bed, he's not going to be faithful to you!. Know it and accept it!.
1!. Write Welcome across your back and lie still!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Wow, Cancer men are made out to be monsters in this post! Don't assume it's Cancerians giving thumbs down, either!
I, personally, have dated two Cancer men and find them to be big whiners!. Although I'm a Cancer and can understand a mood swing, I don't like my men to be all moody and stuff!. I found the Cancer men that I dated a bit too moody and sulky for my taste!. I'm a woman; let me be that way! :-D The Cancer guys I dated were very, very messy (as far as keeping the place - and themselves - clean)!. I can't get with that!. I like my place neat and orderly!. These men just seemed to be seeking a mother or something!. I didn't like that at all!
Anyway, I do understand what homegirl said about Cancer men lying!. They do lie to your face even when you show them hard evidence that the truth is something else!. I've never understood that!. I do have to say, however, that the bedroom stuff was always on point! Mindblowing, even!. Maybe it's because it is water with water!.
If you want this guy, be like a mother in almost every way!.
Give me as many TDs as you want!. I could not care less!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I, personally, have dated two Cancer men and find them to be big whiners!. Although I'm a Cancer and can understand a mood swing, I don't like my men to be all moody and stuff!. I found the Cancer men that I dated a bit too moody and sulky for my taste!. I'm a woman; let me be that way! :-D The Cancer guys I dated were very, very messy (as far as keeping the place - and themselves - clean)!. I can't get with that!. I like my place neat and orderly!. These men just seemed to be seeking a mother or something!. I didn't like that at all!
Anyway, I do understand what homegirl said about Cancer men lying!. They do lie to your face even when you show them hard evidence that the truth is something else!. I've never understood that!. I do have to say, however, that the bedroom stuff was always on point! Mindblowing, even!. Maybe it's because it is water with water!.
If you want this guy, be like a mother in almost every way!.
Give me as many TDs as you want!. I could not care less!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Havent any personal experiences with Cancerians but this is based on objective observation!.
Being a Moon-ruled native, you are naturally tied to family, tradition, nostalgia and the past!. Being a deep feeling sign, emotional awareness and sensitivity are qualities innate in you and you were born intuitive!. Your desire to build things comfortable, lasting and safe is admirable and makes you a stable and loyal partner!. When it comes to love, ironically you throw caution to the wind!. Once you're in a relationship however, your tendency is to stay committed to the point of being self-sacrificial!.
The Cancer woman is one of the most emotional, sensitive and feminine women around and soaks up the vibes of her surroundings like a psychic sponge!. Her many changeable moods wax and wane like the movements of the Moon and she is somebody that needs nurturing and a great amount of love in her life!. She is certainly not a player when it comes to love as she is basically serious and goes for the long haul!. She is marriage-minded and what she seeks most is reliability and stability in a mate as the themes of home, family and domestic are significant issues in her life!.
The Cancer man is undoubtedly the most sensitive man in the zodiac!. Being so aware of the fact that it is extremely difficult for a man to operate so emotionally in a 'man's world', he often tries to cover up his innermost feelings with a hard impenetrable shell!. Underneath it all, his moods are uncontrollable as they come and go like the unpredictable weather!. At his best, the Cancer man is sensitive, loving, kind-hearted in a relationship!. He is serious in love, traditional in outlook and looks for a woman who will be the mother of his children and raise them in an old-fashioned home environment!. Protecting and caring for those he loves in the domestic context is his primary goal in life!.
http://www!.all-about-astrology!.com/zodia!.!.!.
http://www!.all-about-astrology!.com/cance!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Being a Moon-ruled native, you are naturally tied to family, tradition, nostalgia and the past!. Being a deep feeling sign, emotional awareness and sensitivity are qualities innate in you and you were born intuitive!. Your desire to build things comfortable, lasting and safe is admirable and makes you a stable and loyal partner!. When it comes to love, ironically you throw caution to the wind!. Once you're in a relationship however, your tendency is to stay committed to the point of being self-sacrificial!.
The Cancer woman is one of the most emotional, sensitive and feminine women around and soaks up the vibes of her surroundings like a psychic sponge!. Her many changeable moods wax and wane like the movements of the Moon and she is somebody that needs nurturing and a great amount of love in her life!. She is certainly not a player when it comes to love as she is basically serious and goes for the long haul!. She is marriage-minded and what she seeks most is reliability and stability in a mate as the themes of home, family and domestic are significant issues in her life!.
The Cancer man is undoubtedly the most sensitive man in the zodiac!. Being so aware of the fact that it is extremely difficult for a man to operate so emotionally in a 'man's world', he often tries to cover up his innermost feelings with a hard impenetrable shell!. Underneath it all, his moods are uncontrollable as they come and go like the unpredictable weather!. At his best, the Cancer man is sensitive, loving, kind-hearted in a relationship!. He is serious in love, traditional in outlook and looks for a woman who will be the mother of his children and raise them in an old-fashioned home environment!. Protecting and caring for those he loves in the domestic context is his primary goal in life!.
http://www!.all-about-astrology!.com/zodia!.!.!.
http://www!.all-about-astrology!.com/cance!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com