Are you tired of overly emotional,se!
Question: Are you tired of overly emotional,sensitive,apathetic people who complain!? How do you respond to them!?
Whats your sun and moon sign by the way!?
Me: Scorpio sun, Aquarius moon
I respond to them by giving them the "help yourself!."
I don't know if this is normal for a Scorpio but the Scorpios I know let them get dragged down!. It doesn't mean I don't understand their behavior!. I just get really tired and don't have time for it!. I tend to find overemotional situations undesireable!.
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Me: Scorpio sun, Aquarius moon
I respond to them by giving them the "help yourself!."
I don't know if this is normal for a Scorpio but the Scorpios I know let them get dragged down!. It doesn't mean I don't understand their behavior!. I just get really tired and don't have time for it!. I tend to find overemotional situations undesireable!.
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If it's every once in a while and someone is truly going through something then of course I'll gladly lend my shoulder!. However, there's nothing that annoys me more than a person that is constantly whining and complaining about how bad their life is!. At that point, I'm just wishing that they would either do something about it or stfu!. I have one family member that calls me everytime she's sick and whines about every little symptom!. When I'm sick though, I don't bother anyone with it!. I just want to be left alone!. Chronic complainers are the ones that I avoid like the plague!. I'm a LOT more compassionate towards other that at least try to be strong!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
scorpios who have strong self control, expect others to follow suit!. so it is annoying for you when your fellow water signs are whining and throwing pitty parties left and right!. it is as if they expect others to take care of them, like they can't do it themselves, like they expect the world to owe them something!.
if you don't want a whiny brat for a mate or friend, then go for virgo or capricorn!. they are earth and much less likely to exert such behaviors!. they are more independant and have strong control over their emotions!. and they are compatible with scorpio!.
me personally, I don't mind a whiny scorpio or pisces or a finicky picky virgo etc!. but I am a capricorn which means I am opposite of cancer!. I don't understand them and I can't stand their whiny obnoxious, temper tantrums and pitty parties!. they drive me up the wall with their over emotional wild child behaviors!. I find them annoying AND embarassing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
if you don't want a whiny brat for a mate or friend, then go for virgo or capricorn!. they are earth and much less likely to exert such behaviors!. they are more independant and have strong control over their emotions!. and they are compatible with scorpio!.
me personally, I don't mind a whiny scorpio or pisces or a finicky picky virgo etc!. but I am a capricorn which means I am opposite of cancer!. I don't understand them and I can't stand their whiny obnoxious, temper tantrums and pitty parties!. they drive me up the wall with their over emotional wild child behaviors!. I find them annoying AND embarassing!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Who wouldn't get tired of a person like that!?!.!.Geez my energy is being sapped just reading about that type of person :-)
I have to admit that at first I get sucked in by a person who is emotional or sensitive!.!.!.I never get sucked in by the apathetic complainers though!.
Anyway, the emotional sensitive person will make me feel bad for them initially but if I notice that they have a pattern of poor me pity party syndrome and they are always needing emotionally from you but do not reciprocate this same kind of support to others than it becomes old really quickly!. I will become less and less available is how I handle it!.
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I have to admit that at first I get sucked in by a person who is emotional or sensitive!.!.!.I never get sucked in by the apathetic complainers though!.
Anyway, the emotional sensitive person will make me feel bad for them initially but if I notice that they have a pattern of poor me pity party syndrome and they are always needing emotionally from you but do not reciprocate this same kind of support to others than it becomes old really quickly!. I will become less and less available is how I handle it!.
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Tired of them!? No, because I don't have many of them in my life!. Most of the people I surround myself with are cool!. But there was this one lady I used to know, and that's all she did!. I mean ALL she did, every time she talked to anyone!. And that's not cool!. Not for her, and not for others!.
