How do you fight with a Scorpio?!
Question: How do you fight with a Scorpio!?
I'm a Libra and my fiance is a Scorpio!. Every time we argue about something, he always shuts down and I always want to solve it and talk about it!. Over time now he's opened up more than in the beginning but its still hard to open him up sometimes!. How can I get him to open up and tell me what he's thinking so we can solve our arguments easier!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
Scorpio will open up on his or her own time!. Don't think that because he is quiet, all is cool!. Yo have to look inside him and that is next to impossible!.
If you do discover something about him, hust remember that it is because he is letting you see what HE wants you to see!.
To achieve any kind of peace and harmony, you may have to be more considerate of his feelings!. Scorpio must try to keep an open mind and not be so restrictive in his attitudes toward Libra!. He will also have to handle the finances, as you can't see any sense in budgets or wasting time in worry over paying the bills!.
He has to also be sensitive of Libra's aesthetic sense of balance!. He must take time to use his intelligence to its best advantage and you'll discover a lifelong friendship and sentimental romance rolled up into one!. However, when you are not in the romance scenario, you are arguing intensely!.
Am I correct !?Www@Enter-QA@Com
If you do discover something about him, hust remember that it is because he is letting you see what HE wants you to see!.
To achieve any kind of peace and harmony, you may have to be more considerate of his feelings!. Scorpio must try to keep an open mind and not be so restrictive in his attitudes toward Libra!. He will also have to handle the finances, as you can't see any sense in budgets or wasting time in worry over paying the bills!.
He has to also be sensitive of Libra's aesthetic sense of balance!. He must take time to use his intelligence to its best advantage and you'll discover a lifelong friendship and sentimental romance rolled up into one!. However, when you are not in the romance scenario, you are arguing intensely!.
Am I correct !?Www@Enter-QA@Com
From personal experience, I am quite cunning and harsh when argumentative!. It take a bit to get me worked up, but when you do, I always regret the situation as most things are not worth arguing over!. Conversing and equality of mind are key, for I would rather meld our minds then arouse anger within myself, no matter how enjoyable the feeling can be!.
Although I want to add, I was in a relationship with an Aries who was emotionally childish and threw tantrums about the most selfish of reasons without and sort of validity in argumentative meaning!. After awhile I just shut down because it was too much for me to handle, and can remember one time where she was complaining about her paying for everything, and how I never had money (because it all went to gas driving us around) and I just handed her my only $20 just to end it!. She eventually realized the ridiculousness of the situation and gave it back, but arguments are not preferable to me unless I feel passionate about what I am defending!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Although I want to add, I was in a relationship with an Aries who was emotionally childish and threw tantrums about the most selfish of reasons without and sort of validity in argumentative meaning!. After awhile I just shut down because it was too much for me to handle, and can remember one time where she was complaining about her paying for everything, and how I never had money (because it all went to gas driving us around) and I just handed her my only $20 just to end it!. She eventually realized the ridiculousness of the situation and gave it back, but arguments are not preferable to me unless I feel passionate about what I am defending!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios can be very moody and draw in quickly, typical Scorpio!. Just slowly work with him and don't badger or he will shut down deeper and get annoyed!. Being with a Scorpio takes A LOT of patience believe me!
As a Libra you desire balance!.
As a Scorpio he desires to curl up and stew about anything!.
Just be patient and understanding and he should come around!Www@Enter-QA@Com
As a Libra you desire balance!.
As a Scorpio he desires to curl up and stew about anything!.
Just be patient and understanding and he should come around!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios and Libras usually don't work out, but I bet you guys could make it happen!. Talking about it!? Big mistake!. Scorpios want it their way, and if they don't feel like talking, they won't talk!. No matter what happens, open up to him!. Show him how loyal, caring, and how great you are!. If you tell him everything, he'll do the same for you!. Fighting with a Scorpio is hard, especially since they might probably win, so avoid fights!. hope it works out!. :]Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a fellow scorpio, and I know that Scorpios usually just want to be alone when they are upset!. So leave him be and let him cool down!.!.!.we dont like to open up right away!. So don't try to pry!. It just annoys us even more!. He'll open up to you when he feels its the right time too!. Just give him the comforting notion that you are there for him when hes down!. Then move on!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
shut down as in stop talking!? try not to fight!. if you want to make the arguements easier you breakdown!. he will feel bad and stop arguing but if you do this too much he will think your weak!. just get him to stop or you stop yourselfWww@Enter-QA@Com
You need to be very strong with him, but wait until he is actually receptive!.!. I am married to a scorpio and both my parents and grandpa were scorpios and now I know how to deal with a scorp!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
He's a Scorpio and he DOESNT want to argue!? You just found the needle in the haystack!.Www@Enter-QA@Com