Just what does the scorp really want?!
Question: Just what does the scorp really want!?
Four months ago, me and a scorp guy broke up cause he didnt want a relationship and I did!. Since then I got together with someone else, but me and the scorp still see eachother and sleep together!. I know that's bad, but I just cant resist him!. My heart aches for him!. We dont just sleep together!. We cuddle, laugh, hold hands and sometimes I stay at his place for a few days!. Recently he has been saying weird things when drunk, like "I'm so jealous of your bf and the guys you have been with since me", "We could work out ya know if we didnt rush things", "I want you to be my girl but i dont trust you with other guys", "you're mine really arent you", "I hate when you go off to your bf's and then just leave me til you come back, I feel like u r using me" even though it's more him who has been using me!. He even said "I'm in love with you" once when drunk!. I have not reminded him of this as he may have been chatting BS or may not remember, but it's said the truth comes out when drunk!.!.!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
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For most people when drunk, the truth usually do come out and in this case I would say he's pretty much spilling his guts!.!.!.especially about he wanting you as his girl, but he don't trust you with other guys!.!.!.!.because trust is a huge issue with scorpios!. And besides, look at what you're doing!.!.!.you have a bf already and still missing around with this scorp!. So who's to say you won't do the same to him!.
I think he really likes you, but doesn't trust you!.!.!.and that's the real issue with him not wanting a committed relationship with you!. He is more so playing the FWB role, therefore, there is nothing written in stone as a committment!. The best advise/opinion I can give is what you already stated somewhat, end the relationship with your current bf (because that is not fair to him) but continue to casual date other guys therefore this scorp wouldn't loose interest in you!.!.!.because he definitely will if he knows you are completely available!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
I think he really likes you, but doesn't trust you!.!.!.and that's the real issue with him not wanting a committed relationship with you!. He is more so playing the FWB role, therefore, there is nothing written in stone as a committment!. The best advise/opinion I can give is what you already stated somewhat, end the relationship with your current bf (because that is not fair to him) but continue to casual date other guys therefore this scorp wouldn't loose interest in you!.!.!.because he definitely will if he knows you are completely available!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
Even though I am a big fan of astrology, I'm not going to base his astrology sign on this just because this seems like an intense and confusing situation!.
and also because I'm dating a guy that has that sign but he's different from your guy!. My guy knows what he wants and I can understand him!. He used to drink but he took a u-turn and never drank again!. He saw how it ruined him and now he is really strong and just keeps empowering himself!.
It seems like you both have a huge gap infront of you that holds many secrets!.
If I was you, I wouldn't be sleeping with him!. It's like trading kind of!. You try to win his fickle emtions with sex, bad idea!.
If he's cuddling and laughing with you still, seems like he went from being unsure about you to really liking you!. I think he really likes you, in love with you!.
And everything he said when he was drunk just spilled out, maybe he was telling the truth!.
But it really does seem like he doesn't know what he wants!. I would just leave him because it seems like you'd be fighting wars with him everyday!.
but if you still want to hold on to him, make him feel like you are trustworthy, respectful, and honest!. Every relationship needs those three to work!. You could have something really good with him!.
but it's still you're choice, choose wisely!.Www@Enter-QA@Com
and also because I'm dating a guy that has that sign but he's different from your guy!. My guy knows what he wants and I can understand him!. He used to drink but he took a u-turn and never drank again!. He saw how it ruined him and now he is really strong and just keeps empowering himself!.
It seems like you both have a huge gap infront of you that holds many secrets!.
If I was you, I wouldn't be sleeping with him!. It's like trading kind of!. You try to win his fickle emtions with sex, bad idea!.
If he's cuddling and laughing with you still, seems like he went from being unsure about you to really liking you!. I think he really likes you, in love with you!.
And everything he said when he was drunk just spilled out, maybe he was telling the truth!.
But it really does seem like he doesn't know what he wants!. I would just leave him because it seems like you'd be fighting wars with him everyday!.
but if you still want to hold on to him, make him feel like you are trustworthy, respectful, and honest!. Every relationship needs those three to work!. You could have something really good with him!.
but it's still you're choice, choose wisely!.Www@Enter-QA@Com