Why is it hard for Libras to say "NO"?!
Question: Why is it hard for Libras to say "NO"!?
For some reason, i find it hard to say no to anything because of fear that i might hurt somones feelingsWww@Enter-QA@Com
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I often wonder about this, but I think it mostly boils down to myself!. I don't like to say no, because I feel saying no is pushing someone away!. It is making their sense of balance unbalance, and being a Libra, I know how crippling or uncomfortable that is!.
Someone coming to you with so much hope and positivity doesn't need a cruel "no" to dash them all!.
Basicaly people who have said "no" to me when they could have said "yes" have incurred a black dot in my book for this purpose, and everytime I say "no", I only feel okay when it's the only thig I could have done, and not more!.
A "NO" said in a whim, to me, is a form of cruelty, especially if the person who came for help believed in you with an open heart!.
That said, I say alot of "NO"s in my life, and usually those are the best path for me!.!. but a "NO" can be softened to "I dont think so!.!.!." or "maybe not!." and seldom, will you find "No" in my speech!.
Libras need their time out and "no" is a good way to build their boundaries, which can easily get violated!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Someone coming to you with so much hope and positivity doesn't need a cruel "no" to dash them all!.
Basicaly people who have said "no" to me when they could have said "yes" have incurred a black dot in my book for this purpose, and everytime I say "no", I only feel okay when it's the only thig I could have done, and not more!.
A "NO" said in a whim, to me, is a form of cruelty, especially if the person who came for help believed in you with an open heart!.
That said, I say alot of "NO"s in my life, and usually those are the best path for me!.!. but a "NO" can be softened to "I dont think so!.!.!." or "maybe not!." and seldom, will you find "No" in my speech!.
Libras need their time out and "no" is a good way to build their boundaries, which can easily get violated!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
libra is the sign of marriage, beauty, and FAIRNESS!. the scales that represent the libra are not just to show their inability to make decisions for themselves, and is not just to show how they can be well balanced!. Libra weighs every situation and circumstance and considers both parties before making decisions!.
they dislike confrontations and disputes, and they would like to have everyone happy and getting along!. therefore it is hard for them to tell others NO that they can not have what they want, because Libra just wants for everyone to be happy!.
the next time you have problems telling someon NO, think about the outcome not for that persons sakes but for your own!. think about if the Yes will bring discomfort to you or a 3rd party, and explain that to the person!. Libra weighs both sides!. it is ok to piss others off sometimes and it is ok to say no!. if it is easier for you, then try saying NO with and immediate explanaiton following it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they dislike confrontations and disputes, and they would like to have everyone happy and getting along!. therefore it is hard for them to tell others NO that they can not have what they want, because Libra just wants for everyone to be happy!.
the next time you have problems telling someon NO, think about the outcome not for that persons sakes but for your own!. think about if the Yes will bring discomfort to you or a 3rd party, and explain that to the person!. Libra weighs both sides!. it is ok to piss others off sometimes and it is ok to say no!. if it is easier for you, then try saying NO with and immediate explanaiton following it!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
it comes from wanting to feel accepted, we're image conscious and don't like the thought of people turning on us and would rather 'get on'!.
but my advice to fellow libran's is to practise the word no if that is what your head is saying, otherwise you spread yourself too thin by living by what others want!. we have great qualitys and being generous is one of em, but people will take advantage of a easy-going nature i'm afraid and who wants that!.
we make friends easy, if you have a fall-out with someone because they are not getting their own way, then is that the sort of friend/relationship you want!. it is hard at first but once you see you are still living and the world has,nt collapsed, it becomes easier to think of your needs; the way that others think of theirs!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
but my advice to fellow libran's is to practise the word no if that is what your head is saying, otherwise you spread yourself too thin by living by what others want!. we have great qualitys and being generous is one of em, but people will take advantage of a easy-going nature i'm afraid and who wants that!.
we make friends easy, if you have a fall-out with someone because they are not getting their own way, then is that the sort of friend/relationship you want!. it is hard at first but once you see you are still living and the world has,nt collapsed, it becomes easier to think of your needs; the way that others think of theirs!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi! I think that it is a fear of disappointment!. Libras are symbolically represented as a scale (balance)!. To them they have to feel like there is a yin to the yang in life!. They also feel by emotion and empathize with others!. I think it's a good quality!. Even sometimes it feels like it weighs on you!. If only there were more Libras!. Well, we have you!. And my 5 year old son is a Libra!. Can't forget my pal Left-T!. What great people!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, for me personally, it depends on who I'm dealing with!.
If it's someone that I really care about & don't want to see suffer, then, yeah, I'm guilty of not saying no!.
But, if it's someone who's just trying to take advantage
of the situation (& of me), then definitely when I say no,
I really do mean NO!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
If it's someone that I really care about & don't want to see suffer, then, yeah, I'm guilty of not saying no!.
But, if it's someone who's just trying to take advantage
of the situation (& of me), then definitely when I say no,
I really do mean NO!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You are right! I am a Libra myself (9/24/1981) and I consider myself a sucker with how passive I am!. I am never one to say no to anyone whether it comes to picking up an extra shift at work or lending someone money!. I don't think that it's the worst thing in the world as I do like to help others out but I do like to see others content and happy!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Oh Gosh!
I totally can relate u!.!.
That is my problem and I can't say "No" bcoz I'm scare ppl might get hurt their feelings!.
But other ppl think we r bunch of losers who can't decide anything!.!.
Whenever I want to do something, I always let other ppl to decide even though I know exactly what i want to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I totally can relate u!.!.
That is my problem and I can't say "No" bcoz I'm scare ppl might get hurt their feelings!.
But other ppl think we r bunch of losers who can't decide anything!.!.
Whenever I want to do something, I always let other ppl to decide even though I know exactly what i want to do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a Libra sometimes I find it hard to say no, others time not so much!. It really depends on my mood!.
It's hard cause just like a scale we like to keep everything balanced and under control and we hate confrontations!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It's hard cause just like a scale we like to keep everything balanced and under control and we hate confrontations!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
they are very often USED by family,wives,husbands and co workers!. it is really sad, but they apparently like it that way! makes them feel accepted and their life choices approved!
how can you be happy when the voice you listen to never yours!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
how can you be happy when the voice you listen to never yours!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
People pleasers, peace keepers!. Just don't become a door mat!. It is unreasonable for people to expect you to say yes every time!. And, make sure these people you are trying so hard not to hurt return the favors!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a Libra and it is hard for me to say no!. The reason is I don't want anybody to be hurt!. If I sense some deception!. I will say no!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
you hit the nail right on the head, we don't like to disappoint people!. When it comes to people we care about we like to see them happy even if it inconveniences us a little bit!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
My mother's a libra and her default answer to most things is!.!.!.
"NO!"Www@Enter-QA@Com
"NO!"Www@Enter-QA@Com