Aquarians and "I love you"?!
Question: Aquarians and "I love you"!?
For all you Aquarians out there or people who have dated Aquarians!.!.!. how difficult is it to say the phrase "I love you!?" Like!.!.!.!. say you've been with your partner for a long time and you know you love him/her, why is it so difficult for you guys to get it into words!? I know it's a loaded phrase, but if you feel it why can't you say it!!? This is of course stemming from a personal situation, been with him for a few months 'officially,' but been 'together' for almost 2 years!. It's the slowest moving relationship I've ever been in but the feels have grown so steadily that they are now immense, on both sides!. I honestly just want him to say it first, it would mean so much to me!. Any insight!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Hey Leo!. I am an Aquarius =) Ha, don't listen to some of those other people they seem to have no idea, but some do =D I would say for me I know I feel something, but I just don't want to show or utter any words about it!. I feel uncomfortable about those things even if I feel the same way!. My thoughts and mind are where I am best at, feelings & heart not so much!. All that touchy feely junk is not for me, and I like my space from people getting to close!. I allow it sometimes, but if enough is enough I get away!. I think clingy or controling people are not for me, because I feel like I have to be obligated to them to share my feelings!. Well that is not going to happen, ever!. But I am not calling you those things!. I like my alone time & I like my shields up that way I am in control of things!. So that way the other person has to just deal with the way I am, plus I don't want to get hurt!. Because Aquarians DO have feelings!! (the ones that say we don't are stupid,!.!.we are humans not robots!.!.!.) I see that you understand that Leo & I am just saying to let others know!. So my advise to you would be just to wait a little more, and don't expect everything at once!. It will happen & you just have to put your time into him!. Once you do every once in awhile he will let you in on those deep emotions, and I bet he already tells you every little issue and thoughts on things so that is a start!. So just keep on trying & you will be happy you did!.!.!.!.aquarians are really loyal & will do anything for you!. And if you know he loves you that is all that matters you don't need to hear it to comfirm it!. If love is there it is there!.!.!.nothing more said about it!. He loves you & I am sure he will say it once he is ready too!. And if you want to tell him just tell him , but don't conner him & freak him out!. You should say it in a sarcastic way that way he feels more comfortable!. Sarcasim is sometimes are way of coping with feeling & sometimes being funny =D So take in what I told you and I hope it helps you out!. Good luck!.!.!.!.I know it will work out so no worries :D :D :D **& feel free to to add me to your contacts & I will add you too!.!.!.ok!.!.!.I hope I can help you more =)**Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am Aqua!. I looked at you profile to gain insight into what sign you are!. Your Q&A's are private!.
Us Aquarians are open and honest!. We require the same from our partners!. If you are private here, are you keeping some things from him also!? Just a question for you to ponder!. I guarantee you will not get the "I love you" from him if you are keeping something from him!. Aqua's sense this, but won't always confront on it!. We require honesty from our loved ones!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Us Aquarians are open and honest!. We require the same from our partners!. If you are private here, are you keeping some things from him also!? Just a question for you to ponder!. I guarantee you will not get the "I love you" from him if you are keeping something from him!. Aqua's sense this, but won't always confront on it!. We require honesty from our loved ones!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
For some Aquarius people it is very hard to tell their partner "I love you"!. Aquarius people like to analyze a situation over before making a commitment or getting into a relationship with some one!. They like to live with the person that they love instead of getting married to them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I don't know!.!.!. I'm an aquarian, and I said I love you first to my husband when we were dating, but he's a cancer!. That sounds more like a personal thing than a personality trait!. But aqaurians are really stubborn, so if you're both waiting for the other to say it, you'll never get to it!. If you love them, don't be so silly!. Just say it!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Because it is an emotion!. Its not that they dont feel it!.!.its just they like there independence!.
Don't rush it!. If they mean it they will say it when they are ready!. Besides it is not the words that count but what or how they feel!. Anyone can say " I love you" and not mean it!.
oh btw!.!. I FREAKING LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE!.!.L-O-V-E RILO KILEY!!!!!
