Water signs drive people away?!


Question: Water signs drive people away!?
I'm a cancer and was wondering if the other water signs experience this too of driving people away (like, far, far, away) because you feel hurt by them!? (their insensitivity!?)Www@Enter-QA@Com


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I have wondered about this often in my life!. I don't make friends easily, but when I do, and when it is a comfortable friendship, it is always with other water signs!. They just get me!.

The people that I notice are in the forefront of making friends are fire signs!. But, fire signs tend to have many acquaintences bordering on friendship with one person they consider a best friend (and, I'm speaking about adults - not teens) and water signs tend to have four for five really good friends that are always there for them because the water sign person has always been there for them!.

I've pushed people away because of my sensitivity, but I've also had lifelong friendships with other water signs that I just "get" and who just "get" me!. Our connection is very, very deep!.

Believe it or not, there are people that you won't want to push away because they simply "get" you better than most!. You won't feel the need to crawl into your shell because they are just as deep (i!.e!. sensitive) as you are and you feel safe with each other because of that!. When a Cancerian - or any water sign - pushes another person away, it is usually because there is an incompatibility when it comes to sensitivity!. Just like when fire signs seem to push a person away, it is usually because the person can't keep up with the fire signs endless reserve of energy!. They are go, go, go types and we are much more laid back in our approach to life and things in general!.

This isn't to say that Cancer is innocent!. We tend to be an all-or-nothing type of sign when it comes to emotional connection!. It's as if we can't handle much of anything that exists on a superficial level!. That really pains us and we become overbearing in our sensitivity!. That is annoying to many, many people for good reason!.

Having balance in one's life is very important!. I don't know about Pisces and Scorpio, but yes, Cancers can drive others away if they don't carefully view a situation outside of their emotions alone!.

EDIT: I'm glad I could help!. I have been there more than you could possibly know!. It was just recently that I decided to stop fighting my sensitive nature and to simply embrace it as a gift!. Doing so makes me less afraid to wear my emotions on my sleeves!. I am only vulnerable when I am constantly on the defensive!. When I allow myself to feel and I am proud of my feelings, no one can tear me down!. I see them as emotionally deficient, to tell you the truth!. A Cancerian's emotions are his/her power and no one can be as empathetic as us, in my opinion!. We spend so much time tearing ourselves down that we, alone, must do the work to build ourselves up!. Our emotional gift is PRICELESS! I reminded another Cancerian poster about this today: The Dalai Lama, Princess Diana, and Nelson Mandela are all Cancers!. Their passions, fueled by their emotions, touched BILLIONS of people!. There was no bigger outcry of mourning in recent history than the death of Princess Diana!. That is how Cancerians affect the world when they value the power of their emotions and use their gift to embrace others!. We're quite special!

Oh, and, if it helps, I've always had contentious relations with Aries, too!. Very tough for me to relate to them for some reason!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

hmm, interesting question!. I know some water signs, and yes, they do tend to drive people away, but it's mainly because they are oversensitive and take things too personally!. Like for example they'll stop talking to people if their feelings get hurt, and withdraw from the world for awhile, and they may never forgive them!. They do say that they feel offended all the time and feel many ppl don't care about their feelings!.

based on experience with water signs!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

Good question Iacuba!.!.!.!.!.

Water signs are very sensitive and have this tendency to dig under your skin even after answering their questions!. While I am a Libra, I do have a few planets in Cancer as well as Gemini/Cancer rising!.
But, I don't probe like water signs do and this is due to Moon in Sagittarius which gives good intuition and know a lot of the answers before they are spoken!.
As for being hurt by them!.!.!.Nope!.!.!. I am sensitive but not a child either!. My Libran traits make me think before answering or opening my feelings!.

My emotions are ruled by the head and at times by the heart, all this, depending on the issue involved!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

There is a sweet lady where I work whose water sign is Cancer!. I would stop at her desk a lot in the morning on my way to my office!. One week, due to a very busy workload, I wasn't able to spend the same amount of time at her desk in the morning (although I still said good morning sweetie-pie as I walked by) and I could literally sense that she was sad that I wasn't stopping to talk to her!.

