I'm an emotional reck *sob*...please help me!?--Aquarius related?!
Question: I'm an emotional reck *sob*!.!.!.please help me!!?--Aquarius related!?
I've been with my bf only since feb!. He's a really nice guy and also my first boyfriend(I'm 20, he's 26)!. Things is, he's really distant as far as emotions and he travels quite a bit so we're nnot physically together very often!. I noticed that with, him, whenever I express how I feel, he backs off making him even more distant!. I avoid telling him things that I feel very deeply and even calling him sometimes because I think he'll think I'm too clingy and run away from me!.!.something I don't want to happen!. I don't know if it's the feeling of wanting what you can't completely have or what but I think I'm in love with him!. I've never felt this intense about anyone in my life and don't know what to do!. Today is the first time I've openly cried about it because I think about this guy all the time but I feel like he can't give me what I want as far as emotions and undertsanding how I feel for him and not coming off as being weird!. I would do anything for this guy but I feel like at this pointWww@Enter-QA@Com
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I had similar experiences and feelings with my first "true love" (who was also my first sexual partner)!.!.!.Eventually I was just really honest about how I felt!. Just be totally honest!. Tell him that you have really strong feelings for him, but you feel like he is emotionally distant, and it confuses you!. He'll either talk it out with you and give you reassurance or he'll back away and be more distant (which is a sure sign that it is time to give up on this relationship!)
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I KNOW WHAT IT IS ITS THAT IF HE IS TOO TOO CLOSE TO U WHEN HES GOING TO BREAK UP WITH HE DOESNT WANT TO FEEL BAD AND HE DOESNT WANT U OR HIM TO GET EMOTIONALWww@Enter-QA@Com
make sure if yall break up you dump him first, that way he'll want you back!!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Awwww!.!.!.first boyfriend makes the attachment sooo much stronger!. You have to slow down your feelings though!.!.!.you've only been dating him since February someone having feelings that strong for this timeframe could cause discomfort especially since he is older than you!.
I know it is hard but you have to slow it down!.!.!.be busy too!. Go out with your friends, have a great time just have tons of fun so you can keep things at a slower pace!. You have a lot more time to think about him, especially since he travels a lot!. Everyone holds back a part of their feelings at the beginning!.!.!.in time, if he is the right guy, you will be able to open up and talk to him about how you feel freely and know that it will be received well!.
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I know it is hard but you have to slow it down!.!.!.be busy too!. Go out with your friends, have a great time just have tons of fun so you can keep things at a slower pace!. You have a lot more time to think about him, especially since he travels a lot!. Everyone holds back a part of their feelings at the beginning!.!.!.in time, if he is the right guy, you will be able to open up and talk to him about how you feel freely and know that it will be received well!.
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little one he's scared of commitments and doesn't show feelings well due to past experiences but you need to tell him your feelings or let him go as to save your insanity ps ask him about when he was 16 or 17 and that might answer some questions to open a door!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
First, you say you put on a facade, thats going to make it hard for him to tell what you are feeling and what your intentions are!.
Look, I don't know you or him, from your post it seems you have some pretty strong emotions and confusion!. You could probably do with talking to a person you trust and I would definitely suggest you talk to this guy otherwise you are not going to go very far!. Honestly, try talking, talking openly not with any facade or full defences up, I don't think it is possible to get much better advice than that from strangers but who knows!.
Oh and don't worry or pay any heed to your sign or his, they do not mean anything and cannot effect you or him!. It is all down to you and him alone!.
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Look, I don't know you or him, from your post it seems you have some pretty strong emotions and confusion!. You could probably do with talking to a person you trust and I would definitely suggest you talk to this guy otherwise you are not going to go very far!. Honestly, try talking, talking openly not with any facade or full defences up, I don't think it is possible to get much better advice than that from strangers but who knows!.
Oh and don't worry or pay any heed to your sign or his, they do not mean anything and cannot effect you or him!. It is all down to you and him alone!.
All the best!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Is it really worth it if you have to hide a part of yourself and you can't be who you are!? If I were you, I'd let him know how you feel and how he deals with it is up to him!. In general, most Aquarians feel very awkward talking about their feelings and showing them makes them feel even more uncomfortable!. I'm Aquarius and when someone starts asking me about my feelings I literally have a panic attack!. At that moment, I'll say or do anything to stop the conversation!. Not because I'm not feeling the same way!. It's because I'm terrified of exposing myself emotionally and giving someone else the chance to ridicule or hurt my feelings!. Oddly enough, I love to hear about other people's feelings so that I at least know where I stand with them!. I mean when you have one person that's holding everything in then there has to be one that's comfortable talking about feelings!. I know he's hard to understand as most Aquarians are when it comes to relationships!. Still, you need to be able to be yourself around anyone that you're intimately involved with!. Otherwise, the relationship will gradually fall apart anyway!. Good luck!Www@Enter-QA@Com