Is it Possible for Me to Snag This Capricorn Man?!
Question: Is it Possible for Me to Snag This Capricorn Man!?
I met this Capricorn guy the other night and we ended up making out!. He initiated everything (approaching me, kissing etc!.)!. We were pretty drunk so I didn't even think about getting his # but I got it from his friend and left a message last night to call me back!. He hasn't called back yet!. I read that Capricorn men like to test a woman and are very skeptical in the beginning and that they also like to tests women character!. He kept calling me beautiful and complimenting me the whole night which I read is something they are hesitant about doing!. Has this Capricorn guy ruled me out already or do I have a chance!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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I agree alot with Marina!. I am a cappy female and relationships that started out physical while drunk usually don't last long in our eyes!. But we also don't like doing something for nothing at all, there has to be real PURPOSE behind our actions!. I believe he really did admire you for more than just the physical for you to get that close so quick!. He's probably weighing the practical reasons to talk to you again!. We are mountain climbers, if you have some ambition about yourself that will re-spark his interest and let him know it he didn't make a mistake spending an evening with you and there is a chance beyond the physical aspect!. We do need helping loosening up and enjoying ourselves!. The problem is the next day we wonder why we did and its not because of the person, its the constant motivation to make everything we do count positively toward our future!. If you get a response try to make sure the conversation isn't physical!. He'll need to know you were interested in him for other reasons beside something superficial and it sounds like you do see more than just the physical in him!. We love to encourage and teach so if you have a community or business project brewing, share that with him over a walk, coffee, etc!. Usually even when I had been drinking and relaxed the one who caught my attention was the one doing some sort of "shop talk", I'm guessing that may have been the case with your initial encounter and lead him to take things further even in his relaxed state!. We usually don't lay on the physical compliments unless we notice something else about people!. Your conversation may have been mentally stimulating and he thought to himself "she's attractive too!" We believe in killing 2 birds with 1 stone, even while drunk, LOL!. I will also say the friend who gave you the number may be in big trouble now!. I don't even allow my parents and siblings to give out my info without checking with me first!. They have known me long enough to respect that because both parties, the caller and the person who gave out the number, have gotten an earful in the past!. The fact that he opened himself up to you already physically with probably soften the blow on that!. Hope some of this helps!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Cappy guys are tricky!.!.!.!.I managed to "snag" and marry one! LOL Your situation is unique in that you don't really know one another yet, but are extremely attracted to each other physically!. You need to be careful with that!. My Cappy was older when I met him, so he wasn't looking for one night stands or a friend with benefits, or anything casual at all!. We didn't get physical for quite a while---until we knew that it was going to go somewhere!. Of course, my being a Cancer makes me just as cautious as him!.
Anywho, back to you! You got his number and gave a call, and now the ball is in his court!. Don't call again unless or until you hear from him!. Cappy wants the chase and the challenge, and trust me when I tell you that if he thinks the two of you have potential, he WILL make that move!. Just be careful---you have started out physical and it can very easily get heavier in that department and could be the only thing that he's after!. Normally, a Capricorn male is cautious about women and relationships because he wants to make sure you're worth the gamble!. Sex is something different altogether!. If it starts out sexual, it will most likely stay that way and there won't be much substance or heavy emotional commitment to follow!. If it starts out gradual with you getting to know each other on an intellectual and emotional level, then the physical will be a result of his FEELINGS for you!. Isn't that better!? When and if you do hear from him and see him again, take it down a couple of notches and get to know him!. It will be worth it if he's a typical Cappy!. I think they're some of the most fascinating and wonderful people in the Zodiac!. Good luck to you!
also, the fact that he was drunk is what could have made him cast caution to the wind and be more direct with you!.!.!.!.!.!.not that he didn't think you are beautiful anyway, but he probably wouldn't have been nearly as open about it if he hadn't had something to loosen him up!. Cappy's are gaurded!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Anywho, back to you! You got his number and gave a call, and now the ball is in his court!. Don't call again unless or until you hear from him!. Cappy wants the chase and the challenge, and trust me when I tell you that if he thinks the two of you have potential, he WILL make that move!. Just be careful---you have started out physical and it can very easily get heavier in that department and could be the only thing that he's after!. Normally, a Capricorn male is cautious about women and relationships because he wants to make sure you're worth the gamble!. Sex is something different altogether!. If it starts out sexual, it will most likely stay that way and there won't be much substance or heavy emotional commitment to follow!. If it starts out gradual with you getting to know each other on an intellectual and emotional level, then the physical will be a result of his FEELINGS for you!. Isn't that better!? When and if you do hear from him and see him again, take it down a couple of notches and get to know him!. It will be worth it if he's a typical Cappy!. I think they're some of the most fascinating and wonderful people in the Zodiac!. Good luck to you!