But even so, I don't get tired of people!. I have compassion, and if I need my space, then I just get it!. If I feel I can help, then I do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
But even so, I don't get tired of people!. I have compassion, and if I need my space, then I just get it!. If I feel I can help, then I do!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sun in Libra/ Moon in Taurus
I detest whiners and complainers and have no soft spot for them!. They get on my nerves and often can get the best of my temper as well!. I strongly believe that they are just being weak wimps and that they want people to be sympathetic for them!. Generally I will give advice on how to help them if they ask, but if they don't put any effort forward immediately , I'm gone!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I detest whiners and complainers and have no soft spot for them!. They get on my nerves and often can get the best of my temper as well!. I strongly believe that they are just being weak wimps and that they want people to be sympathetic for them!. Generally I will give advice on how to help them if they ask, but if they don't put any effort forward immediately , I'm gone!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am Taurus Sun & Sagittarius Moon
I always look at am I Helping or Hindering this person
If the help is not excepted I let them be as it is a lesson they have to learn and I don't need to take on Karma for interfering with someone else's lesson
Some people have to go through the darkness before they can see the light of day
Love & Blessings
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I always look at am I Helping or Hindering this person
If the help is not excepted I let them be as it is a lesson they have to learn and I don't need to take on Karma for interfering with someone else's lesson
Some people have to go through the darkness before they can see the light of day
Love & Blessings
MillyWww@Enter-QA@Com
My sister is a scorpio and she is kinda the help yourself type as well!.!.!. if she did help, she would be all mad to do it!.
Me!.!. I am an aries with aries moon!. I like helping people because I feel good about it!. However, complaining people annoying because I don't want their negativity to bring me down!. I just tell them to chill out & that things will get better!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Me!.!. I am an aries with aries moon!. I like helping people because I feel good about it!. However, complaining people annoying because I don't want their negativity to bring me down!. I just tell them to chill out & that things will get better!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
It is your Aquarius moon that makes me this way!.Air signs hate what they consider 'weak complaining BS'!.I have a Pisces moon and sometimes i sympathize but most of the times no!.
Scorpios also dont like complainers either!.no wonder!.who does!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Scorpios also dont like complainers either!.no wonder!.who does!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
I am a Taurus & I often respond by not responding!. I have found that generally if people get no reaction to their action, they will just leave you alone after they realize nothing is working!. But prepare for the backlash!.!.!. Especially with females!.!.!.
Sorry if I offended anyone!.!.!.
Not really though!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Sorry if I offended anyone!.!.!.
Not really though!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I listen and shake my head a lot
I am curiuos by nature and compare me to them
I listen and sometimes give them advice!.I also know that when I see that person I know what to expect from them
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I am curiuos by nature and compare me to them
I listen and sometimes give them advice!.I also know that when I see that person I know what to expect from them
I am a scopio wLeo moonWww@Enter-QA@Com
Im a scorpio girl also and i cant stand needy or whiny people as well especially my tauras boyfriend he gets on my nerves when he acts very negative and needy and clingyWww@Enter-QA@Com
I absolutely haet it when people do that! I'm too tired to express it but I don't like it!.
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well, it depends!. i'm a cancer with aries rising so i'm sensitive and emotional, but at the same time, very pushy and short-tempered!.
if they cry all the time at stupid or little things, i do tend to be driven to the point of yelling at them, telling them to shut the hell up!.
i had that kind of experience with a libra pal a few years ago!. she would cry and cry over stupid, ridiculous things!. i mean, if you're gonna cry, have a good reason! to add to that, she was one of the most spoiled people i have ever met, and then she had the nerve to innocently brag about it!.
finally, one day she began tearing up because i wouldn't let her read a journal i had been writing in!. i explained how it was really personal, but her face suddenly turned red and she started to sob!. i finally lost it and began screaming at her, telling her she was such a wimp, and she needed to mind her ******* business!. Maybe my short-tempered aries traits took the best of me that day!. we never talked again!.
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if they cry all the time at stupid or little things, i do tend to be driven to the point of yelling at them, telling them to shut the hell up!.
i had that kind of experience with a libra pal a few years ago!. she would cry and cry over stupid, ridiculous things!. i mean, if you're gonna cry, have a good reason! to add to that, she was one of the most spoiled people i have ever met, and then she had the nerve to innocently brag about it!.
finally, one day she began tearing up because i wouldn't let her read a journal i had been writing in!. i explained how it was really personal, but her face suddenly turned red and she started to sob!. i finally lost it and began screaming at her, telling her she was such a wimp, and she needed to mind her ******* business!. Maybe my short-tempered aries traits took the best of me that day!. we never talked again!.
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