How do I calm an overly emotional, apathetic, stubborn Taurus who doesn't li!
Question: How do I calm an overly emotional, apathetic, stubborn Taurus who doesn't like being lectured for the better!?
I'm a Scorpio and I have very stubborn female Taurus friend who is always overemotional with me with her problems and no matter how I try to help her!. She says she doesn't want to be lectured!. I usually am a person that cooperates with the needs of friends but I'm getting tired of this!.
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Answers:
That's just the way she is!.!.!.!.I'm a Taurus also!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Well, lecturing and advising her are the opposite of good listening!. You are likely just irritating her with your judgementalism!. Your attitude of trying to 'calm' her is condescending!. Perhaps you need to discover how to be a good listener!.
Once you have listened to her, then she may be prepared to listen to you!. But, your opinions mau change if you truly, TRULY listen to her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Once you have listened to her, then she may be prepared to listen to you!. But, your opinions mau change if you truly, TRULY listen to her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Don't waist your time on her if she is to full of her self and bitchy
then you need to drop her off the cliff!.
As a fellow Scorpio me advice stay away from a Taurus and most of a Libra!.!.!. Stick with Cancers and Aries!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
then you need to drop her off the cliff!.
As a fellow Scorpio me advice stay away from a Taurus and most of a Libra!.!.!. Stick with Cancers and Aries!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Hi: It's really not all about signs!. When she becomes emotional, apathetic and suborn!. Tell her that sometimes she needs to pray!. The more you suggest she will eventually change!.
Take care, God bless!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
Take care, God bless!!!Www@Enter-QA@Com
I have a close Taurus friend, exactly like your friend, too --- stubborn! What I do is I just make the "lectures" sound like suggestions!. It works for her so might work for your friend!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
try to avoid judging her!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Why do you feel the need to lecture your friends!? Why can't you just be empathetic and a good listener!? Most people just want to vent and have a shoulder to cry on!. Try to be more understanding!. A good friend provides what their friends need from them!. That means sometimes biting your tongue, and just being there for them!. You need to stop looking at it from a "know it all" perspective!. There is something for you to learn here!. You can learn how to be a better quality friend!. I mean, look at it this way, you can continue to try to cram your point of view down your friend's throat (which no doubt agitates both of you further) OR you can just be her friend, and end up being the kind of friend she is telling you she needs!. Wouldn't you feel better about yourself, if you knew you had made her feel better instead of worse!?
Just give it a shot, try to be empathetic, keep your opinions to yourself unless they are inquired for!. I guarantee, it will go better next time!. Once she has gotten it out of her system, and she feels like someone cares about her and heard her out, she will feel better, and thank you for being a good friend and a good listener!. You will then feel good about yourself, because you will know you have figured out how to be a good friend for this girl!.
We all need different things at different times from our friends!. The best friends are the ones who take that into account, and are wise enough to tailor their approach to their individual friend's needs and wants!. Learn how to be a good friend more, and worry about telling everyone else what they are doing wrong less!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Just give it a shot, try to be empathetic, keep your opinions to yourself unless they are inquired for!. I guarantee, it will go better next time!. Once she has gotten it out of her system, and she feels like someone cares about her and heard her out, she will feel better, and thank you for being a good friend and a good listener!. You will then feel good about yourself, because you will know you have figured out how to be a good friend for this girl!.
We all need different things at different times from our friends!. The best friends are the ones who take that into account, and are wise enough to tailor their approach to their individual friend's needs and wants!. Learn how to be a good friend more, and worry about telling everyone else what they are doing wrong less!.Www@Enter-QA@Com