also, the fact that he was drunk is what could have made him cast caution to the wind and be more direct with you!.!.!.!.!.!.not that he didn't think you are beautiful anyway, but he probably wouldn't have been nearly as open about it if he hadn't had something to loosen him up!. Cappy's are gaurded!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
capricorn or not, I know how guys think (I have 3 older brothers and a ton of male friends)!.
first of all!.!.!.
you made out with him the first night you met him!. that's bad!. A guy is not going to want to be with a girl that will make out with someone within the first 24 hours they've known them!. he probably thinks you're easy and that's a huge turn off because he's also going to wonder "who else did she do this with!?" or "how far did she go!?"
second of all: for you: you never get drunk with someone you barely know!. that's dangerous and it makes you look like you lack class and common sense!.
third of all: if he wanted you to have his number, he would have given it to you!. I don't like that you had to ask one of his friends for it!. it might be okay if he had called you back already, but he hasn't!. he left no means of communication after you guys made out!? makes me think he didn't want anything to do with you after that!. didn't ask for your number or e mail adress or anything!?
and last but not least, a guy will call a girl beautiful or "amazing" or say whatever to see if he can get in her pants and not even mean it but have some form of hidden agenda!. if he's hesitant about doing that, I don't think it was sincere!.
OKAY!.!.!.!.sounds to me like either!.!.!.!.
he tested you the whole night and you failed!.
or!.!.!.!.
you were both very drunk and it was just the alcohol and nothing more!.
or!.!.!.!.!.
you were both very drunk and he's interested in you too!.
I'm not sure which one!. if he's really interested in you, he'll make an effort to contact you again!. Lay off a bit and see if he calls within the next month!. I'm sure by then he will have gotten all of your messages and if it takes him more than a month to respond, he's not into you like that!.
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I'm not bitter because you don't want to hear the truth!. most of my true, have my back, always there for me no matter what, can trust with anything friends are guys!. I know how they think!. I've even got a!.j!. on the phone with me and he's telling me that if he initiated kissing you he wanted to see what you would do and he really wanted you to push him away!. he says the guy probably thinks you're easy!.
and honestly!.!.!.!.you kind of look like an easy slut for making out with a guy you don't even know!. you don't know who he's been with!. you've known him for less than a week and you're over there swapping saliva and possible STD's!.
I'm not bitter, I'm not mean: I'm real!.
you look easy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
first of all!.!.!.
you made out with him the first night you met him!. that's bad!. A guy is not going to want to be with a girl that will make out with someone within the first 24 hours they've known them!. he probably thinks you're easy and that's a huge turn off because he's also going to wonder "who else did she do this with!?" or "how far did she go!?"
second of all: for you: you never get drunk with someone you barely know!. that's dangerous and it makes you look like you lack class and common sense!.
third of all: if he wanted you to have his number, he would have given it to you!. I don't like that you had to ask one of his friends for it!. it might be okay if he had called you back already, but he hasn't!. he left no means of communication after you guys made out!? makes me think he didn't want anything to do with you after that!. didn't ask for your number or e mail adress or anything!?
and last but not least, a guy will call a girl beautiful or "amazing" or say whatever to see if he can get in her pants and not even mean it but have some form of hidden agenda!. if he's hesitant about doing that, I don't think it was sincere!.
OKAY!.!.!.!.sounds to me like either!.!.!.!.
he tested you the whole night and you failed!.
or!.!.!.!.
you were both very drunk and it was just the alcohol and nothing more!.
or!.!.!.!.!.
you were both very drunk and he's interested in you too!.
I'm not sure which one!. if he's really interested in you, he'll make an effort to contact you again!. Lay off a bit and see if he calls within the next month!. I'm sure by then he will have gotten all of your messages and if it takes him more than a month to respond, he's not into you like that!.
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I'm not bitter because you don't want to hear the truth!. most of my true, have my back, always there for me no matter what, can trust with anything friends are guys!. I know how they think!. I've even got a!.j!. on the phone with me and he's telling me that if he initiated kissing you he wanted to see what you would do and he really wanted you to push him away!. he says the guy probably thinks you're easy!.
and honestly!.!.!.!.you kind of look like an easy slut for making out with a guy you don't even know!. you don't know who he's been with!. you've known him for less than a week and you're over there swapping saliva and possible STD's!.
I'm not bitter, I'm not mean: I'm real!.
you look easy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com