Cancers and sensitivity?!
Question: Cancers and sensitivity!?
I'll say it as short as possible: I will tell my bestest friend sweet things like "I heart u!." or "I am so glad we're best friends!." I know Cancers have a shell but I'm his best friend and he's told me that I'm the only one he confides in about everything (specifically emotions!.) so I thought I was past his "shell"!. Do Cancers not like hearing things like "I am so grateful for you!"!? I mean really!. Who could resisit that!?
I'm an Aries with a Taurus moon, and he's a Cancer with a Cancer moon!. Oh and he's gay so it's not as if us saying those things would mean anything more!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm an Aries with a Taurus moon, and he's a Cancer with a Cancer moon!. Oh and he's gay so it's not as if us saying those things would mean anything more!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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Well, I'm a Cancer female, and I am not very verbally expressive with my emotions!. I don't know how to communicate those things, so if I tried it would cause me embarassment and frustration!.!.!. And leave me quite vunerable (which I hate to feel)!. HOWEVER, I feel for people on an EXTREMELY deep level!.!.!. I try to show them how I feel through my actions rather than words!. Whatever they need, whenever they need, I am there!.
So, I would say if he is a good friend to you don't worry about him not expresssing his feelings!. Is he there for you when you need someone!? Does he provide a shoulder to cry on when no one else cares!? If you had a flat tire at 3 in the morning would he rush to help!? =) You know what I mean!? I don't know if it's all Cancers or how I am individually, but we are the epitome of "actions speak louder than words"!.!.!. Some things just can't be expressed with words!.
OH and we LOVEEEEEEEEE to hear things like "I'm grateful for you"!.!.!. But it might make us appear embarassed or aloof because once again we don't know how to react or what to say!. BUT TAKE MY WORD FOR IT!.!.!.!. We desparately need to hear it!. So even if he doesn't react the way you'd like, keep saying those things to him!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
So, I would say if he is a good friend to you don't worry about him not expresssing his feelings!. Is he there for you when you need someone!? Does he provide a shoulder to cry on when no one else cares!? If you had a flat tire at 3 in the morning would he rush to help!? =) You know what I mean!? I don't know if it's all Cancers or how I am individually, but we are the epitome of "actions speak louder than words"!.!.!. Some things just can't be expressed with words!.
OH and we LOVEEEEEEEEE to hear things like "I'm grateful for you"!.!.!. But it might make us appear embarassed or aloof because once again we don't know how to react or what to say!. BUT TAKE MY WORD FOR IT!.!.!.!. We desparately need to hear it!. So even if he doesn't react the way you'd like, keep saying those things to him!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
well we cancers are a little wack!. but most of us train ourselves to show no emotion unless we trust someone with our whole heart!. but he's gay to so the n the emotions run higher cause cancers we can only take so much!. that's why we trian to show no emotion!. but when it comes to saying something like "I heart you" that's one thing that means we are gratful for having that person around!. but saying something like that tpo him might be okay or it might be a little strange for him!. but i would go with something like "i heart you too!." or " always and forever!." good luck!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I would post sweet songs on my best friends page and tell her I love her all the ti me!. I'm a cancer!. Its just we get burned a lot because we are so nice and we really do put up with a lot of sh*t!. So we eventually turn away and give up!. But like I always used to do really sweet things for people!. People would wake up and I would be like good morning sunshine! haha ik I think it depends on the individual!?Www@Enter-QA@Com
Yeah I think blondeqtpie13 is right!. Some guys are just not as expressive, doesn't mean he doesn't feel it!.
My Gemini male best friend says I wuv u! He will never say I love you it is always wuv or luv!. Hey it's the best he can do and I know he really loves me!.
If you two are bffs then you know he loves you too! Just keep saying how you feel (if and when you really want to) and eventually if and when he feels comfortable he will too!
Don't take it personal!Www@Enter-QA@Com
My Gemini male best friend says I wuv u! He will never say I love you it is always wuv or luv!. Hey it's the best he can do and I know he really loves me!.
If you two are bffs then you know he loves you too! Just keep saying how you feel (if and when you really want to) and eventually if and when he feels comfortable he will too!
Don't take it personal!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Going off of the Cancers I know; they do keep their real feelings bottled up a lot!. It doesn't mean they don't have them!. It's just that they are very private, and only share them when they are ready to!. Once they've warmed up to you, and trust you though, they should be able to say things comfortably!. This is what I've seen!. Some Cancers may be different!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I'm a cancer and I'm very emotional and sappy!. I tell my friends and family how I feel about them often!. BUT we are talking about a guy here!. It's normal for a guy to not express his feelings and emotions often!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your Taurus Moon is what shines through to him as a Cancer/Cancer!. Of course this crustacean loves affirming comments, but you may wish to switch from "I" heart you or "I" am so glad we are best friends or "I" am so grateful for you!. These platitudes are much more effective if simply saying nice things about him!. Try, "your hair looks very nice today" or "that shirt is a good color on you"!. But they must be genuine and heartfelt as Cancer can spot a fake from 10 miles away!.
Your Aries Sun may be a bit too playful, active and "spur-of-the-moment" for this crab to be trully at ease with you!.
Cancer does not express verbally often, it is more subtle, more often spoken with a look or other body language!. Aries Sun wants the gratification of the WORDS that are simply not there for children of the moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Your Aries Sun may be a bit too playful, active and "spur-of-the-moment" for this crab to be trully at ease with you!.
Cancer does not express verbally often, it is more subtle, more often spoken with a look or other body language!. Aries Sun wants the gratification of the WORDS that are simply not there for children of the moon!.Www@Enter-QA@Com