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Don't rush it!. If they mean it they will say it when they are ready!. Besides it is not the words that count but what or how they feel!. Anyone can say " I love you" and not mean it!.
oh btw!.!. I FREAKING LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE!.!.L-O-V-E RILO KILEY!!!!!
portions for foxes!.!.!.hell to the yeaWww@Enter-QA@Com
I dated an Aquarius male for over a year!. He told me he loved me after about 2 months!. I was honest with him and let him know I did not love him that way yet, only as a friend!. As time went on I grew to love him but by now he was cheating on me!. Oh the irony!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i am an aquarius!.!.and yess to say the words i love you can be hard because me personally i am very detached!.!.i mean it is not like we dont care but love makes us feel smothered!.!.we need our space and freedom!.!.we do alot better in friendships than in relationshipsWww@Enter-QA@Com
my friend's an aquarius, and it's kinda hard for her to show any love, rather than to say " i love you" to a guy she's dated!. aqaurians are fun, outgoing, but not the mushy, and romantic type!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I agree with Rillies statements completely!. I think saying I love you to an Aquarian is difficult!. you don't know what kind of reaction you are gonna get back!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
How difficult is it!? Well, let me put it to you this way---I had an on again off again with an Aquarian guy for the better part of ten years!. When did I get the declaration of love from him!? When I had already given up and decided to move on with my life!. I know he had feelings for me all along, but he stayed detached and would only form relationships with females that he didn't have any deep bond with!. To this day, he is married to a Leo and the relationship is comfortable, but not ideal, and he admitted to me that he could walk away and not be completely devestated because his emotions are not tied in to her!. He is a rare breed of the Aquarian, and I am certain that your boyfriend does have feelings for you, it's just that it's murder for them to show it or express it through the spoken word!. As long as he is tender and affectionate and is a respectful and caring partner for you, then obviously he cares deeply!. If you love him, tell him you love him!. There is nothing wrong with it---get past the games!. Don't wait for him to say it---if you feel it, say it!. Today, right now---don't ever let your feelings for someone go unspoken!. We never know what tomorrow holds!. I understand it must be hard for you to not have heard I love you after two whole years!. You need to say it---you need to know exactly where you stand!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I dated an Aquarius for two years, and although I am normally not a big believer in these sort of things, it felt like the love was just instantaneous, and it did not take him long to say "I love you" at all!. It was probably the most genuine relationship I ever had with anyone, and the only time those words have actually meant something to me!.
From my own experience, Aquarius likes to take his time deciding whether he is with the right person, but once he's sure, he's the most loving and loyal guy you could have!.
I am a Leo with Leo rising!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
From my own experience, Aquarius likes to take his time deciding whether he is with the right person, but once he's sure, he's the most loving and loyal guy you could have!.
I am a Leo with Leo rising!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My experience and what I have read about Aquarius is that they take everything so light heartedly that nothing is important and nothing really matters!. It could be that he simply is new to the feelings that he shares with you due to that fact that for once in his life he legitimately feels for someone, and that he is confused by how he feels!.
Most Aquarius I know flit around from person to person, either in bed or in friendships or both, and they do not build deep connections with anyone at all!. They keep everything on a superficial level, and they keep the window open so they can escape at night and go to the club!.
So if yours is legitimately in a relationship, then maybe he is just contemplating the right time and place to say it, due to the fact that they can be romantic at times and yet they can also be very aloof!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Most Aquarius I know flit around from person to person, either in bed or in friendships or both, and they do not build deep connections with anyone at all!. They keep everything on a superficial level, and they keep the window open so they can escape at night and go to the club!.
So if yours is legitimately in a relationship, then maybe he is just contemplating the right time and place to say it, due to the fact that they can be romantic at times and yet they can also be very aloof!.Www@Enter-QA@Com