Aquarians... WHY?!
Question: Aquarians!.!.!. WHY!?
I know!.!.!. yet another Aquarius question!. I just don't understand why everything needs to be so scheduled and prioritized in your head!. I ask barely anything from my boyfriend because he's so adament on maintaining a schedule and he prioritizes so many things on top of me, and I'm trying so hard to cater to his needs and understand his head but he won't return the favor!. For example!.!.!. he needs irrational amounts of sleep (like, needs to go to sleep at 10 to wake up at 8 the next morning for work, mind you he's 20) and cuts one of our few serious conversations short because he needs to sleep at that very second!. He rarely opens up like he was tonight and I was getting so much out myself and then bam!. I had so much to say but he needed to leave that second and told me if it was still bothering me in an hour to wake him up!. He knows I wouldnt wake him up he'd complain about it for a week!. Why couldn't he just stay for another 20 minutes!? I know this sounds trivial but it's ALL the time!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Leo, my friend, where in the world has your pride gone to!? I have been in your shoes before---where I would give and give and give to an Aquarian and not get anything in return!. Well, the feelings were there (allegedly) but when it came time for him to listen to me, or give me what I needed, he was nowhere to be found!. Sigh!. You have to start asking yourself if you can really handle being in a one sided relationship!. You're right, as a Cancer, I had a lot of patience and put up with not getting much back for a while, but after a while I burned out!. Relationships ARE a two way street, and this is something you're going to have to drill into this boy's head if you hope to find fulfillment in more than just being there for him!.
You're doing it all---why should he do anything!? It's time to do the opposite of what my crabby self did and put your foot down, girlfriend! I'm serious, sweetie! We all have boundaries that are not to be crossed, and you need to state what yours are!. If you were really important to him he should have stayed awake for at least that twenty minutes to listen to everything you had to say---it's just common courtesy and it speaks of the respect and love you have for a person!. You need to be extremely careful with the Aquarian male!. Stop paying attention so much to what he SAYS and start paying attention to how much he actually DOES, for you for your relationship, for himself!. If you're constantly falling short, then I think it's time you ask yourself if this is the type of relationship you want!. It takes a woman with an iron gut to deal with this kind of man!. He won't change---he is today who he will be in ten years time!. You're BOTH in the relationship, and he has to understand that even on a friendship level he needs to put some effort in!. They're number one priority is THEM!. I know it hurts, but it is the honest to God truth!. When I say I love someone, my actions back it up!. Aquarian males don't back up anything!. It hurts, and I know it hurts you!. I don't know if I help you or not by responding to your posts---but I hope that there is more than intrigue and trying to unravel this mystery here to keep you so hooked!. I'm telling you, I couldn't take it, and I have the patience of a Saint!.
Another thing---it's almost as if they have it down to a science when they will open up and get serious with you!. It's usually when you're at the end of your rope, and it's usually at a time when they can't really talk for long (like what he did before his bedtime)!. It's MADDENING! They toss you a bone just to keep you hooked!. Why!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
You're doing it all---why should he do anything!? It's time to do the opposite of what my crabby self did and put your foot down, girlfriend! I'm serious, sweetie! We all have boundaries that are not to be crossed, and you need to state what yours are!. If you were really important to him he should have stayed awake for at least that twenty minutes to listen to everything you had to say---it's just common courtesy and it speaks of the respect and love you have for a person!. You need to be extremely careful with the Aquarian male!. Stop paying attention so much to what he SAYS and start paying attention to how much he actually DOES, for you for your relationship, for himself!. If you're constantly falling short, then I think it's time you ask yourself if this is the type of relationship you want!. It takes a woman with an iron gut to deal with this kind of man!. He won't change---he is today who he will be in ten years time!. You're BOTH in the relationship, and he has to understand that even on a friendship level he needs to put some effort in!. They're number one priority is THEM!. I know it hurts, but it is the honest to God truth!. When I say I love someone, my actions back it up!. Aquarian males don't back up anything!. It hurts, and I know it hurts you!. I don't know if I help you or not by responding to your posts---but I hope that there is more than intrigue and trying to unravel this mystery here to keep you so hooked!. I'm telling you, I couldn't take it, and I have the patience of a Saint!.
Another thing---it's almost as if they have it down to a science when they will open up and get serious with you!. It's usually when you're at the end of your rope, and it's usually at a time when they can't really talk for long (like what he did before his bedtime)!. It's MADDENING! They toss you a bone just to keep you hooked!. Why!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
I would check your compatibility at the below link!. They are what they are!. also, Here's his horoscope for today:
Daily Overview for June 05, 2008
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One of your relationships is reaching a turning point!. It may be time to move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Daily Overview for June 05, 2008
Provided by Astrology!.com Daily Extended Forecast
One of your relationships is reaching a turning point!. It may be time to move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
That is typical Aquarius!. Accept it or find a Cancer or Libra!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i hate them!.!.!.!.its all about THEM, never u, if they do ever get an occasional FEELING,its always THEIR feeling who they feel, what THEY want!.!.erggh i i feel bad for uWww@Enter-QA@Com
This sounds like my Aquarius ex although!.!.!.if I pouted enough and got all quiet and kind of acted like I wasn't listening to HIM when he was excited or being all philosophical, he would have a fit or ask me what was wrong!. Say "Nothing" but looked really moody!. Make him ask again and then tell him, but don't whine or be emotional, although really you are supposed to be emotionally manipulative!. With Aquarius people, men in particular, it's never give and take!. It's always TAKE TAKE TAKE with them!. Especially when they are young!. So stop giving so much and be more independent!. Find someone else to talk to about your problems and if he gets mad that it happens to be another man!.!.!.!.well then it was his fault for not taking the time to listen to you!.