It wasn't personal and I did still speak, plus this is work!. Anyway, I felt badly and came back over to her!. I told her that I thought that I might have unintentionally hurt her feelings, she started crying and told me that she thought that I was mad at her!. sigh :-/ I gave her a hug and assured her that I wasn't mad!. I asked her why would she think that!? I said nothing bad happened between us I just have a lot of work to do (which she does know)!. Don't take it personally!.

From that day on I did not visit her desk as frequently as I used to because it set a false expectation that I couldn't fulfill to her satisfaction everyday!. I had to back off because there was, in my opinion, far too much emotion for the situation!.

Is it our insensitivity or is it the water signs oversensitivity!? Your decision maybe!

We're still friends and she is a sweetie just a wee-bit too emotional/sensitive :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

yea, i feel that i cant make any friends, ( im a scorpio ) because people just automatically assume that im a cold person without even talking to me and seeing how i am!.!.!. but its ok, i dont try to force anyone to be my friend, i would want it to come naturally!.

as for now my boyfriend is my best friend ( hes a cancer )Www@Enter-QA@Com

yes!!! thanks for asking this question i ask my friend (pisces) this just the other day! but guess what the people we feel we drive away resurface sooner or later coz guess what!? cancers make some of the best friends on the planet!. we're emotional people like that theres always someone they can vent their feelings to !.!.who truly cares!. cancers are adored most of the time they think it's the opposite!Www@Enter-QA@Com

Ive got 3 water signs sun-fish moon-cancer asc- scorpio and yes I noticed that too!. But its odd cuz even when im calm and quiet and not complaining or anything people tend to leave!.!.!.!.

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if its anything, water signs keep people closer and air signs drive people away!. check your venus and its aspectsWww@Enter-QA@Com

Nope!. Sorry

~Cancer femaleWww@Enter-QA@Com

my moms a scorpio(water sign)and she's been married for 50 years!!!!! i guess she didnt drive my father away!Www@Enter-QA@Com

sometimes, esp!. if they are really important to me!.

double scorpio with pisces risingWww@Enter-QA@Com

haha they do, hmm kinda!.!.!. is not they r too sensitive!.!.!. my dad is a water sign and my moms a earth sign and he often make my dad madd cuz hes too lazy! eats everything when hes home!Www@Enter-QA@Com

It depends!. I tend to have a very high tolerance with people I care about, and very low tolerance with people I don't care about!.

If I care about someone, I'll gladly put up with months of "abuse" if something's wrong in their life and they just need someone to vent on!. I'll take catty remarks, being snubbed, focusing anger on me, etc!.!.!. and while it may piss me off, I'll understand and stay quiet about it!. However, if I don't care about someone, then even a small slight will incite me to tear them down instantly and never speak to them again!. And likewise, there's lots of middle-ground!.

I think many people find water signs in general to be overbearing, too!.!.!. be the person too whiny or too intense or whatever!. Water signs can certainly be oversensitive and make big issues out of what most people consider very small things (or even things that people didn't even realise would hurt you or anyone else, for that matter), which we (water signs) then further project onto the person and thus think the person's being "insensitive"!. And that's an odd one for me!. I'm Scorpio Sun and have a fair amount of Scorpio influence, but have Aquarius rising and a fair amount in Sagittarius influence, too!. So when I first meet people, I tend to be very calm, easy-going, optimistic (and at times even cheerful), and seem to take everything very lightly!. But as they get to know me!.!.!. there's usually a defining moment, where something they say or do sparks something in me, and I suddenly go off!.!.!. not necessarily even on them, but just *about* something, in a very intense and intensely over-sensitive way!. And while it's unintentional, that's usually the defining moment - whether someone sticks through it and I consider them a friend, or they're annoyed/scared/disgusted and that's the end!.

That said!.!.!. I really respect sensitivity and compassion in other people (and the consideration to always think of what that entails and how their actions may affect someone else), and it's those qualities that usually make me like and gravitate towards a person!. If, after knowing someone, I conclude that they lack those qualities, then I generally just disconnect from them, and without proper warning!.Www@Enter-QA@Com



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