Advice on Aquarians?!
Question: Advice on Aquarians!?
Hey all!. So I've finally pinned down my Aquarian man after a year and a half of game playing and forced distance on my part!. He's FINALLY opening up but so slowly!. He's terrible at putting his emotions into words and he's not traditionally romantic in the least but for once in my life it doesn't even matter, he's just an amazing person!. And the fact that he's opening up even in the least feels like such a gift, and I feel so lucky to be the one he's with!. Anyway, I'm a Leo (Aquarius moon) and I'm just curious to know if anyone has experienced any similar Aquarius scenarios and this fear of opening up!? He's trying really hard it's just not natural!. We're both 20 and I'm his first 'real' girlfriend!.!.!. (the only one patient enough to deal with his steel outer shell LOL)!.!.!. well!.!.!. considering our signs and your experiences with Aquarian men, what do you see as possible outcomes for this relationship!? (Based soley on astrology and personal experience) Thanks!Www@Enter-QA@Com
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From personal experience, I can say that it makes an Aquarian feel very awkward and uncomfortable to put their emotions out there for everyone to see!. Despite what everyone thinks about us, we are actually kind of sensitive deep down inside and the thought of being emotionally vulnerable like that is scary!. A lot of Aquarians don't even make the first move most of the time because being rejected would hurt our feelings to the core!. I know that when I'm in love I feel it SO strongly inside but I can never get my mouth to say the words out loud!.!.lol!. So then the person starts to think that I'm not feeling that strongly for them because I have a hard time expressing it outwardly!. If there was a magical device that would let you see into his heart I bet you'd be shocked at what you would find there!. I guess the best advice I could give is to not try to figure out his inward feelings by how he seems outwardly!. They are two completely different things when it comes to people that are Aquarius!. As far as the outcome of your relationship, Leos and Aquarians can either be extremely good together or a beautiful disaster!. We're polar opposites so there's a natural attraction!. However, those same differences that attract can also get on your nerves after a while!. Seeing that you have an Aquarian moon though, this should make for an interesting relationship if nothing else!. I think you have a good chance though seeing that you're trying to see where he's coming from!. Understanding each other is always a good start in any relationship!. Anyway, good luck with your guy :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
i used to date an aquarius and i found that the more detached i was the more attached he was!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't like the words you used such as "game playing" and "forced distance"!. If you had to go through such lengths to "pin him down" which is yet another term I don't like, how are you ever going to be completely secure in this relationship!? And, it does matter to you that he isn't openly emotional!. He may be an amazing person, but what is it costing YOU to be in this relationship on HIS terms!? And make no mistake about it, Aquarius males are ALWAYS in the drivers seat!.!.!.!.!.you may have a say in whether or not there is a relationship, but he decides how far it is going to go!. It's all on his terms!. I don't know many Leo's that can go along for the ride like that long term!. Eventually, you're going to get angry and you're going to be hurt!. I don't see this going all the way to altar, but it should be a good learning experience for you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm Aquarius and I have no problem opening up, showing emotions *when they are truly felt and real* and I am romantic when I like the girl!. It's not something that I can fake!. I think some people read the sun sign characteristic that says we're supposed to be ice cold and they think that it's always the case!. Well, that's so not true!.
I agree with Tiacola, naturally as she is also Aquarius!. Maybe this guy is slow to warming up and opening up to you because he's not as into you as you are to him!. I'm not saying that you can't grow close in the long run but you have to realize that there is a reason why he's not showing that much enthusiasm!. Keep it real!. He may eventually lose interest altogether, especially if you want or need more attention than he's willing or able to give you!.
I'm in a very serious relationship right now and I try to do everything I can to show her how much I love her!. I've been in other relationships that I didn't feel this strongly about the situation!.!.!. and I lost interest!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I agree with Tiacola, naturally as she is also Aquarius!. Maybe this guy is slow to warming up and opening up to you because he's not as into you as you are to him!. I'm not saying that you can't grow close in the long run but you have to realize that there is a reason why he's not showing that much enthusiasm!. Keep it real!. He may eventually lose interest altogether, especially if you want or need more attention than he's willing or able to give you!.
I'm in a very serious relationship right now and I try to do everything I can to show her how much I love her!. I've been in other relationships that I didn't feel this strongly about the situation!.!.!. and I lost interest!.Www@Enter-QA@Com