How would you react if one very close friend of yours told you?!

agh i see you forgot the most important thing you said !.i go by what you say not what you ask !.you said your friend !!!!!!!they !.must be a true friend because they were telling you sonmething for your health not worrying if you got your ego hurt !.why because they care more for your health than what you think !.if its true friendship it will survive ! thats good thing
true friends come very seldom in life /on the average any given human only gets 5_7 in a lifetime !.febfirst 1960 845am J A YWww@Enter-QA@Com

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Well if it was indeed actually true I couldnt' deny it!. Probably would be speechless, though it depends on exactly what was said!. If a friend told me I was a d*ck I would ask her/him wtf she/he was talking about exactly lol!. But I know my anger can get the best of me at times and if she/he said that, I would not have much to say!. I will not argue if I know I'm wrong!. I will debate people or argue if I know I am right and can supply proof, but if not I will usually say so!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.

Moon in taurus in the 4th!. Is everything okay Isa!? What unpleasantries could have arisen!?Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I don't mind an honest opinion as long as 1) I ask for it and 2) it's delivered in a tactful manner!. Even the worst news can be relayed to someone in a nice way!. I don't like when people are too blunt without regards for a person's feelings!. Instead of saying something like "that dress looks like s--t on you", it could be said as "that dress doesn't flatter your figure!." There's always a nice way around things!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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i would feel really hurt, but i would look at it honestly and see if they are bitter or it is the truth, and if it is the truth i will try to work on it and make myself a better person :)
moon in scorpio!.

but they obviously arnt a good friend if it is just horrible and they arent try to help u in some wayWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I usually overreact, with an almost absurdly exaggerated response, no matter how minor their statement may have been - I'm terribly sensitive in that way, but then at other times I can accept what people say with total apathy!. It's very odd, I suppose!. My moon is in Sagittarius!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I would think you knew that you were gaining weight before he said anything!.

I might tell him that I could lose weight but people can't lose ugly!. :P Then I might send emails to others behind his back in an attempt to discredit him by spreading lies and innuendo!. I would sew seeds of doubt in the minds of mutual friend in hope that they would alienate him as I would!.

scorpio moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

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I would tell him to drop dead and go out to lunch just the same!. My best friend is Sagittarius!. He nails me and I nail him!.
The score is still 0-0 and i don't expect it to change either!.

Moon in Sagittarius and I do mind :) Oopss Bluntness Damn!

I love expansion!. My Jupiter is in Libra and my scales are expanded to weigh anything :)))))Www@Enter-QA@Com

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It depends on which friend was the one that told me!.
Usually, I confess, I do tend to overreact with that kinda
thing!. I can't really help it!. It hurts sometimes!.

My moon is in Aries, by the way!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Moon in Scorpio :) If he told me something unpleasant, it depends what!. I would kick him or her in the nuts, whoever has them :-)Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I would be in shock and tell them something unpleasant back-something that they wouldn't wanna hear!.

AriesWww@Enter-QA@Com

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If they told me something I didn't want to hear, I'd tell them that I don't care, to just shut up and I'd bring up something as well!.

I'm a Pisces with Aries moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

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Hope fully they would tell me tactfuly--but I think that;s a true friend!.

Cap sun, aries moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I would be upset and want some time away from my friend; I'm an Aquarius moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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I don't get too upset!. I would much rather them tell me to my face instead of behind my back, which I find to be more hurtful!.

scorpio sun / scorpio moonWww@Enter-QA@Com

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depends on who's saying it!. if its my sagittarius bestfriend then i don't mind!. even if his a guy our comments about each other are honest and beneficial!. but if its just an aquaintance of mine, i'll react but arguing or returning the favor (criticize him/her as well)!. before i would just ignore!. but as i have learned from scorpios and sags, i should react or people will walk all over me!. now i'm practicing how :-pWww@Enter-QA@Com

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Hi Isabelle,

Well as a Sag sun, I always appreciate the truth, even if it hurts sometimes!. I don't think anyone likes to hear unpleasant truths about themselves, but sometimes it is those truths that make the greatest, positive difference in peoples' lives!.

I also think that in what context the information is offered determines how I react to it!. If it is offered in a helpful manner, I think about it and try to process this information!. If offered in a malefic manner, then I will fight back in kind, and then later process the whole situation!.

Libra moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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Hi Isabelle:

Gosh, I'm sorry for whatever was said to you!. It seems like it has really deeply affected you!. To answer, I believe that friends should appreciate and accept each other!. If a friend starts picking you apart, thats not a friend!. You know yourself better than anyone!.

Because I don't know the details, this is my first reaction!. Sometimes, there are exceptions, though!. Please don't let it get you too down!.

My Moon is in Gemini!. I wonder would Mars also play into this!? My Mars in is Leo!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

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