Heartbroken cancer!?!
Question: Heartbroken cancer!!?
I have just been 'dumped' by my scorpio man and i'm in extreme pain!.Cant eat or sleep!.
We were together for 9 months and got along amazingly although he was a bit of a wild child when i first met him!.He started to settle down more and i got him liking the quiet life at home cuddled up on sofa,movies etc things were gd!.
He recently called me and said he didnt like feeling 'tied down' and wanted to go out and party and take drugs without me trying to stop him and didnt want the relationship any longer Quite pathetic really! i know but i'm extremely sad! he always worshipped the ground i walked on!.I tried to stop him from being too 'young minded' a few times and it pissed him off eventually i suppose,i am against drugs etc
I don't know how to get over this!.He used to txt me constantly!.he used to always tell me how amazing i was and i was so in love!.Now he has completely withdrawn!.i hear nothing!.!.!.!.
Do you think he is as sad as me!? Or do men (and scorpios) move on quite quickly!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
We were together for 9 months and got along amazingly although he was a bit of a wild child when i first met him!.He started to settle down more and i got him liking the quiet life at home cuddled up on sofa,movies etc things were gd!.
He recently called me and said he didnt like feeling 'tied down' and wanted to go out and party and take drugs without me trying to stop him and didnt want the relationship any longer Quite pathetic really! i know but i'm extremely sad! he always worshipped the ground i walked on!.I tried to stop him from being too 'young minded' a few times and it pissed him off eventually i suppose,i am against drugs etc
I don't know how to get over this!.He used to txt me constantly!.he used to always tell me how amazing i was and i was so in love!.Now he has completely withdrawn!.i hear nothing!.!.!.!.
Do you think he is as sad as me!? Or do men (and scorpios) move on quite quickly!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Answers:
I'm sorry for your pain and I understand completely!. I have a Scorpio man of my own and they are not easy to deal with most of the time!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.Being a Cancer, you are nurturing, caring and devoted!. I'm sure he knows that and I'm also certain that he is just as sad as you and misses you too, but his pride won't allow him reveal these emotions to you!. It's true, Scorpio men cannot be changed and once it gets any inklings that you are trying!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.he will freak out!. Give him his space and time!. Don't chase after him, don't contact him!. Just let him be and if he truly knows deep down what he HAD and how good you were to him, he'll come running back!. When a Scorpio withdraws his energy for any reason, it can be quite painful, but you must stay strong, keep yourself occupied, treat yourself, hang out with loved ones or friends!. Move on with your life because you need to and deserve a break from all that madness!. You can do it! Leave the past in the past!. If it was meant to be, you will be with him again and hopefully, he will be a better man!. You deserve a lot better and you have to realize that!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!.!. It's going to hurt badly for a while, but with time, your wounds will heal!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
You tried to change him,, it never works, either love them for who they are or leave them alone!. You cant change a person,, they have to want to change!. Move on!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
What a jerk he is and you don't need a drug addict boyfriend!.
Lose the dude!.!.!.!. He has no conscience !.!. Remember he is living in his drug related world and is clueless and careless in all his thoughts and actions!.!. Best you stay far away from him!.!.!.!. He is withdrawn due to the weed or what ever he is taking!.!. Too bad!.!. hopefully he will get some help soon!.
Scorpio men are sometimes risk takers, pyro maniacs, and their actions speak louder than their words!.!. Don't regret a thing!.!.!.!. don't be sad either!.!. Be happy that it happened early rather than a long voyage down his sad road!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Lose the dude!.!.!.!. He has no conscience !.!. Remember he is living in his drug related world and is clueless and careless in all his thoughts and actions!.!. Best you stay far away from him!.!.!.!. He is withdrawn due to the weed or what ever he is taking!.!. Too bad!.!. hopefully he will get some help soon!.
Scorpio men are sometimes risk takers, pyro maniacs, and their actions speak louder than their words!.!. Don't regret a thing!.!.!.!. don't be sad either!.!. Be happy that it happened early rather than a long voyage down his sad road!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
i'm a cancer and i went through a similiar situation with a scorpio guy except he just stopped calling me out of the blue !!when everything was fine and all) (and he also wasnt on drugs) so anyway i was really confusedddddddd and hurtt and blah blah and we didn't talk for months! so i didn't even try to contact him and he eventually came back! and this continued for years!.!.!.he would disappear then come back!.!.disappear then come back!.!.!.until i got so sick of it one day I STOPPED calling him! anyway my point is, scorpio men love to play mind games!.!.actually sorry the immature ones love to play games like that and ur sounds very immature!. just ignore him and he'll come back!. the more u try to get him to come back the more he's gonna ignore u cause he thinks ur always gonna be there!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well firstly, I think it's admirable that despite his interest, you weren't into the drugs scene!.I can swear that I have never ever even put a cigarette in my mouth let alone any kind of drug!.!.!.!.that doesn't make me too young-minded and it doesn't with you either!.I'm sorry to say but I truly think it was a case of a woman loving a man who preferred to act like a boy!.
You're worth more than that!.
I also think he won't be as sad as you!.!.!.!.!.if he was, drugs wouldn't come into the equation hun!.He'd have been there with you right now rather than hurt you!.
Maybe he'll wise up, maybe he won't!.!.!.!.!.but you need to *try* to move on in the meantime and live your life because drugs will be very much allowing him to live his!.I know it's hard and I know it's easier said than done!.!.!.!.everyone has had their heart broken at some point and I still remember how painful it was to this day!.!.!.!.!.but you WILL feel better soon I promise!.Chin up :o) xx
Edited to say!.!.!.!.!.I'm a Scorpio and I'm nice!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
You're worth more than that!.
I also think he won't be as sad as you!.!.!.!.!.if he was, drugs wouldn't come into the equation hun!.He'd have been there with you right now rather than hurt you!.
Maybe he'll wise up, maybe he won't!.!.!.!.!.but you need to *try* to move on in the meantime and live your life because drugs will be very much allowing him to live his!.I know it's hard and I know it's easier said than done!.!.!.!.everyone has had their heart broken at some point and I still remember how painful it was to this day!.!.!.!.!.but you WILL feel better soon I promise!.Chin up :o) xx
Edited to say!.!.!.!.!.I'm a Scorpio and I'm nice!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
They say that time is the healer of all wounds and it takes each person a diffrent amount of time to get over something or someone!. Its very sad when something like this happens, especially if you love someone so much that you certainly dont want them self distroying themselfs on drugs etc!. But unfortunately there is nothing you can do to help him!. He has to make his own experiences and mistakes, to learn from them!. He might not think about you as much at the moment , but trust me, the day will come when he will regret all the hurt he has caused you!. A Person like that doesnt realise what they had until its too late and its gone!. Lets hope he doesnt leave it too late to come to his sences!. You on the other hand, need to get out into the world and start doing something with yourself!. What dreams have you had or hobbies you have always wanted to do but never got round to!? maybe now is the time to start concentrating about things like that!. That way it will take your mind of him and you can start enjoying your life again!.
I wish you all the best in your future!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I wish you all the best in your future!.Www@Enter-QA@Com