And if he holds a grudge and say you are uncaring and insensitive because he's got a lot on his plate, tell him "B!.u!.ll!.sh!.it! We all do!. Stop being a *****!.in baby!." If he can't handle this!.!.!.then maybe its time you two took a break!. It doesn't sound like he appreciates you very much!.!.!.
Maybe this is why I dumped my Aquarius!.!.!.twice!. Hm!.I dunnoWww@Enter-QA@Com
And if he holds a grudge and say you are uncaring and insensitive because he's got a lot on his plate, tell him "B!.u!.ll!.sh!.it! We all do!. Stop being a *****!.in baby!." If he can't handle this!.!.!.then maybe its time you two took a break!. It doesn't sound like he appreciates you very much!.!.!.
Maybe this is why I dumped my Aquarius!.!.!.twice!. Hm!.I dunnoWww@Enter-QA@Com
what's do wrong with having your plans organized!?
well!.!. he may be avoiding u!.!.!. we rarely open up, i do know that!.!.!. but well yes!.!. that's a defect!.!.!. well not really!.
I don't know what else to say!.!.!. but he probably doesn't want to talk about it!.!. u look mad but i'm sure u love him ha
Aquarius
OHHHH ignore him for a while!.!.!. i can certain u that we hate that!!!
so he'll be like!.!. what's wrong now!?
so u'll talk about ur problem !.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
well!.!. he may be avoiding u!.!.!. we rarely open up, i do know that!.!.!. but well yes!.!. that's a defect!.!.!. well not really!.
I don't know what else to say!.!.!. but he probably doesn't want to talk about it!.!. u look mad but i'm sure u love him ha
Aquarius
OHHHH ignore him for a while!.!.!. i can certain u that we hate that!!!
so he'll be like!.!. what's wrong now!?
so u'll talk about ur problem !.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Okay!.!.!.!.I know this is really bad of me but!.!.!.!.!.I just wanted people to read the"Which two signs do you think would be able to pull off a murder together" Question!. I wrote an answer/ story and I would really like people to read it!.And, question asker, I think it might cheer you up!. It was posted a few hours ago I think!.!.!.!.Sorry!. I will totally help with this question when I come back!.
Alright!.!.!.Aquarius!. I have moon in Aquarius and have read about it a million times!. Although everything you listed is the negative side of Aquarius, I didn't hear anything about the good side!. I don't think that your being unfair - I think that your Aquarius is being a total jerk and you need to let him know that you are in the relationship too!. Aquarians can go through phases, give him a little time and if he doesn't get better!.!.!.!.!.well, lose him!. I am totally on your side and wish for the best :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
Alright!.!.!.Aquarius!. I have moon in Aquarius and have read about it a million times!. Although everything you listed is the negative side of Aquarius, I didn't hear anything about the good side!. I don't think that your being unfair - I think that your Aquarius is being a total jerk and you need to let him know that you are in the relationship too!. Aquarians can go through phases, give him a little time and if he doesn't get better!.!.!.!.!.well, lose him!. I am totally on your side and wish for the best :)Www@Enter-QA@Com
This may help : Many Leo-Aquarius relationships thrive on unending mutual admiration!. Leo admires the individualism, vision and creative characteristics of Aquarius!. In turn, Aquarius admires the Lion's zeal, charm and dignity -- Aquarians always have new ideas, but they don't always have the drive to make those ideas real as Leo does!. Both Signs pride themselves on their independence, but conflicts can arise if
Leo and Aquarius are both Fixed Signs!. Leo gives Aquarius the courage to charge ahead and take action, rather than just sitting in the lab formulating ideas!. Aquarius's originality can impress Leo, as can their unique vision!. They are both loyal and extremely devoted to one another, and when they understand that they don't necessarily need to be in charge all the time, they can succeed side by side!.
Leo seems too demanding or Aquarius seems too aloof!. Both partners should respect differences of perspective in the other!. Leo can be too dramatic for Aquarius' taste, but Aquarius in turn could be too unsteady for their Leo counterpart!. If they communicate to one another the value of the relationship, everything will be okay!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Leo and Aquarius are both Fixed Signs!. Leo gives Aquarius the courage to charge ahead and take action, rather than just sitting in the lab formulating ideas!. Aquarius's originality can impress Leo, as can their unique vision!. They are both loyal and extremely devoted to one another, and when they understand that they don't necessarily need to be in charge all the time, they can succeed side by side!.
Leo seems too demanding or Aquarius seems too aloof!. Both partners should respect differences of perspective in the other!. Leo can be too dramatic for Aquarius' taste, but Aquarius in turn could be too unsteady for their Leo counterpart!. If they communicate to one another the value of the relationship, everything will be okay!.Www@Enter-QA@Com