I thought she was my friend, well at least one of them?!


Question: I thought she was my friend, well at least one of them!?
Hi-
I have two friends that at one point i was very close to!. One is a scorpio who I find a amzing person!. I never felt like I could express my deepest feelings to her but i could always have a great laugh with!.

Then I met Ms Taurus and we had a amazing time together no matter what we where doing, then i became pregnant and she distant herself from me I just dont undersatnd I was always there for her!.

Scorpio has her old boyfriend back and I never hear from her, so Im really hurt!. I feel like after I have my baby should I still be friends with them!.Www@Enter-QA@Com


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Hi,

There is so much you are saying here, but also so much is unknown - mostlly your friends point of view!.

Motherhood changes a lot of things in life, including friends!. Single people with no children sometimes are not interested in maintaining relationships with moms and vice verse!. It is just life, and you have to accept that sometimes!. After the little guy is born, you might want to join some moms groups and make some new friends with people who have more similar life issues!.

Good luck with your friends, whatever sign they may be!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

I suggest that you look beneath the surface!. Ask the scorpio why she no longer speaks to you!. Perhaps she heard a bad rumor about you and believed it!. Or maybe she thinks you'll want her to babysit all the time!. Find out what the prolem is and try not to jump to conclusions!. If they are re also ask the taurus why she stopped speaking to you after you got pregnant!. Maybe she is superstitious and thinks your "pregnantness" will rub off on her and cause her to get pregnant!. Or maybe she thinks you'll want her to babysit all the time!. Find out what the prolem is and try not to jump to conclusions!. If they are real freiends, they will try to remedy the problem with you and be there for you!. Personally if it was me, I would never talk to them again, but only after digging beneath the surface!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

You just need to communicate!. She might have a good reason behind not talking to you!. Just ask!. She is the only one with the answer!.
Others are right people change in life!. That is the only thing we can count on is change!. However, I would hate for you to throw a friendship away without trying!. If it doesn't work then!.!.!.!.Atleast you know u tried!.

i am me: If you did that for me I would appreciate it!. Don't think I would change!. Maybe that is just me though!. We are too similar you and I!. You have a friend if you need one!Www@Enter-QA@Com

I am 100% for "i am me" answer!!
I've had some similar experiences!.!.!.!.and I know what u might be feeling!.!.!.!.!.u know people are just like that!.!.!.!.!.at no moment should you blame yourself!.!.!.!.those type of people are selfish in some way!.!.!.!.!.i mean, they usually consider only their benfit and dont give a damn to what the other person might feel/think etc!.!.!.!.just dont give it too much consideration!
Its like that! Am soooo sorry 4 u!Www@Enter-QA@Com

One thing you can do is ask the m why they take distance!. They are the only one who can explain that to you!.Www@Enter-QA@Com

i understand what you mean, i've even had the same!. Listen to this, I've had a bestfriend (virgo) who was very close to me and after awhile all of a sudden she stopped talking to me, people use to tell me she was like this but I really liked her!. i use to bring her coffee every morning and donuts (what i do best rofl) so yea just like that she changed, and I was deeply hurt, I use to ask my friends why would anyone do this and they toled me, thats life!.!.people change get use too it and dont take it personal!.

So i will tell you the same, don't take it personal and understand the world is filled with people who think about themselves only!.!.!.so do the same and focus on YOU rather then anyone else, make yourself happy first :)

cheersWww@Enter-QA@Com



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